₦airaland Forum

Katier00:
All are important but 3 is the most

hmmm

Simplep:
4,when there is respect,so many good parts will be added

Good one

chiommy123:
No 2, 4, $

What about no 6

vanida6:
My own is number last

Girls and money is 6 & 7

alterswerve:
It depends on the relationship sha.

3 is the center of any meaningful relationship as far as I know

But 4 is important

All the following are important but which one is the most important in relationships

Changing your shape for personal reasons is okay, but for man! I don't see any reason for it

Girls that are slim are working to become fat while those that fat are running around to be slim and mostly because of one man they never marry to. Will that hold your man down from leaving you?

andyanders:
My brother this your advise doesn't add up at all in a situation like this. That will be the end of the marriage. Two days was too far. An instant judgement at that point.

We always see things from different direction

Vizzy4u:
Op welldone! Title says two days,body of the message says two weeks. Does it makes it clearer...... Chai.....

Read it very well, the man apply for divorce two days after marriage but is now two weeks

Good morning
Please your humble opinions are needed here.

A guy who just got married two weeks ago is seeking for a divorce as a result of the wife's rude behaviour to his mother at the reception hall.
What transpired was that on the wedding day, when the wedding was almost ending, a couple from the mother in-laws' side came from a far distance to grace the occasion. They came in when everything tangible to offer them has finished. A portion of food the bride left for her parents was the only good delicacy left. The mother in-law went to the daughter in-law and whispered to her to allow her collect small portion to serve those couple owing to the fact they came from a far distance to attend the wedding and it will be quiet unfair to let them go without offering food, but the lady refused bluntly that the food is for her parents. After series of pleading from the mother in-law with no positive response, the mother in-law took a plate collected food from there to serve the guest. The daughter in-law took the food from her and poured it back to the cooler. Out of annoyance, the mother in-law slapped her and she slapped her back without hesitation.

The people around the scene told the husband immediately what happened. The man decided not to create a scene at the reception hall. Two days after he applied for a divorce. The case is on-going now. Despite the plea from his mother to forget and forgive the wife after all it was her the lady offended yet he refused.

Did the man act right?
If you are the man, what will be your action?
If you're the lady, was your action towards the mother in-law justified?

So, ladies and gentlemen what is your take on this?

NB: True life story, no fiction.

Shelumiel:
Are you not tired of watching these two make a fool us ? What happened to the idea of you being in a political party that can contend with the likes of these ...

What they do is that, they make us hungry for food and give us only if we support them. People are suffering!

From all side, I just notice that APC is still playing opposition and PDP that suppose be playing opposition didon't even try to do that but continue ruling.

Rasheed2567:
in order words if you no like as things be change am or shut the Bleep up

Exactly

Dear uncle,

The difference between your girlfriend and other women you are admiring and falling for might just be five thousand naira.

The pretty dresses and designer shoes you're complimenting sheepishly on other women are also available in the market.

The wigs and weavons you see on other women that is making you go crazy can be bought on a cheap at park N shop.

How much is a handy makeup kit? Pancake, eye shadow, liplos, tiro, dusting powder, foundation, cement, paint and crayon cannot be more than 3k in yaba or 182 pound road Aba.

Invest in your woman!

There is no beautiful garden without a committed gardener. The reason why she is beginning to look less attractive to you is because you're allowing the weeds outgrow her roses.

Pluck them off and see if she won't match up to the other women you're admiring.
Don't be quiet when she's carrying her hair undone for weeks.

It should bother you if she's been wearing those same torn shoes for months, when she visits you in those shoes uncle how do you feel escorting her to the bus?

Stop by the store if she's not smelling nice, the Nivea roll-on and body spray package is not more than two thousand naira, and encourage her to be spraying it fuuufuuufuuu with the fear of God so that it will last.

