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JustJesse:
I'm a freshman in the University of Ibadan (not gonna specify my department). We're resuming next Monday (online) and a WhatsApp chat group has been created by some of my course mates, I joined and checked through the profiles, from the names and profile picture I was almost certain that I was the only male there, then they started doing this introduction with their real names ಥ‿ಥ.
As at now, we're about 40 in the group and I'm the only human with a penis ಥ╭╮ಥ

If you are not in the medical sciences, or you don't plan to be an entrepreneur, or you don't plan to migrate abroad, just know you're studying a useless course.

Switch to a different department if you know what's best for you.
After 4 years of "flexing" you realise the course is not marketable, and there's a reason men who planned to be breadwinners did not major in such discipline.

Even if it is for free. I won't advice anyone to stay with people like OP.

Proceed at your own risk

Dapcity007:
Rigged election
And you know it!!

Lolzzz
Longest tym how have you being?

Egalitarianistic-Equalism is a myth, as long as men and women are biologically different and some cultures still have prejudices against women , and women due to their solipsistic, rationalization hamsters and dissociation nature of thinking with emotions and feelings, I don't see how they can ever be our equals

Scandanavian social re-engineering via affirmative actions,quota policies, has not led to the desired outcomes for their societies as gender differences has widened

I read this in Jordan Petersons voice

tobechi74:
Modern society is primarily orchestrated by men, for men. One area penis-swingers seem to take particular interest in legislating, is women’s bodies. In fact, men grant themselves more rights to our bodies than they grant to us — the actual owners of those bodies.

I resent this. The only persons who should have any say in what happens to my body are myself and a medical doctor. Men should not have the privilege to determine when my consent or revocation of the same is valid, whether I should give birth to a child of rape, or whether I can take birth control.

The quoted text is not true, you are simply regurgitating one of the major issues the Suffragettes fought against in the 20th century.
You are a woman in the 21st century, no man decides what you do with your body. No man decides whether you should give birth to a child of rape, no man decides for you whether you should use birth control, you do it of your own volition.

Asides this, your other points are valid.

odinson1:
Thats Because women don't really care about men,they are incapable of loyalty, Gratitude and selflessness (except when it comes to their Children)
so They will only give you Advice that will suit their Selfish and hypergamous narrative,in other words, advice that will favour only Your Girlfriend/wife Even at Your own expense

also,don't expect good relationship Advice from your sisters or mother,their first allegiance is to the sisterhood

He who has ears let him hear.
OP this advice might sound very bad to the ear, but trust me it is coming from a place of understanding.

It is almost impossible for a woman to give relationship advice that is neutral or will favour the man. They do it unconsciously with zero bad intentions, because they themselves cannot understand the man's dilema

A fisherman does not learn how to fish from a fish, he asks his fellow fishermen who have their nets full with fish.

OP It was not always like this.
There was a time when mutual respect was the order of the day here.
You were respected based on your opinion and not on your gender. That was around 2008 - 2012.

Then feminism became the reigning fad, feminism being the ultimate shit test.
Nairaland men and MOD's failed woefully. And trust females, when you give them an inch, they take a mile.
Nairaland females capitalized on that, infact they overdid it. Then you would see threads like

"Why all Men are Scum"
"Miss Nairaland and Mr Nairaland Competition "
"Nairaland men stop disturbing me with PM"
"Nairaland Beach Party, Men #3k ladies free"
And some other stupid threads I can't remember
This was around 2012 - 2017

2017 was the dawn of a new age. The age of the miseducations. Nairaland men were so pussy whipped it took a Zimbabwean all the way from South Africa to see how bleeped we were.

The resistance was tough, very tough. We remember all the female monikers that have gone extinct.

Now it's the turn of Men, and trust Men to be brutal, that pent up anger is what you see displayed every day.

Nairaland is a perfect subset of Nigeria. What you see happening here is happening all over the country at large, if you don't look you won't notice. Coupled with this year 2020 bringing out the worst in us.

Things will never go back to normal, but we will find a compromise and meet in the middle.

Mine went smoothly, came back from work, logged in, wrote the test and immediately saw my score on the dashboard and my email