₦airaland Forum

DieeDiee:
A bigger fool than someone with an intelligence less than a 2 year old? :-/

DieeDiee dear pls don't let them drag u down to their level of trading insults. I respect ur vews personally. No MAN wants a lady that has no mind of her own( ie dummies). But submission in a relationship must be mutual for it to work. Sometimes he submits to u even though he is de head,and sometimes u submit to him even though u don't agree. All done in love and respect like de left hand that washes the right hand and is then washed by the right hand.I don't believe in gender equality( I just naturally feel protective of women) and I don't believe in gender superiority( trust me men are never superior to women. Sadly some ladies just let themselves slide. Laziness?) Both gender are just different in ways that complement each other. Some women even make more money than their man yet they keep their home running smoothly. Heroes......

DieeDiee:
If that was meant to be an insult it went right over my head. As I said, I don't speak ignorant ... Next insult...

Ps: I've said over and over again I don't consider myself a feminist. The reason I don't cook or clean has nothing to do with feminism it's because I've never needed to learn or do manual labour. Some of us can afford to pay people to cook and clean for us

Appologies hun. Insults are never my thing. But truth be told, you are lucky u are not nigerian. Cultures differ really. Here in Nigeria,a girl who can't cook n clean is considered a waste of space. Despite her other achievements she isn't "wife material" at all. That is the norm. Here,women with ur vew usually end up single. But cultures differ. Where u from?

Chiadanin:
This is my anthem:

I am a feminist and damn proud of it !! I think there's a misunderstanding on what a feminist means. Please listen to Bey's "flawless"- and that Nigerian (?) lady's definition.

I love love men. Well, in theory. Practically, there's some shades of grey there to my likes.

I love being a woman. I love dressing as such, acting as such (grace, elegance and strength, resilience, intelligence).

Yea, I get emotional and sensitive at times, but I also can display strength, get aggressive when it calls for it.

I also have no problem being submissive- man or woman, younger, older, different culture etc. I see that as a strength not weakness.

I am physician and a business woman and conduct myself professionally. I am also very playful, silly, get dirty, cook/clean etc.

The key is in knowing when to stand your ground and when to take a sit; speak or silence; stand out or blend in etc.

For me, I straddle the middle ground in most things life. Only rarely does situations call for extremes.

Acquire the personality of flexibility/compromise, teachable, humility. It goes a long ways in any relationship.


PS: Lean in by sheryl sandberg is a great book for this topic specifically in the work place.

If all feministts are like u,plss I need one in my liFe NOW. U are a real wonan. Not like stupid selfish immature unrealiseic runs-girl DieeDiee with her Arab aristos. She go soon hear am when she go don marry finish. If she ever marries shaa. I pitty her.

In God we trust cos to win is a must insha allah......
Chicks aint loyal bro but d devil has lost.......

TribalEAST: VOTE OUT GOATLUCK EBOLA JONATANK come 2015

And vote in THIEF-NUBU and BUHARAM abi? Frying pan to hell fire tinz

DonaldGenes: hahahahahaha don't get tired dude, those yansh don't trip me, i have seen enough, all those things to me are kids' stuff, I have grown pass 'EM. That's me

Big lie. OP is either GAY or a chronic mstrbator or his JT is dead. Mindd control ko. Homo alert abeeg

anago1000: listen fvckhead the only time I have lived outside yorubaland, is during youth service and my latest transfer to the fct. and as we speak I'm lobbying hard to get back to headquarters in lasgidi. unlike you fvckhead born in shagamu, schooled in ijebu, living in surulere and working Ikeja. just starting warming up on how to cope with life in your miserable enclave.

Suddenly evry yorba is frm lagos. Cowardly lil goats. Raving at ibos while abokki bokos bomb d only city dey hav. Soon boko go kill una. Rape una nnyash. But no shakin 4 SE nd SS. Anyi na enye nsogbu. Nkume ike ka anyi bu. Ebube dike ,odeshi .

thegeorgy: yea 2 weeks is too long.if it were me,before you decide to come to KD,i would have told you its a prank or before you u even leave for Abuja,i'll come out clean.she might not be into you as much as u think.cos playing this kind of prank is too the extreme if at all it is...i believe someone was there stealing her attention from you within those weeks,cos for the sake of love,i CAN NEVER wait that long to tell u its a joke.a woman in love cant stay that long without getting in touch.u love her fact but she dooesn't love you that much,maybe she likes u cos u are nice guy and she's just hanging on to you till she finds someone she loves make e no be like say she no get serious relationship.
or like some1 said,let her know u are still bothered by the joke,u buy a pregnancy test trip,and let her pee for u,her first morning urine,u follow intructions on the pack and do a pregnacy test,if its recent,it will still be positive cos the hormones are still there or go for a vaginal exam with her...she don test u,u have passed,now its time fir her to prove her love for u.she started the music,its time for a dance.
#my opinion though.

