₦airaland Forum

Padipadi: You look like someone that's not based in Nigeria. Did I guessed right?

Anyways, in the western part of Nigeria, lots of women are decieved daily by these men. Some of these men may be responsible during courtship & during the early years of their marriage but change later on. From what I know, these men change when they meet a new mistress. The annoying part is they ll now abandon the other wife or wives & kids to concentrate on the new mistress.

Lastly, the women also share part of the blame. No matter how illiterate or uneducated they may be, they should to continually get pregnant for such men or possibly refuse them. Cos such men only remember them for sex & nothing else. When the sex turns to children, these men ll not be responsible.

to cut the long story short....we are saying the same thing.

mikuz: That won't be necessary. He has already proven that hes a top tier emcee. What does the brother need to do to show us hes a heavyweight again?
Beat Modenine or what?
Hes even rated as the best lyricist in the history of NL after Ibime and you.

Wetin we wan yarn again?

kim - why are you speaking for siddogg? are you his public relations officer? or you are just interested to see coogar's subliminal verse one more time. y'all niggaz need to start paying to read my scrolls. my material is military-grade.

MrAnony1: You are wrong there. there is a difference. Not all feminists are radical feminists.

of course - there are different kinds of terrorists too. radical terrorists & liberal ones. be deceiving yourself.

kendraloops: i've come again o!! how long does it take for the supply to cease/dry up? stopped bfeeding since saturday n yet, the bReasts are as heavy as cement bags. are there drugs i can take to dry it up, i need my sanity again. U need to see how i look now, people ask if i'm ill (sobs).

is it because he sucked for so long thats why its taking so long to dry up abi wetin sef? might it be ive gotten an infection (wild thoughts)?

you should order your husband to have some. love is sharing.

voltron: Poverty is a social factor we seem to be missing out. All things being equal.. we should have responsible fathers. The frequency and high levels of irresponsible fathers and careless care free fish-brain girls also contribute to the ease with which they get pregnant and dumped

i can add to that.....
many of these women actually know the men they are sleeping with are married with lots of children and they still sleep with him anyways. when they get pregnant, they scream from the roof top.

the irresponsibility didn't start with the abandonment of the children, it started when the girls willingly had unprotected sex with a married man just because she wants to own a blackberry.

pickabeau1: He hasnt made the difference

Someone can say there is no difference

there's no difference. a woman is either a feminist or she's not. saying it's different defeats the purpose of the cause.

oneangle: He abandoned the kids and wife for over 10years . Mother raised them all, sent them all to school. Mother passed on last year december.during burial ceremony , he saw it as an opportunity to raise funds. Which he spent on himself..now he is broke and wants the kids back.. Pleae advice..what do you call such father?

a loser!

Padipadi: my dear, it's real in Nigeria.
These kinds of fathers makes up to 60% of dads in my area.
So many broken family, single mothers, futureless children.

it begs the question though - who are the women sleeping with these irresponsible men? were they räped or they are too blind to see through the irresponsibility of these useless men?

mikuz: We are having Cooger Vs Siddoggg then?

i told him to have one more battle on NL before i cross swords with him. he's not responded since then.

freshdude2: Coogar, do you remember me saying that feminism in Nigeria is really about female dominance? There is no benefit/privilege I enjoy that a woman is deprived of just because she's female. This whole feminism noise is irritating. They claim they want equal rights but flee with gusto when it's time to take the responsibilities of the crown they so desperately want to wear.

nigerian women: eating their cake & having it since 1914.

dyabman: Thank God its not Ramirez ! Torres cancer out !! lol , but please leave that dude ! Torres is great player to me .

torres is chelsea's greatest player.
ibime is wrong to have presumed i cannot support torres. who is lukaku in comparison to torres?

these nuccas are fooled like the mayan calendar. lukaku's exploits in everton should not be compared to how he would perform at chelsea. at the toffees, the team is more or less built around him & every of his team member works for him.

he would not get that level of trust at chelsea - a side full of technicians who would finish off their own moves anyways. lukaku scored 16 or 17 league goals last season, he would be lucky to score 7 at chelsea if he had stayed at chelsea.

teddybiyasi: replying this is more like energy wastage

don't dignify that troll with a reply, armed robbers stole her clïtoris when she was 5 thus the identity crisis she's suffering.

ihedinobi2: Considering this reality about doing business, do you consider it cruelty and unfairness for businesses to prefer hiring men?

if the preference to hire men is cruelty then biology/nature is very very cruel.

