₦airaland Forum

There are two options as to who killed badeh.

1. It's either it is Atiku or the rest of the PDP upper caucus who knows Badeh has some implicating information that could cost them 2019 election because he worked for the PDP for years and was also involved in fund misappropriation.

2. the COAS Buratai who knows badeh has info he is about to release or badeh is part of the scaliwags behind the insurgency and terrorism in the country oweing that he was the CDS before

Just pick one...

Shegzy8:
I said that cause so many Nigerians are wired to think things like this is scam, including me...I dropped my number and some people have called..thanks for trying to warn people...its shows you care and you read what I wrote well...God bless

Another red flag...

Trying to draw out pity....nairalanders be warned!!!!!!

Shegzy8:
Please I'm in need of help...I haven't gotten something to eat since yesterday..I did some jobs and u haven't been paid...I'm helpless and getting frustrated...currently looking for means and I'm so frustrated...I've got dreams, but they all seem to be on the brink..I need financial help or someone that can invest in me...I have no where to go, no one to turn to...my life is in dilemma and I'm already thinking suicide...

This is not a scam and I am not dropping any account number..this is real and I'm going to drop my number for anyone who want to help to call or you can pm me and I will reply...I want to work, I want to be useful..this is Xmas and I have no plans cause I live for today and hope I live to see tomorrow.....you can either pm me here or text/call....08108669224

Red flag.....nairalanders be warned!!

solutionmi:
some people are heating up the situation just to soil fr Mbaka clothes

yes people need to be wary of these wolves wearing sheep's fur.

That is why I say pastors should not involve themselves in politics. That is why I respect Pastor Chris till date you will never see him meddle in politics unlike these other GO's

they will come and say Christians need to take over...shut up. if you want to take over pray to Him to change things not use your influence to support one party and condemn the other and at the end land us in fire. that is how they brought buhari upon us. saying God showed them this and that...

smh...

It's funny what our politicians has turned the country into...i weep for this country

there is no single day that passes without getting a bad news from them

imo...

celebrating a person while he/she is alive does not necessarily mean you should make a post for her and not making a post doesn't mean you don't celebrate them.

but it is deem right you make a post for someone who is dead because this is an event.

seyi law didn't do bad at all.

and for those of you saying "Nigerians..nigerians..." this is a "human" thing. not Only Nigerians

gulfer:
Booked

bros abeg u fit share me this your wallpaper?

please I got level one last Month and I haven't gotten single order

https://fiverr.com/alexowi

what Is wrong?

carry 90% of those student to Uniben or UI or even Uniport na 3rd class dem go graduate with

quote me and die

PS

for all those people quoting me...E pain una

please what agro business can I start with 30k - 40k .

I have a farmland already.

and which crop is it advisable to start farming. now that the rain is over

egwekwe:
I don't get it.......is it a must to be in a relationship


Is clear that most people nowadays are bleeped up and will just mess your life.



Meanwhile, anybody saying you should not spy on the privacy of your spouse/fiancee really needs to have his head check...So it's better to marry a cheat and w.hore all because you don't want to invade privacy.....Hiv infection is awaiting people with such stupid mentality in this cheating generation.

I swear....the painful thing is i knew all these and still jumped into it

Grayjoy:
You need to work so much on yourself else you will continue moving from one mess to another called relationship.
Define what you want.
Seems you don't really know what you want.

thank you

Gaspardd:
I see that you re a wimp, a fucking pússy ass nigga, and then instead of changing girls maybe u shld change urself.

I think we were in thesame boat, my girl once had an abortion, Excpet she told me about it herself and thats cuz i made her realise that i dont judge. My response to the situation was that... if u have not been tru d bad, u re never gonna recognise d good. She has been tru d bad, and i hope she has leant her lessons.

What i look for in a girl is sn who is focused, has kind of bubbling energy as opposed to some moody bítch, and how open she is. I dont really care about past cus it doesnt matter much. I focus on d essense.

What you should ask yourself is ... who is this girl really? Dont judge her by situations cus u re def gonna impose ur ideals on her.

Well i know you will prolly get more irked by this but then dude just break up with her and go look for some shít virgin and be happy from day 1 till death part u guys.

Edit. Never invade pple's privacy without invitation or permission. Always respect pples privacy. If u invade even a goat's privacy enuf, shìt is gonna fight u, let alone a human being

thank you. I realised how stupid I was.

lilmax:
nothing like a nice guy

its either you are a dumbass or a wise person

pick a name

hmm

MariaLavina:
Haunting Shadows!
Her past is ruining her present.
If you tell them to take things easy, they will reply you :I'm living for the moment, live like today will be the last....

Shallow Beings!


Dear Op, Break up! No time!

You can't handle her past, you don't have faith in the relationship, you don't love her. What's left?

hmmm...thank you

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You can be that change she needs.

hmmmm....whoa

can you explain further pls?

MissRaine69:
Right you are the source of your own problems no one else.

“we started chatting and fastfoward 3 months. she was all over me begging me for a relationship. even though told her I could not hold a relatinship now because of my mindset about girls and how i can never trust dem anymore. she encouraged me and said she too had been betrayed and it doesn't stop her from loving again. I fell for this”

So despite knowing that you were not ready you still managed to fall for all that tripe?
The red flag should have been how she was begging you, what was wrong with taking your time and getting to know someone at YOUR own pace?
See this is the problem with “indomie” style relationships
Very quick to form but most lack substance, no common ground why are you surprised when things fall apart?

this you just said right here it my problem. I know I had messed up from start. I saw all the signs.