Uncle been broke can make a beautiful woman ugly, sometimes stroll to the ATM and surprise her with an unexpected alert, no matter how little, especially when you noticed she's having a little financial challenge, then send her a sweet text like "baby, please hold this money for me, I love you",..we both know that one is dash, but just imagine the huge smile you'll bring to her face, a good woman will always appreciate her man's effort.

What am trying to say is, make a tiny budget for her every month, or every 2months, according to your financial strength.

A good man takes out his tithe, takes out his seed, takes out his savings, and keeps a little something somewhere for the woman in his life.

It is your work uncle, after God chased you out of the beautiful garden of Eden He erected another Eden in Eve.

Nurture and tend to your garden uncle, the grass is always greener in the house of the man who pays his water bill.

And we are not ready to learn from our mistakes, look at issues of our Pastors, is even worst with them

rumours:
'The problem is that those who have ideas have no power and those with power have no ideas...And the affinity of the electorate for those without ideas is 3' Ask the saibabarians and the gullible change chanters.

God will help us

God will help us

codekanle:
Ok

Ok

Solution to all this is good governance, Nigerians are too self centered. They don't think about even their relative not talking about their town or their country. But the worst is that we fear God, instead of us to love God and our pastors are using that against us.

ejibaba:
So what is the way forward? We all can't be political thieves and we all can't contest political office.

Who then is not a thief? The irony of life is we're all thieves. The only thing is some have not gotten the opportunity to steal.

From the seller on the street that aims to make supernormal profit to the bus conductor that deliberately ensures you forget you balance. The bricklayer that steals some of the blocks for your building or electricians that buy fake wires and connects them poorly knowing you will call them to fix it and get paid for it.

Is it the civil servants or company workers that inflates contract sums or the gate man that steals the office or house diesel and fuel.

We all need a revival and orientation of our mind

One that is killing this generation is we are not contempted

Irony of Life in Nigeria
Rich man marries and have 4 children. Poor man marries and start mass production of children that he can't afford to train because the only thing that gives poor man joy is the body of his wife.
The country has beaten him to the level that sex is his only idea of enjoyment.

Politicians steal your money, sleep with your wife and girlfriends and sister, make sure you don't go to school, even when you struggle to, he makes sure you don't finish on time let alone getting a job.

He sends his children to the best schools abroad so they will take over from him when he is done playing with your future.

He initiates a poverty alleviation program, videos himself cutting tapes during the mounting of an electric pole. He gives you N4000, bags of rice at rallies and arms to fight his opponents.

He paints the roads and puts Street lights when there are no light in your home. You hail him!

He spends millions on billboards of his fake projects, hires the best PR experts to keep you drooling with hunger and uninformed and keep on doing damages to your common sense. You defend him.

Second tenure, no jobs, no food, the N4000 has finished and the bag of rice wasting in the pit of your toilet. He must recover the billions he spent buying your votes. For he is not qualified to lead but you qualified him.

You start making use of the guns he bought you. You kill the poor like yourself who is suffering the effects of the N4000 and bag of rice that you took. You try to Kidnap his friends, their police orderlies fire back at you.

His friends tell him that there is insecurity in town and it will affect their mobilization for him for second term.
He shouts ahhhh, second tenure is like the second round of sex that puts one to sleep after, except, perhaps, he works for vivid entertainment or one of those Hollywood porn industries.
He complains of lack of security to the commissioner of police and General Officer Commanding, Air Officer commanding or the Flag Officer Commanding.

He spends millions hosting them. They tell him what to do. By now, you have become a threat.

He buys even a bigger gun for the police and the military plus operational vehicles.

He pays for radio and TV jingles to warn you.

You rob, you die. You protest, you die. You stay at home, you die of starvation.

Then, you get recommended to a church and since you can't pay tithes, pastor turns you into an errand boy.
He sends you to buy biscuits for his children, wash pants for his wife and clean his cars.

You sweep the church for free while awaiting your heavenly reward while the pastor fly private jets and drive flashy sedans.

You are happy that your pastor is rich and argue for him in midst of your friends.