My opinion exactly. Unless d OP is a lame looser dat knows he can't get a girl hence he is ever grateful to get even a lil attention from her. Question-if ur girl sees u as a real man dat all de ladies wantt,will she test u? Would she Test Michel Majid or van vicker? Think boy

Pangea: I pity all of una!
You people think war is a game, abi?
And the ibos crying for a rematch, ok o,
Una eyes go soon clear again!

I hav a dream- that my pple shall once again raise de flag of freedom against the tyrant north and the cowardly chicken shit west and with the latest materials from US,isreal and russia,drive the machine of war over their battered cities and pummel them into submission. Viva Liberty.

londoner: Exactly, I posted a link earlier that reported 5000 people in Enugu officially backed Buhari and CPC, JUST LAST MONTH!


It is a fake "story" in an attempt to stir up tribal strife. As usual those individuals on Nairaland who [b]already harbour [/b]a dislike/hate of the Igbos jumped on it like bees to honey.

They know fully well this story is not reported elsewhere, they also know it is improbable that anyone would get to know your vote to even kill you "on the spot".

Although they know this, they just cant resist feeding their appetite for any anti-Igbo sentiment.

Thank u!!! See haters everywhere. Soon they ll call we ibos names. Biko don't hate us just because u aint us. We r better than all of u,all of u.......................(Quote david o)

All this. 4 only a kiss? If u want sex or a BJ kwanu? U will hav 2 dance kongaga or scrub floor wit ur mouth or pull a bazooka frm ur ear okwa ya? Crude oil deyy dia?

youngalex: Av always find myself lusting after ASSesible Babes,i just can't resist the shape...sexy n curvy...

Dat s wot evry man desires in a lady,brains aside. But many gals hav killed their figure 8 with fast food and boose.gone ar de days when a lady was a lady and men beg ladies 2 'sip' alcohol. Now de reverse is de case. Many women now hav beer bellies.

Rhea: Tinky,
Maybe for the first time, you should give him nothing, except a very decent card and some of your quiet time on that day. A solid relationship should learn to thread through thick and thin

See yeye gal. If ur bf giv u nothing u go happi abi? Biiaaatchh!!!!!

scribe2000: Hey Pals, don't forget that at the time Mandela was jailed, he was considered a Traitor and a Terrorist by the then Government of South Africa. His passion for the liberty of his people led him to fight and protest, and he DID ALL IN HIS POWER at the time to liberate his people.
Ojukwu did the same, but the outcomes were just different for them, and that is why history view them differently.

Had Biafra succeeded, I'm sure Ojukwu's place is history would be more globally positive. Had Mandela failed, I'm sure his place in history would have been largely negative, particularly given the "terrorism" tag on him when he went to jail. Remember he did not go to jail alone, but where are the others. Just a handful like Oliver Tambo are remembered today.

Remember history sees Ojukwu as fighting the world's JUSTEST war. He just did not win...but he did his best, just lik Mandela.

And to our Southeastern brothers in Nigeria, Ojukwu remains their Mandela.

Nnaa biko liv all these anu ofia(wild beast) dat don't read. If Ojukwu hadn't run he would hav been hung and sundried like saro wiwa. Immagine wot dat would av done to de pride of the ibos as a people. By saving himself he saved the ibos the type of humiliation dat ogoni pple suffered tru saro wiwas shameful executioln

nekaa: i dont think i want a flower from any nigerian guy. okay scratch that i KNOW i dont want a flower from any nigerian guy.

Real naija babe. Not fake ass ndi ara dat want 2 combine materialistic greed wt romance. Dis is de era of "gender equality" so think not wot ur man can do 4 u but wot u can do 4 ur man

Som gals are gud but many are just baggage and junk

My broda married a chinese gal because wen he came 2 naija 2 luk 4 wife,all d gals were like "buyy me stuff,tek me out....."One of dem even threw his flower gift in his face.the china gal took care of him wen he ws jobless homeless broke. Dey were not even dating then. Naija gals can't do dat even 4 their boy frnd yet dey want romance. Their luv na for money and material tins. Giv em xpensiv stuff and u get enuf luving. Flower gini? Biko hapu okwu