pickabeau1: Sorry.. the writer is male.. i was corrected

the writer could well be a woman who is tired of the global hypocrisy known as feminism.

kelechi iheanacho is the best nigerian player at the moment. i saw city & liverpool last night and my jaw dropped at his maturity & deft touches. he's way ahead of his time.

keshi is a lunatic for leaving this lad out of the world cup squad. i wish he had joined united instead of those arab sheikhs who know nothing about nurturing youth players.

sidddogg is a killer!

joomiegirl: Adichie should "park well" abeg. She's a talented writer and we are proud of her, but you cannot eat your cake and have it...you want to be a die-hard feminist and u dey whine say dem no help you carry ya bag...are you kidding me.
A femimist expecting/demanding chivalry?

and this is exactly the reason i called her a hypocrite in the first page.

pickabeau1: Strange.. the writer felt like a woman to me

No how.. the article is very exhaustive unfortunately a lot of posters are pleading hate to escape reading it

Raised some interesting points

the writer couldn't have been a woman. no nigerian woman would go to such an extent to rip down the mask of hypocrisy most nigerian women wear.

besides.....take a look at this excerpt.

The decisive verdict is this: In the international field of courtship, the Black woman is purely not the most attractive option, because Asian women, White women, Arab women, Hispanics, would fare much better. It’s no wonder then that black men—where they are presented with options—may increasingly feel tempted to date outside their communities. These are interesting times. And happy people with class don’t explain their choices to the world.

you still think any nigerian woman would write that about herself?

freshdude2: Lol. I, personally, haven't seen it. But I think that nobody's unsavoury experiences should be swept under the carpet. After all, we claim to be modern, moral men.

what has feminism achieved other than driving a wedge between men & women? adichie just wanted sensationalism to sell her books. she doesn't want girls to close their legs.....she probably want girls to be bare-chested too. what sort of african woman is she?

feminism is all about hypocrisy & lies....
they claim to have been responsible for letting women vote - lies! lies!! lies!!! women voted in sierra leone, our own "sexist" africa before anyone else did.

it goes to show african men had respect & regards to women even before the white folks conceived the idea of gender equality ....so what do african women want that they don't already have?

freshdude2: Are there any women here who have been treated with inequality in Nigeria? It would be appreciated if you could share experiences and situations where you have "cheated" as it were, just because of your female gender. Thanks.

yes, there are many of them.
JAMB deliberately failed them because they are females.

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robben the dolphin.....

'I must apologise,' said Robben. 'The one [at the end] was a penalty, but the other one was a dive in the first half. I shouldn't be doing that.'

ashley young

06/07 - 5 goals/6 assists - 2780 mins
07/08 - 8 goals/17assists - 3288 mins
08/09 - 7 goals/9 assists - 3190 mins
09/10 - 5 goals/11assists - 3300 mins
10/11 - 7 goals/11assists - 3050 mins
11/12 - 6 goals/11assists - 1565 mins
12/13 - 0 goals/5 assists - 1369 mins
13/14 - 2 goals/3 assists - 1028 mins

40 goals/73 assists - 19,570 league mins

i dare any of you lots to find a winger in the last 8 seasons with this kinda amazing stats in the premier league.

raumdeuter: How many of those Young assists were from his notorious diving skills?

about 1/3 of robben's......
you can report him to EFCC or FIFA police, femi falana is offering a discount for such services.

Dadehmola: Who fücking cares about the reasons behind his shameful failings at utd? No dey ask me 21 questions jare- Ain't Curtis Jackson!

then don't consider yourself logical if you can't ask questions. what are you doing here? you should be shopping with those brain-dead bimbos

You chickened out after your rubbish stats were found out to be skewed and lopsided as usual.

you are a disgrace!
even after you were told young didn't assist any goal from set play in the last 2 seasons, you still continue to press for irrelevant stats.

why do you nigerians like to expose your inaptitude publicly like this. if young had no set play assists or goals in the last 2 seasons, how was he able to best valencia in productivity?

I'm still waiting for what I asked for oo

after you have been sonned?
your lack of decorum is the only reason you are still debating. young assisted no goal from set play last season or 12/13.....

come & explain how valencia still came short....

raumdeuter: The bold means nothing. Valencia is best Ecuadorian winger and some rastafarian is the best Jamaican winger

it means a lot.....
especially when the stats have revealed young bested valencia in the premier league.

actually, if we put nani aside.......
young is the best winger in the entire premier league in the last 8 seasons.

dopeJemi: By your standards, has ashley young lived up to any expectation? Since your favourite man isn't in anyway better than rooney, shouldn't you stop criticizing him?

ashley young has overachieved. he has dusted all the wingers he met at united. the statistics are there for you to ponder over. opinions may lie. media may lie. numbers never lie.