He runs to the UK at the slightest symptoms of headache but prays for you when you are sick and tells you to bring your sick mother to church for prayers instead of taking her to hospitals to waste money.
She dies and he tells you that it was God's will while his mother has been in the UK for months receiving the best treatment that tithes can buy.

He buys a new land for a new church branch, you help to carry blocks and turn concrete, then collect blessings as reward. You are happy to be working for the salvation of your soul, heaven will pay.
The pastor lives his heaven on earth.

The new church building is completed on your sweat.

He invites the president, governor, senator, house of representative member and every other person who made sure that you are poor by design.

The whole area is policed with guns and armored cars. You are comfortably seated at the back while straining your neck to see who and who came.

The president and governor and senator plus their contractor friends donate hundreds of millions for the new church while you cheer from the back.

The food they shared didn't get to you but you are happy the president and governor and senator came to your church. You even brag to others of how your pastor is well connected.

You get home, hunger Knocks angrily on the belly door, your neighbor bails you out while you wait for heaven to pay.

10 years on the jobless job, pastor's children have been sent abroad for studies. Age is no longer on your side, pastor hooks you up with another aunty that sweeps the church for free with no education just like you and Weds you both on a Friday evening church service and you are happy. Your children starts the cycle all over again.

What is the difference between an Ordinary Thief (OT) & a Political Thief (PT) ?*

1)* The *Ordinary Thief* steals your money, bag, watch, gold chain etc.;
But the *Political Thief* steals your future, career, education, health & business! �

2)* The hilarious part is: The *Ordinary Thief* will choose whom to rob; But you, yourself chose the *Political Thief* to rob you. �

3)* The most ironic one: Police will chase and nab the *Ordinary Thief;* while the Police will look after and protect the *Political Thief!*

That’s the *travesty cum irony* of our current society!

_And, we blindly say we are not blind!_

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deomelo:
And where are you going to train the school children?

In a school, a conducive and a well equipped environment or under the tree in your backyard?

So called leaders of tomorrow are so mentally lazy, intellectually incompetent and vision less.

I like this ur work ooo
Hope they pay u well

deomelo:
If good structures are good and you also need good structures, then why are you crying because the government provided good structures?

Or you think the government spent money on new schools because they don't need good students and good teachers? Or they told you that they are not going to hire good teachers to teach in these schools and produce good students?

If you are so concerned about good education and good WAEC results, shouldn't common sense tell you that you have to lay good and lasting education foundation by first providing the necessary learning and conducive education environment ad the tools necessary to achieve good results?

How do you even get a good education and good teachers without first providing the tools required and good education infrastructures?

Can you provide good WAEC results without good schools and for students and for teachers to teach in?



You are not making any sense and it's not by force to criticize.

Omo ti a ko ko lo ma gbe ile ti a ko ta (let first train this student so that they will not sell this your boss buildings tomorrow) my man think about tomorrow not today. Thanks

deomelo:
https://www.osundefender.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/SALVATION.jpg



You mean the old one like the one in the above picture that Aregbeshola demolished and rebuilt was stronger than the new one in the same above picture. ?





The new schools are built with steel and can last up for more than 100 years.

Stop talking and criticizing just because you can. if you are going to criticize, do it with sane, rational and valid views that you can back up with facts.

I did not criticize him, I know you are pay to do this but try and do it rightly, structure is good but good education is more than structure. We need structure, that is nice but we need good tutor that will teach those student. If u did not get me try and check Osun WAEC and NECO

deomelo:
How do you in the first place get good education or have teachers teach school kids without good schools, conducive environment for learning and sound education infrastructures like the ones we are looking at in this thread?

Or you mean we should not build good schools until we have education and teachers or you just think all we need is education/teachers and not a good school building where they go in the first place to teach and get the same education?

I don't know know why some of you criticize with zero basis and sound thoughts.

We still have some buildings that we can mention and use this money to hire more qualified teachers. How many of those they build now can withsttthe what those old buildiaare have withstand