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Dear phpfx,

Top of the day to you.

I understand your position in this matter. However, the first thing is to carefully confront your babe and let her know your feeling stating your relationship with the other guy and that you want her to clarify to you whats going on between them; also establish that you're not accusing her of any wrong doing just an expression of your feelings.

Obviously, no one making comments here will be there to judge what the outcome reactions will be but then you have to man-up and decide what you want to do. If you are sure you can't deal with her like that perhaps she's an extrovert and she's attracted to someone like herself. This may require you to also up your game like someone said, and in the ultimate candid but difficult to do decision is you can opt out because I can tell you if you're feeling this way while you're not married, you will have harder challenge to deal with it when you're married and you will not love it if she's just an extrovert eventually.

My candid opinion.

I wish you Gods speed!

[b]On my mind since over a week is the health hazard the Lagos Waste Management Authority/dump site management has unleashed on the residence of Ketu Ikosi and environment by burning/incinerating the dump site situated at Olusosun area bordering Ibadan - Lagos, 7up area.

The thick and heavy toxic smoke has taken over the whole area causing low feasibility to motorists and pedestrian alike.
This has been on for two days and counting, putting the lives of infants, foetus and the elderly at risk of possible chronic system failure or breakdown of health, abnormal fetus growth, and unexplained health issue respectively.

It is imperative to address this act of reckless discharged of lawful engagement at the detriment of the great population/inhabitant in the area. Every attempt to reach the agency to find solution to this hazardous exercise is void. We've been breathing consistently highly polluted air for several days now and still counting.

Government of Lagos state, your actions in this regards is not bad but executing same has brought total discomfort to the residence and it should be address.

Furthermore, during raining season, the bad smell that comes out from this dump site has a far reaching negative effect to over 3km away from the site due to perceived poor waste management system or techniques.

Dear Authorities, as a matter of urgency for the safety of our own Lagos inhabitants, all over, let us correct this mega potential monster that has saturated our atmosphere putting our lives at risk.

I enjoin you to please share this message till it reaches our vibrant and performing Lagos Government for a positive corrective action.

Eko oni baje O
Itesiwaju Eko lo je wa logun

Warmest regards.[/b]

Dear Bro, be swift to listen and take your time to react. Whatever your decision is after you hear her remember; there is this word of wisdom from the yoruba's, how its said in other part of the country I don't know but am sure there is a word like that - "the woman we marry in the club house will definitely stray in the club house." I hope you will see reason in my comment.
Don't do anything stupid on seeing her, listening will help you. with all the above comments, if this situation faces persistently kick it, if it turns it back at you kick it, when your alone, rethink your/retrace your steps....