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QueenSuccubus:



Oga, u put ur own leg in the graveyard.. U know exactly that u don't want a relationship then why the hell u keep playing games ?

Some men sha .. Abeeg, if from the beginning u made it clear that u juz want some "toot it & boot it" , I bet that girl will not give herself a hope coz she knows this will not work.

I know I messed up here. but I didn't want her to feel bad and begin to have low self esteem

madridguy:
" I don't really like the girl as she is not that pretty."

Cut her off.

hmmm...i wish I could do that without guilt and not having the feeling that I will make her sad

Exwizard:
that receiving calls at the gas station easily triggers fire

ofcourse

at the discharge of fuel at a gas station. the gas is floating around the atmosphere waiting for a small spark to trigger it.

most modern phone would not do this bcus they are touch screens, but those days some phone can create sparks between the keypads and the panel

i was attending this church since about last year when I graduated from school.

so thus girl at the church. we don't talk on church or after church. you know those kind of people u just don't get anything connecting you both.

so she travelled to Abuja. I didn't even noticed till she hit me up on facebook one day and then we started chatting.

we were talking for up to 3 months she spent there and she told me she left to Abuja because she want to get over her last breakup with her guy. I didn't buy the lie sha. I know she had an obligation to do there as she has unconsciously stated it some times.

she came back about one month one and our friendship was clear it was going into a relationship.

now here is the problem.

my nature is a kind of of quiet shy guy

I don't really like the girl as she is not that pretty.

and I have been single for over a year and I am so used to it that I'm scared to go into something that would disrupt the inner peace I have. I feel I'm stable being single.

we have already started doing stuffs people dating does and I feel some part me is saying I should stop that this would crash.

just on monday I told her we should just cut and she started begging that I just not worry it would be fine and I should please make it work.

NL please I'm in a confused state help me out.