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Sweetlemon: We hear them all the time. These are things our big sisters, aunts, and mothers drum into our heads while growing up. Now all grown up, spiritual mentors keep warning us about them in our fellowships, church/mosque services, etc. But all my almost 30 years on earth has shown me a lot of realities.

Disclaimer: This article is in no way whatsoever against waiting till marriage for sex. It only separates fantasy from facts. If you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do. If you want to stop having sex till marriage, please do.

1. A Man Will Love You More After Marriage/ A Man Will Marry You Only If He Loves You:

Ha! Mbanu! A man (even women) doesn't love his wife more after marriage. Why? Marriage is an eye opener, it is after marriage that you know EXACTLY who you have married. If it turns out you married the right person for you, then the loves grows, but if it turns out to be one chance, OYO l' wa.
Do not marry a man that doesn't love you. This is because the bitter truth is that Many men do not marry for love. Many marry because they need a helper. Because their parents are on their necks, for traditional titles/more respect in the society, even for business purposes. So don't get all mushy and swept off your feet just yet just because one guy just proposed to you.
Always remember this, getting married is a destination. Keeping your marriage is a whole new never ending journey. Do not confuse the two of them.

2. A Man Will Respect/Love You More When You Make Him Chase You Longer:

This one is a very popular myth my mum was always singing into our ears *rolls eyse*. I have this cousin who had this toaster that was on her case for about five years, we were all "aww", "eh ya this guy really means it" etc. But immediately they had sex, his behavior towards her changed. I have heard of relationships that started with sex on the first date that led to marriage.
See, my sisters, a man that will love you will love you. When a man really enjoys having sex/making out with you, you are already half way there. You just need to work on other areas such as his likes, interests, etc. I'm not saying you should open leg like remote-controlled TV o. Just be yourself and allow your intuition and body chemistry guide and guard you. Don't set any time, let things flow naturally. What will be must be.
Chikena!

3. A Man Will Marry You If You Refuse Sex Till Marriage:

Like seriously! Na only you waka come? Na only you get toto? Puleeeze! A man doesn't marry just because he wants sex! He can get sex anywhere. You hear me so? Anywhere! It doesn't have to be from you! Let's even look at it this way, fine you hold out till marriage, after finally getting it after marriage what next? Is it your toto that will sustain the marriage? You must be a learner! I know some unhappily married women who married as virgins. I know some bad girls who married men most virgins dream of.
Like I said earlier, A man that wants to marry you will marry you.

4. If A Man Loves You He Won't Want To Have Sex Till Marriage:

Ha! You obviously do not know jack about men! See, as a general rule, men love sex. In fact, when a man hits on you, he wants sex as part of whatever package he wants from you. Whether na one night stand, side dish, contract, or marriage. If he doesn't, chances are that something is seriously wrong with him. Babe shine your eyes, if your intending husband has never had an erection while both of you are alone. Ha!
Even if you do not want to have sex with him until marriage, make sure that chemistry is there. Make sure you see a sign of hot and steamy nights to come after marriage. Thank me later.
Sex is not love, but love has a lot to do with sex. You can have sex with someone without loving that person, but you cannot love someone without wanting to have sex. The difference is that while sex is demanding, love is patient. A man that loves you will wait till the right moment to do it and will still love and respect you afterwards, a man that loves you will make love to you, he will make it as good as possible for you. But a man in lust will want it now...........and he will chase you until he gets it and when he gets it, pele o!

5. Men Only Like Good Girls/Good Girls Get The Best Men/Good Girls Marry First:

This one doesn't need long talk, all my mature single sisters in church can testify to this. See, men like good girls that have fire underneath them. So if you are a good boring girl whose life revolves around church-fellowship-work-home. Ah! My sister, even the brothers-in-the lord these days will call you a total bore!
I'm not saying you should start clubbing o. Mba o! Just saying you should spice up your social life a lil bit more. Go out and meet more people, don't be afraid of looking and feeling sexy. You definitely can be sexy without being trashy.