I just didn't take caution. I am an introverted reserved guy and I felt what suits me is a girl who would do the loving more. I felt they are hard to come by and I better hold on to this one

please what can I do now?

All my life I never envisaged I will ever get caught in a circle like this. I always pictured having a quiet relationship with no stress and worry or insecurities. Date a cute loving matured and responsible girl.

the total opposite is what I get now. sometimes I think foolishly deep at my past if I had done something bad that could warrant this.

I am going through series of panic and depression everyday with no one to talk to. I'm left in my own worthiness all by myself


let me go straight to my sad story.

I graduated in 2017 and currently working and earning a cool amount of salary enough for a bachelor. I had dated just 4 girls and the 4th one now is like a pit I jumped into. the other 3 relationship all didn't end well. and it broke my trust completely. I couldn't trust any girl anymore I hated relationships. I was single for 2 years until when this girl came along. we started chatting and fastfoward 3 months. she was all over me begging me for a relationship. even though told her I could not hold a relatinship now because of my mindset about girls and how i can never trust dem anymore. she encouraged me and said she too had been betrayed and it doesn't stop her from loving again. I fell for this and we started dating. she loves me so much and didn't hide her feeling. always all over me. showing me to the world.

our pastor knew and literary everyone in our circle knew about us. but I had one issue. I was scared this was not going to end well. she was too open and has a huge low self esteem.

my curiousness made me to doubt her. i couldnt trust her and I decided i wanted to know who i was dating.

I am a programmer and I manage to get access to her facebook and this was the start of my emotional torture.

I found out about all her exes and I was depressed. she was pregnant for one and aborted the child. this guy I knew very well and we often talk. she also travelled to Zaria to meet a guy and slept over then had sex. the guy broke up with her the next day after finding out she had an abortion and was still obviously in love with the ex guy.

I was disappointed and depressed. I wanted to end the relationship at that moment. I had sleepless nights fordays. the mere image I painted in my mind haunted me.

I confronted her. and she was crying. saying I should forgive her. and that loved me bla bla bla. but she still lied that she never had an abortion when she didn't know I had found out and was very sure. this further raised my fear. she can still lie.

just last week I got to know my family don't accept her.

please advise what I should do. mu love for her jas waxed cold and I don't want to break her heart if I tell her in leaving her as I am her source of joy right now. I am scared what would happen afterwards and at thesame time scared not to loose a loving girl who loves me so much and shows it unconditionally.

if I keep staying and we eventually break up as I have that feeling she will feel used. and I don't want that as virtually every guy she met used her as I had found out.

please I need y'all to advise me properly. is this wort it?

emailaddy:
Nothing to celebrate really. We should be more concerned about “why we ain’t moving forward”

amaniro:
Stupid country

bros easy...

The mighty giant search engine raking billions of naira has used their site to celebrate Nigeria's independence with an amazing image

TOMMIEYIKES:
if you know you know

you get time sha...

alade172:
Bros u don't Iive to please people ok?
Lol
Make the money and na them go day rush u

I know...its one of those things I will stop now. thanks

Shugavee:
If u love her n still wanna be with her, u can.. find a way to get through to her if u may ,, if it goes sour u leave!! U hv to be willing to fight for ur relationship sometimes no matter how ugly it looks!!! U will never hv a successful relationship if u continue like this!!! U just hv to try my dear!! N make sure there is no hope first

thanks dear...i will speak to her today and see my next decision

CastingCrowns:
from your write-up it's obvious u a nice guy... it's unfortunate guys like u have their hearts broken by girls.. life isn't fair.

That true.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Don't be too eager to quit. Its not rosy out there. Call her to order before she goes see him. Girls don't value a Mr nice guy in their early years, you got to have a stand and let her know your principles.

hmmm....thanks

Samphoenix1:
my brother keep believing in love .... though it may kill but you still need it bro.... get past it

this one don dey too much broda

Wilfredpat22:
Sis in one thread you claim unmarried, now you are married on this thread within a space of 2 days.You type for likes on nairaland. Will likes give you money.Anyway I know your type in school ( You open your legs in secret and claim holy than thou)

@op try to be successful. We women are attracted to only successful guys. Forget about that girl sir. I believe you are the one doing the most in the relationship she isn’t offering you anything.

Look for independent girls not students like this one I quoted. We Nigerian women have snake like characters honestly

nothing...only thing she can offer is romance.

thank you so much babe

SmellingAnus:
read this and thank me later... https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

hmmm...na wah oooh

ImaIma1:
Please forget what anyone thinks. Think about what you want for yourself. If you start worrying about what people think, you won't do anything.

Your happiness should be your concern. No one will worry about it except you.

When i was about to get married, the circumstances were controversial but i blocked out everyone and focused on what was best for me.

You have to be selfish sometimes especially when it comes to your happiness and well being.

Thank u. I appreciate. this is comforting

adedayoadeoye:
its well God wil see u through.take ur time n observe very well before u take any action.pls dnt miss it

I will, thank u so much