Food › Re: Can You Still Afford To Eat Your Favourite Meals? (pictures) by Coolgent(m): 12:55pm On Dec 01, 2024 |
God punish Bala blu! |
Crime › Re: Police Bust Trans-Border Gunrunning Syndicate, Recover 17 Rifles, Ammunition by Coolgent(m): 5:58am On Dec 01, 2024 |
Northern boaders are very porous! |
Politics › Re: Wike, Sanwo-Olu, Umahi, Others Joins Tinubu In France, Meet Macron (Video) by Coolgent(m): 5:57am On Dec 01, 2024 |
Nepotism yoruba govt |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Labour MP Calls For Blasphemy Laws in the UK. by Coolgent(m): 10:34am On Nov 28, 2024 |
Nice one |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Netanyahu Agrees To A Ceasefire Agreement With Hezbollah by Coolgent(m): 11:28am On Nov 27, 2024 |
Fear of ICC |
Fashion › Re: What Do You Think About Women Wearing Leg Chain? by Coolgent(m): 8:27am On Nov 26, 2024 |
It is a signpost of lesbians especially in Northern part of the country |
Family › Re: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by Coolgent(m): 2:47am On Nov 26, 2024 |
Klass99: Will it kill you to grant his request for a car or go above and beyond this once, then never bother with going above and beyond, again? I'm thinking we all make mistakes, we do wrong things, we fall, we get up, we learn, we grow, and we thank God for giving us another chance. None of us is perfect.
You're looking at two instances where popsie didn't come through for you (Ukraine and the US) what about the times he was there? The earlier years of your life you may not recall, like, late nights at the hospital because you were sick, going into debt to pay your fees so you won't be sent away from school, lying, stealing or cheating so he could put food on the table for you to eat, etcetera.
Don't stay focused on the occasions when he didn't come through. Even God who created us and loves us more than our parents, doesn't give us everything we want.
I say all of this as someone who has learnt and is still learning the value of letting things go for the sake of inner joy and peace as well as harmonious relationships with others. My soul feels lighter and happier when I don't hold on to grudges.
They say the best revenge is to succeed and do well. You've done that, so let go of the bitterness, and grudges. Be kind and nice to the man, he won't live forever, none of us will and we take nothing out of this world.
Modified to add: Your father did not significantly harm you in any way. That he refused to send you to obodo, should not cancel all of the good things he did or got right. Well said! Op should assist his father with whatever he can afford. |
Politics › Re: 2027: Seyi Tinubu’s Endorsements, Obasa’s Outburst Set Tone For Lagos Gov’ship by Coolgent(m): 10:36pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
So many slaves in comment section |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Has Pursued Lakaruwa Terrorists To Niger Republic - Senator Aliero by Coolgent(m): 4:21pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
They formally introduced the so call LAKURAWA, this issue will lie low until close to 2027 general election |
Sports › Re: Conor McGregor Ordered To Pay ₦437M After Nikita Hand Accused Him Of Rape by Coolgent(m): 2:04pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Fahvvy: Consensual s.ex don turn r.ape? ...
I honestly don't blame that Equatorial Guinea man for making those videos ... Otherwise he will be charge with many sexual assault litigations |
Health › Re: What's The Difference Between Blood Group And Genotype? by Coolgent(m): 11:12pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
Bergavis: You don see AA wen don be HIV positive? E no dey😂😂😂😂 Why? I be AA & B+ |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Karim Khan: This Is The ICC Prosecutor Who Issued An Arrest For Netanyahu(photo) by Coolgent(m): 12:22pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
God bless him! |
Politics › Re: Senate Removes Danladi Umar As CCT Chairman by Coolgent(m): 10:34pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
He will be replace with south easterner |
Properties › Re: Agent Refusing To Refund CAUTION FEE by Coolgent(m): 10:18pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
opicgif: What is the legal, appropriate way to handle conflict (for a poor man) 😔
I've had my share of fighting, shouting, making a scene
I'm a family man, there has to be another way Check rent tribunal, am sure you will regain your money even without lawyer |
Crime › Re: How I Was Paid N18,000, Dry Gin To Kill And Harvest Organ Of Dubai-based man by Coolgent(m): 6:54am On Nov 20, 2024 |
nairalee: After reading this, tears gathered in my eyes but I didn't let it drop.
One aspect of the story that wasn't clear was why he kept sending millions to these people.
Moral lesson learnt: 1) Don't keep secrets from your family. They're your direct representative and the ones to continue your legacy.
2) Don't dabble into any form of ritual
3) Don't be a pushover. Be firm and keep your circle of friends in check.
4) Any business/contract you engage in, have witnesses.