Like I always keep saying, a man that will love you will love you. The man that has made up his mind to marry you will marry you, even if his mother threatens to commit suicide. Trust me, a man that is emotionally, mentally, and financially ready for marriage does not have to date you for up to a month before he knows that he's going to put a ring on it. Men, I mean men are very practical and they know what they want. Adam knew Eve was from his ribs the very second he set eyes on her. It's great to have a good character, you will definitely get more responsible suitors with your inner beauty. But a man that will love that biitch will love her regardless. See, marriage is all about fate, when your own time is right, it will happen. Marriage is about finding that person who wants to spend the rest of his life with you just the way you are. So don't feel like life is unfair when Pamela, the same girl you've been preaching to marries before you. Every one of us has different time tables in life. And always remember, It's not about when you marry but how well you marry.

Cheers!

will you marry me?

jayseehe: GEJ sponsors Boko Haram

he should come and charge me for treason cause I said so

May God help you ignorance...Ignoramus!

All through my life I have owned several dogs and the one thing I'm sure of is that Dogs know dog eaters...if you be dog eater I suggest u maintain a safe distance from aggressive dogs. Just saying!

Xcely: The following ranking is chiefly based on the results of the 2014 4icu.org University Web Ranking amongst other criteria as mentioned in the article.

The format for the ranking is given thus; #Private University Ranking) Name of University, Abbreviation of the Name of the university, (World Rank) - Country


10) Ashesi University, AU (6001) - Ghana
Established in 2002 by former Microsoft staff Patrick Awuah, Ashesi University is presently Ghana’s best private University and one of the top Ghanaian universities in general. It is a private, secular, liberal arts college whose mission is to train a new generation of ethical entrepreneurial business leaders in Africa and to nurture excellence in scholarship, leadership and citizenship. With an academic program designed in collaboration with 24 professors from Swarthmore College, University of California, Berkeley and University of Washington, Ashesi offers an educational experience unlike anything else available in Africa today. The first and only university from Ghana to feature on this list, Ashesi University (AU) ranks 10th amongst Africa’s best private universities.

9) Landmark University, LU( 5758) - Nigeria
Founded in 2011 by Dr. David Oyedepo, Landmark University is the youngest university on this list. The second university founded after the highly reputed Covenant University, the school is said to possible have Nigeria’s largest private university campus, characterised by a cool windy and friendly weather which supports the agrarian mission of the university. With the historical best time for ultra-modern infrastructure growth that rhymes and fosters academic progressions in all disciplines, especially agriculture; and the inherent attraction of international best-rated scholars/academia who wield same visions and work in oneness towards its advancement, the school has surpassed expectations in just 3 years of its existence and rightfully ranks 9th on this list.

The British University in Egypt, BUE (4930) - Egypt
The BUE is a private Egyptian University in El Sherouk, Greater Cairo, Egypt. Established in 2005 the university provides a British style of education and awards degrees validated by its partner UK universities and the Egyptian Supreme Council. The campus covers approximately acres of land with about 27000 square metres space of modern purpose built teaching facilities. BUE is not only an educational institution but also a thriving academic, social and cultural center with much to offer students of any age, nationality or social background. BUE stands in 8th place amongst Africa’s best private universities.

7) Madonna University, MU (4902) - Nigeria
Possibly Nigeria’s oldest private university, Madonna was founded in 1999 in Okija, Anambra State. Considering the university’s well-taught broad range of programs including medicine, law and engineering courses, with modern infrastructure and facilities, an impressive campus setting and major collaborations with western institutions, the university ranks in 7th place on this list.

