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bimbod:
try lost boy by Ruth b

Slept off on this song after several repeats

boofydon:
#TeamIronman any day. I like black panther and the hilarious spiderboy

I saw the trailer yesterday.
I think Captain America's cause was right.
So #teamCaptainAmerica till I see the movie

Gat another very similar to "sound of silence"?

Susie Suh - Here with you....not in love with the lyric tho' but song is cool

bimbod:
reaper by sia, have you heard it?

Cool

bimbod:
try downloading sound of silence too, it's a powerful song

Love it

bimbod:
reaper by sia, have you heard it?

Nope....lemme download

bimbod:
I like avicii, maybe I'll check dis one

The lyrics should cheer you up

Post another song

Avicii - The nights

Hmmm.....dunno tho' but download Enya's Horizon.
It might assist on reflection, no lyrics tho'

kingreign:
Great man awfa?

My Chief, I am good sir
Trust you are good too

SirWere:
I'm telling you, I have seen cases of men who cry after they beat their wives. Men who swear with everything they hold dear that they will never do such again only to find themselves doing the very same thing........

When I say no, I know what I'm talking about.

Then you are saying no human alive can ever change right....hmmmm

saaedlee:
I never said humans are leopards!
In what way does the highlighted words mean "punching" "slapping"? Issues and quarrels are done with the mouth and not hands.
You see, any time my pregnant grilfriend and I quarrel, I channel all my energy into words, if she talk one I go talk 39, na so we talk sotey we go come dey exhausted, and we go settle no body raises a hand on each other, but If it were other guys na slap and punch go end am.

Why quarrel at all since she is very special?

Till you get to meet that special woman who you can't raise your hand on, you will still beat that one you beat up before.

By this, it means you will always quarrel with her no matter what, and you would not change.
My bro, different folks and different temperaments.
Fact is people change. Someone who is nice today can go brutal tomorrow, same way as someone who is brutal today can be the most affectionate tomorrow

sinaj:
Yes it's possible




Marriage counselling nd therapies can actually help.

The first different answer on a situation like this.
Can you explain further.
Regards!!!

saaedlee:
Just here to read the lies.
Can a leopard change its spots? Till you get to meet that special woman who you can't raise your hand on, you will still beat that one you beat up before.

Humans are not leopards.
Do people who meet their special woman ever have issues at any point in time?
Are you saying they have never quarreled?

akanniade10:

Be nice bro
More like the knob is made of foam for the 2 year old to be able to push it in with his thumb and then downshift to drive

Lately, I have read stories and comments here on nairaland about husbands or boyfriends beating their spouse.
All comments have been on the defensive of the receiver of the abusive relationship.
I know it is a wrong thing to be in a abusive relationship especially for a lady.
A man could beat up a woman lets say once, twice, thrice etc, for some maybe, a time comes when they realize their mistakes and decide to make amends, while some go all brutal by the day and never make amends or show remorse.
Now, is it possible for a woman beater to possibly amend his ways?
Are we saying no such person has ever changed his ways and loved his spouse more than before?

cc: mhizeva

Dominique; Lalasticlala


In what ways can a wife beater change?
As posited by nairalanders on this thread.....
1. Knowing God: Total submission and acceptance of the heavenly father through fervent prayers and the will to change is the first step to be taken in order to put a stop to such act.

2. Understanding the purpose of marriage: Marriage is the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law (Webster Dictionary).
Before marriage or relationship, we all go through the wooing stage or courtship. During this time, we had a focus of being the best and not having the mindset of beating or humiliating our spouses. It is expedient that we realise the true purpose of our union and delve out of the beating process.

3. Self Realisation: By self realisation, I believe our spouse must have set a certain condition for us to realise the mistake we made down the lane of the abusive relationship. But we should try not to let it go to a limit which is off the edge before we realise. Sometimes it could be too late, but nothing is impossible. You must be willing to take full ownership of the choices you made. Enough pleas must be added also.

4. Self value: We should know our usefulness or importance in a relationship.

5. Conflict Resolution: There are better ways to resolve disputes with our spouses. Some persons are temperamental and don't know how to control it. Finding alternate means is the best way out rather than hitting. Best way is to walk away when angry or when offended. By this, your spouse will know she hit a nerve when you ignore her or decide not to eat her food.


A wife beater can surely change his ways. It all depends on his will and determination. Don't take your spouse for granted. Let's also learn to forgive and forget.
Thank you.

timilehing:
Toyota Camry 03?

Car was left in park position, the car was driven to that position without switching off the engine hence you can change the gear position if you want to move again without stepping on brakes since the hand break was on.

Spot the lie hahaha hahaha
cc: gazzuzz, siena, mayor2013, nurey, kingreign, please is this possible cos I think I don't know

moneyallowed:
Thanks bro

We need a striker or 2.
Someone in the mold of Aubameyang.
I hope we sign a good dribbler who is pacey and strong, more like a pacey and energetic Lamela. Chadli can never dribble a defender succesfully

moneyallowed:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVEZ8L_uBw4

It's little stuff like this that make me love Tottenham

Wow

moneyallowed:
How on earth am I just discovering this thread?? Been keeping away from the sports section before now cos there's no Spurs fans to discuss with.

So glad! Followed. COYS!!

Welcome on board Bro.
#COS

GAZZUZZ:
hyundai tucson, kia sportage 07-10 you don't need to press brakes to release from park

Is this the gear lever? It has a knob. A 2 year old can't press and downshift.
If it is maze-like, a 2 year old can't move it to drive.

And chief, who leaves a car running with AC turned off while windows were wound up. OP must be living in North Pole.

Willdidi:
Is not a most to comment on the topic, I have simple explained what happened if you don't believe it your problem not mine, I want to believe you have driven all types of automatic car and know how all their gear stick work (not all gears are in the maze format some are actually on a straight line), the only reason for posting the topic was for others to learn and not make such mistake, when some of you make comments it amazes me as if my coming to post the topic one gets a medal or cash payment hence everything you read most be a lie, car talk I believe is a forum for serious minded people who share things related to their to cars. Have a lovely day.

Stop lying
You are talking to adults and not toddlers.
Your 2 year old child must be Dash from the movie Mr Incredible.
Even if you didn't fasten the seat belt on him, the moment you came out of the car, strolled to your boot to pick up the thrash (which you said would take you 15 seconds), he sped off from his seat and jumped into yours, sat down, pulled the gear lever and started turning the steering while you were catwalking from the dump site to your car, and when you got there you started moping.
Your 2 year old must be a mutant and attends Xavier's school for the gifted.
Your 2 year old's fist and palm must be very strong and wide to have been able to pull down the gear level

Fake story
Your child put the car on drive, tell me how
His hand was strong enough to push the knob on the gear shift or he was able to move it down to drive for the maze-like gear shifts.
Car was on drive and a stone was already waiting by your side which you could use as a wedge.

Location?

Dino Melaye

aieromon:
You were saying

And you believe the story there?
Clap for yourself.
#smh

mukina2:
uh? who is in whose shadow?

trust ya'll to bottle it again

i was soo happy when cheksli scored chai!!!

2 games left, you are in our shadow for now. CECH the table

mukina2:


https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/wfi.gif

You are something else.
The gif cracked me tho. How about forever in our shadows