Your man is a flop and not on the same level with our man, buh yet you criticize our man and praise your man, funny!

rooney is supposed to be in the best 3 players in the world. he was the bigger talent than ronaldo in 2004. your man's decline was more tragic than the malaysian airline gunned down by the rebels in ukraine.

If I score 200, when I was expected to score 260, I haven't particularly done well buh I'm also not a flop, and its not as if I haven't passed 200 before or haven't even passed 260 before»» rooney's case

your 200 would have fallen short of the cut-off of the course you are aiming to be admitted for. it means one more year at home to burn the candles at both ends. you might be disowned for that reason.

If I score 130, when I was expected to score atleast 200 to beat the cut off mark, then I can be labelled a big flop, and I've also never crossed that 200 in my entire life since I started writing ume»» young's case

the only reason you would have been expected to score 260 in the first place is because you wanted a top tier university & a top tier discipline. you cannot be 60 points short & make the cut-off of your desired course. you have flopped.

Try relating this to football
What we expect from young is very little and yet he still can't live up to it

even as his numbers subdued that of valencia that played 900 minutes more than him? are you even aware of that fact?

What we expect from rooney is very big, he has lived up to it and he's still living up to it, won't rule out the times he didn't live up to it though

rooney hasn't lived up to anything. he has been bested by muller, rodriguez, musa, RVP, etc in international tournaments. even in club competition....rooney has never a carried the club to glory like ronaldo, drogba, messi, henry, ruud, etc have done.

Rooney is going to be united's all time top scorer, it takes a star to do that, not some hunched-back running around

after how many seasons? after how many league minutes? after how many awoof penalties? you have to look at things in perspective - how many games has it taken rooney to reach his number of goals? ashley young in the same shoes would have scored 400 goals in the same period.

And who hasn't graced the stage with world stars before

you mean lennon/puncheon have stood on the PFA young player of the year award podium? remind which season was that? 1578 or 1784?

Dadehmola: Despite language barrier/ changes in environment etc, de gea improved significantly within two years to become arguable the best goalkeeper in the league while cleverley and your 29yr old hunch-back god are still fighting for the role of "worst man utd player ever".
Too bad!!

de gea - best goalkeeper in the league.
young - best english winger by a country mile.

young is the truth!
he gets few games & his productivity matched tony valencia(your idol) without young breaking sweats. if young is a flop, what is valencia. why are you such a coward to answer that question?

Why should I be concerns with what he did at watford and villa? What's my business with those teams? A player has turned out to be one of the worst things to have happened to man utd for a while now, you are here talking about his exploits 6-10 years ago.
Swerve Abeg!

this is where your deductive reasoning should be questioned. young achieved in watford, he overachieved at villa. so why is he a flop at united? did he lose all those talents or injury has hampered his career at united?

this is the question i would expect any man with a functioning brain to ask himself. the record shows the injury is the problem & not that young cannot perform. even with his injury-hampered career at united, he has outperformed valencia.

so why are you bellyaching?
menstrual cramps? ulcers? appendix or you swallowed cyanide-laden garri? louis van gaal values young, SAF valued young. the statistics put ashley young as the 2nd most productive winger in the last 8 seasons.

Young in a utd shirt, is worse than pius ikedia!!

if you keep telling yourself that, it might become the truth in your lucid dreams. young shat on your idol. your escape was trying to ridicule the stats by bringing nasri/hazard into the debate until the stats destroyed your argument.

what else are you going to use your excuse?

fuckyouhard: ur father from his graveyard. call that ghostwritin. douche

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Dadehmola: On the contrary, I was very happy that the boy cleared my doubts. Until Cleverley and young do the same, both players remain Uber rubbish!!

go & swallow a container of tylenol. the pain of the past must hurt.

When you keep on making references to his performances at watford and Aston villa, when I made it crystal clear I'm only interested in what he has done in a united shirt, it means you need to see neurologist- Afro DOC won't charge you too much, based on the united brotherhood ish!!

see this flip-flopper.
you told us minutes ago that young epitomises what a winger should never be & i have just laid out his catalog of individual awards. his statistics shytes on any winger in the premier league bar nani or perhaps hazard.