6) Covenant University, CU (4755) - Nigeria
Founded in 2002 under the leadership of Dr. David Oyedepo, Covenant University is a member of the Association of Commonwealth Universities. It is presently Nigeria’s best Private University and its 10th best overall. Inasmuch as this university is just 12 years old, it is rightfully adjudged to be the fastest growing Private University in Africa and possibly the fastest growing tertiary institution. Known for its pioneering accomplishments, the University flagged off the first International Conference on African Development Issues (ICADI) in May 2014, which hosted the likes of Prof. Eric Maskins (Harvard) and Prof. Thomas Sargent (New York University), both Nobel Laureates winners in 2007 and 2011 respectively. Interestingly, both professors of Economics are expected to be part of its faculty by the beginning of the 2014/2015 session. This is a very significant development considering the fact that the entire country can only boast of one Nobel Laureate who isn’t part of any university’s faculty in the country at the time. In 2010 the school began to run with “Vision 10:2022; 1 of 10 in 10” which is a short motto implying that they hope be ranked amongst the world’s top 10 universities by 2022. With a robust faculty base, cutting-edge infrastructure and facilities, impactful research and top-notch collaborations with the likes of MIT, University of Florida, McKinsey & Company etc. It’s a no brainer that Covenant University has potential to break the world’s top 10 universities’ list in a few years to come (especially taking the National University of Singapore (NUS) scenario as case study). Covenant holds the 6th spot on our list.

5) United States International University, USIU (4667) – Kenya
Established originally as part of the USIU network of Universities under the main body, Alliant International University, USIU Kenya stands out as Africa’s 5th best private university. Considering the major collaborations of the USIU with major campuses in the west such as the California Western University and Balboa University, the university has remained one of Africa’s best.


4) Libyan International Medical University, LIMU (4073) - Libya
In 4th place is the Libyan International Medical University (LIMU). Founded in 2007, the university is reputed to have one of the best medical schools on the continent. One of its major points is its focus on international partnerships and meeting the level of other international medical teaching institutes. The teaching policy emulates those of many established universities and is mainly problem-based learning.


3) Université des Sciences et de la Technologie Houari Boumediène, USTHB, (3753) - Algeria
Founded in 1979, USTHB IS Africa’s 3rd best private university and Algeria’s best tertiary institution. Offering programs covering mostly science and engineering courses, the University was the largest university in Algeria until 2013; it has over 20,000 students and a robust faculty base. With modern infrastructure and facilities, a commanding campus presence and major collaborations with western universities, especially those of their counterparts in France and Canada, this university tightly holds on to the 3rd spot on this list.


2) The German University in Cairo (2443) - Egypt
In 2nd Place is The German University in Cairo (GUC). Established in 2002, and patroned by The State University of Stuttgart and the State University of Ulm, The GUC is an Independent and secular university that is situated in New Cairo, Egypt. The University substantially contributes to the intellectual and cultural life development of Egypt and provides German liberal education to the students from all socio-economic backgrounds in Egypt and other nations of the world. With a robust faculty base, a strong mix of international students and top-notch infrastructure and facilities, this university clinches 2nd place amongst Africa’s finest private universities.

1) The American University in Cairo (1104) - Egypt
At the top of the list is the American University in Cairo (AUC). Founded in 1919 by American Mission in Egypt, a Protestant mission sponsored by the United Presbyterian Church of North America, AUC has grown to be the strongest, high performing private university on the continent. By employing the model of the American university system managed by series “Presidents” (who perform the functions of Vice-Chancellors), the school has progressively advanced over the years. The 2013 QS World University Rankings placed AUC as 348th in the World and 1st in Egypt. In 2013, the QS rankings also named the School of Business as second best in Africa and the Middle East and among the top 200 in the world.

This ranking fake die...I bet who so ever ranked this shit has never been to Madonna, Walahi!

SLIDEwaxie: The huy is still a sick-fucck, that I'm sure.

All those rants are nothing but anger because everyone has moved on, no one was talking of the incident anymore. I doubt if I see anyone surprised abt wot u did at the burial. W all understand the fact that u are a deranged individual.

I also doubt if anyone was surprised by the politicians tryin to use the event for their advantage. We all knw that in Nigeria, politics is sick and nauseating. So, I biliv either u or the politicians are never new to us.

I can safely conclude that u only brought ds up due to the fact that no one was talking abt the event anymore, and no one really gave u the attention u craved for.

Dude, all those words are clear indication to stir up the people. And u clearly tried to fool us by covering ur real intention.

Through the comments, I see some have already bought it, but me, KINGwax™, is too psychologically fortified for a free-fall mind-trick.

Try harder, man granny!

Guy you are so on Point! Charley's days are long gone and nobody send am again. Now that his dad is dead its even worse