5) Don't lie about sensitive issues like travel, businesses engagement etc. Sometimes those rascals will use juju before the requested anything from you. |
Politics › Re: Indian PM Modi Calls Tinubu ‘Ore Mi’ During Historic Nigeria Visit by Coolgent(m): 6:09am On Nov 19, 2024 |
Most wicked president ever! |
Politics › Re: 'Friend Of Nigeria' - Tinubu Confers GCON Honour On Indian PM Modi (Video) by Coolgent(m): 8:01am On Nov 18, 2024 |
This Agbado president is planning to get loan from India |
Politics › Re: Wike Receives Indian PM Narendra Modi At Abuja Airport by Coolgent(m): 6:33pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
Mordson: 🤨
Why would a common Nigerian minister receive a whole prime minister of India? Tinupoo should be the one receiving him at the airport.
What sort of disrespect is this?  You are right o! Imagine, he even asked for photoshop  |
Family › Re: Is There Anything Wrong To Ask My Wife Weda She Messed Up While I Was Away by Coolgent(m): 6:30pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
pelusi: I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.
Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.
However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.
Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.
Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.
On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.
Please advise on the best way to go about this. Is she using android phone? |
Health › Re: How Much Is DNA Test In Nigeria? by Coolgent(m): 6:15pm On Nov 17, 2024 |
We4all: Hmnn...I thought it was less than 100K, if not, then it should be subsidized.
But if you don't have money to run a DNA, blood group and genotype can help to determine whether you are the child's father or not. It is not 100% accurate, but it is also useful. Explain more Pls |
Food › Re: Noodles With Snake Meat: Eat Or Pass? by Coolgent(m): 5:49pm On Nov 16, 2024 |
Add viewer discretion |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Appoints Daniel Bwala, Special Adviser On Public Communication by Coolgent(m): 4:07pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Spy installed! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: SA Police Trap 4,000 Migrant Miners Underground Without Food & Water - PICTURES by Coolgent(m): 4:06pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
RandDigital: Read on the dangers of illegal mining in SA, it's a pandemic. They're a law unto themselves and are heavily armed. The miners are involved in deadly turf wars, community homes get cracks or explode from underground activity. Plus SA loses out on mineral wealth to people from foreign countries.
Not everything should always be blamed on SA. When are you people ever gonna take responsibility for your actions? The same thing is about to happen in North-Western states. Illegal mining = banditry |
Foreign Affairs › Re: SA Police Trap 4,000 Migrant Miners Underground Without Food & Water - PICTURES by Coolgent(m): 4:05pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
9ja4live: These people are wicked oh Illegal mining is what caused banditry in Zamfara Sokoto etc |
Politics › Re: Federal Government Proposes ₦47.9 Trillion For 2025 Budget by Coolgent(m): 2:35pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
TemporaryHansel: That is money ordinary departments/agencies in US cities budget for their spending.. lapd( Los Angeles police department) has almost if not a higher budget than Nigeria. That's insane. Nigeria is really poor tbh. The LAPD budget is 1.9 billion dollars ! |
Politics › Re: 2027: Atiku Has No Chance In PDP, Wike Declares by Coolgent(m): 8:02am On Nov 14, 2024 |
Who care about this double face drunkard! |
Education › Re: PhD Student Could Not Write His Name Properly – National Teachers DG by Coolgent(m): 11:20pm On Nov 12, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: My Mission Is To Recapture Kano For APC - Housing Minister, Yusuf Abdullahi Ata by Coolgent(m): 9:57pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Anither563: God bless you my brother. You will succeed in this important national assignment. May God bless Nigeria for ever! Apc miscreant weldone |
Car Talk › Re: This Car Consumes A Lot Of Fuel by Coolgent(m): 10:42pm On Nov 08, 2024 |
Sirchiboy: If I buy like 20k fuel
If I do like 6 to 7 ride. Fuel will finish. Highest ride I dey see na 3k. I only get back my fuel.. Sample of the car I am using Is bellow 20k fuel is about 18 litres. 18 litres can cover about 140km on normal driving with corolla. Let them scan the car and find out what's wrong |
Politics › Re: First Lady Of Nigeria Remi Tinubu Visits Lagbaja’s Widow (Pictures) by Coolgent(m): 3:11pm On Nov 08, 2024 |
agulion: As if he died recently, somebody that died about two weeks ago but the useless gvt decided to cover it up, Pls what FG is going to gain by concealing his death? |
Romance › Re: What Lesson Did You Learn From Equatorial Guinea Scandal? by Coolgent(m): 3:04pm On Nov 08, 2024 |
Meti99: Some ladies are already pressing me to delete all videos we recorded together 😅 Delete them for your own good pls |
Politics › Re: Lakurawa: Foreign Armed Group Luring Our Youths With ₦1M – Sokoto LG Chair by Coolgent(m): 7:33pm On Nov 06, 2024 |
Botragelad: Go on, then, hand over the entire country to them! They're merely fighting against the Nigerian army's 'oppression'. Oh, and naturally, you are a genocide lover for speaking against them.
These are 'freedom and resistance fighters', They're ever so brave and strong. All they desire is liberation after years of alleged occupation. Their terrorist attack is simply a justified retaliation for Nigeria's past actions.
Free them and stop the land grabbing! You sound like one of the international terrorists |