Afro DOC- over to you before his psycho-neurosis spirals outta control!!

nah - you are the one getting caught out with brainless statements. a winger that has conquered the top 2 leagues in england & managed to make the team of the year twice epitomises what a winger should never be?

your case is worse than trisomy-21.

dopeJemi: Coogar! Rooney has more individual honours than young and yet you still call him a flop, has young ever outplayed rooney in his entire life? Buh yet you praise him to the high heavens

look at this man - everything in life is about perspective. expectation & result is what defines accuracy & precision. starboard, correct me if i am wrong(EEE 313).

what was expected of rooney when he bursted to the scene. white pele was his alias - he was going to conquer the world. has rooney met that expectation? if your parents expect you to make 260 in UME & you make 200, would they think you have done well or you have flopped?

Rooney flops for 3games, you chop his head off, young flops for two seasons, you give excuses and still use past glories to judge him, ah! Coogar! Wetin?

young didn't flop for 2 seasons - young was injured for 2 seasons describes his career more aptly. even with his long term injury & limited minutes, he produced the same stats as valencia that played 900+ mins more than young last season.

if young flopped, what can you say about valencia?

We should be comparing young with puncheon, lennon and the like
Abeg no dey always twist argument to your favor, you can't be right all the time
Young is shyte and he won't deny It if asked

how so?
which of puncheon or lennon has won the PFA young player of the year? young has graced the same stage as ronaldo, fabregas, rooney, bale, hazard, and you are comparing to lennon?

Dadehmola: Even if he was scouted for 20 years, he was still gonna fail at man utd if he was destined to...

i can see the pain in your texts.....you were probably on a suicide watch when your dreams turned into nightmares concerning de gea.

Young epitomizes what a winger shouldn't turn out to be- he should always be used as an example when a manager wants to illustrate terrible occurrences to his players!!

•championship player of the year
•premier league young player of the year
•PFA team of the year 2007/8
•PFA team of the year 2008/9

these individual awards won by young suggest you might need to go for a brain scan.

Dadehmola: This obvious fact is what cooger doesn't want to accept. He feels young is an upgrade on Valencia but the truth is that both of them are rubbish

i disagree...
don't you ever put young next to valencia in any football comparison. it's like comparing ferrari to volkswagen beetle.

ashley young made PFA team twice - he won the best young player in this league. he was the championship's best player while at watford. his numbers put walcott, milner, lennon, valencia, etherington, mirallas, etc to shame.

apart from nani, young is the best out & out winger in the premier league.

Dadehmola: Bush baby... A player Having the talent is one thing, him reaching his potentials is another issue entirely. we have seen young players with huge reputation fail to live up to expectations and their careers going south in the process. We are lucky DDG didn't fall into this category.... Let's leave it at that.

like the ill-disciplined wayne rooney?
de gea wouldn't have gone that way. mistakes were bound to happen as he was filling the shoes of the great van der sar & those shoes are huge.

united scouted him for almost 2 years. eric steele came back to tell fergie he's the real deal. we had the option to sign bigger names but fergie opted for this old & made him his #1. how could you have doubted fergie's judgement on de gea?

In a utd shirt, young has been one of the worst wingers Britain has ever seen!!

in a united shirt, valencia is the worst winger the whole planet has ever seen.

Dadehmola: You saw nothing, bros..

If de gea didn't work on his weaknesses and still continued to flap at every cross & parrying almost every shot to the path of onrushing strikers, he'd prolly be watford's 2nd keeper by now.

see this bush man....
so you expect that kid not to improve when he first joined? jeeez - there was a big room for improvement. wasn't he 19/20 when he joined - so how could you have expected him to remain stagnant?

Oga, I say I'm not interested in your feeble excuses abi na by force??
For whatever reasons, Ashley young has been a horrible signing for us, period!!

buhahahaha - his stats murdered valencia. hypocrisy is saying young is a horrible signing when he has shown he has been more productive than tony valencia.

ibime vs aromoleran

let me call smack URL to host this battle in NY.

Dadehmola: If de gea didn't overcome his demons, virtually everybody will still be on his case..

you are a bush man.....
the talent was glaring even in that first season you were after de gea's case. one match in madrid changed all that & the media sheep became believers overnight.

what coogar can see from 10,000 miles away, dademola can only see with a magnifying glass.

That's the ish...

I really don't care for the reasons behind young's horrendous form in a Red Devils shirt, same way I don't want to know if nani was once better than CR7.

i reiterate, you are a bush man....
criticise the talent, you can't criticise his injury. his injury isn't his own making.

our medical facility is inferior. hargo said so when he left. van gaal had to order for a new training pitch - we lost more players to injuries on the training pitch than on matchdays.