₦airaland Forum

Globad:
This is not necessary

At all..okay?

Why drag her into it?

Na u they mind them
All na cruise
We are getting her prepared and contributing money to buy even bigger pot

naturefellow:
do tou have sisters or nieces

Emotional blackmail again
I should try to be rational and non biased right
I shoudnt treat the matter like one party in an issue is my family
Would you ask a judge that question
In fact the judge will recuse himself if he has a family memeber in a case that he is supposed to preside over
Because people that their common sense is still working know that you cannot be rational in a case where your family members are involved

Now ask yourself if that your original question to me still makes any sense

Sirleo05:
Davido, Wizkid and Burna own na to dey buy cars up and down ( liabilities ) no Investment. Shey na so davido fada dey buy cars when him dey young? how come davido no fit follow him Fada footsteps. The 3 of dem dey vex me with their lack of business sense

Wetin person dey use tesla truck dey do for Nigeria

Sonnobax15:
. Banny wey carry church for head na big red flag for me....

True dat too
All these specimen come with their special set of problems

Softmirror:
Constructive journalism doesn't just focus on problems, it focuses on solutions alongside the problem while incorporating multiple perspectives to providing a richer context, as well as facilitate constructive dialogue and community engagement. Such reporting are calm, even though with a critical tone, it's intent is not sensationalism.

Why do we bother electing people into office then
What exactly is their 'job'

Even if your allegations are true, that doesnt warrant arrest and detention in a so called 'democracy'

Sonnobax15:

I swear I just love this banny more and more...... She's definitely my type of banny and we share alot mentality-wise...........

I live in an area where I'm surrounded by 3 different churches and I always shake my head whenever I see how and the rate at which these pulpit bandits brainwash their members....

A banny wey no dey go church
You know already she comes with her own set of problems too

Softmirror:
It is still poor journalism if you can make a report of which you get arrested at the end of the day. It simply means you did not make a constructive criticism with intent for development.

Did someone just type this nonsense
This country cant be good walahi

98 people liked this thing
Hehe
Nigeria
My Nigeria

If i was the md or owner of one of those hotels
People will lose their jobs for sure

There can be no smoke without a fire
Leftists are losing it worldwide
Charlie Kirk was murdered yesterday in the US

Ebenezer2021:
big time

If it was the other way round
Would a post be here almost implying the woman killed the man like this one

DmonSlayer10:
Are you sure bitter and Vengefull family members of the deceased are not at work here?

The abuse she's alleged to have suffered was never an issue but her death necessitated the need to highlight those abuses.

Na the death dey pain Dem.(Supposedly so)

Because infidelity of husbands in marriages..
..though not advisable.. is commonplace in the African society and most African Women has learned to cope with it(At least it's better than bringing in a second wife wey go come show her pepper).

This victim coped with it like others and was travelling abroad to improve herself and distract herself from the Experience(s)

Unfortunately she fell sick and died?

Why trying to send the Young man to jail when he's not the Murderer?

If he abused her,it's wrong.Very wrong.

But he didn't kill her

My point exactly
And you need to see how people who have just lost very close loved ones behave
I have experienced 2 of such occasions at close quarters
They will start accusing you of ridiculous things at random
Its not a pleasant experience at all

dhealthyplace:
You have already said enough, you try e bi like say you know the man before

In the past week i've seen 3 or 4 sponsored posts trying to just malign random men with very childish and outlandish claims on nairaland
So its gets tiring for me

Its a very interesting phenomenon
Well i tgink its a result of not so much over indulgence or over pampering even though that would certainly be a part of it.
Somebody said this might just be a phase and Soludo himself could have done worse at his age.

The real issue imo is not allowing people to behave their age especially children with the blackmailing of your father is a very important or big man, you cant do that, do you know what people will say
A lack of genuine self expression and exploration while growing up in summary
Add a lackbof real problems aka over pampering and luxury
And then the parents failing to provide and enforce a key vision and lack of genuine emotional guidance and bonding with the parents. In the case of a son i would say the father.
My humble submission

lightwind:
You see how clean and sweet Bobrisky looks ? I mean they are sooo adorable, i can't stop imagining how sweet they are really.
Honestly

Not every gay is a bottom
Its the bottoms that are very obvious by their feminine mannerisms

Another sponsored post
Cheers
I know even too much weight alone can contribute to health issues

I wont say more than that sha

creolehunt:
Complete waste of investment, in my honest opinion

I have an uncle who is a professor of linguistics and phonetics

oga028315:
But later you people will be insulting Igbos that they love money too much, the hypocrisy from you guys ehn!

Human being for you
Smh

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oyatz:
This is similar to the usual excuses of failed siblings, blaming their most successful siblings that 'all the money that our parents had were used to educate Broda Yemi/ Aunty Aminat' now, he forgets us.

The real reason why other States witnessed slower growth: collapses of over 300 manufacturing companies scattered accross Nigeria between 1986-2007 and replacement, with culture of massive importation. This led to great rural-urban migration.

Is it a bad complaint truly if that is what actually happened truly

DrAda:
Sad story but there are holes in it. I find it hard to believe that she was born with HIV, only to be discovered at 8 years of age. That is practically impossible as the disease would have advanced so much so that i don't expect her to be alive without anti-retroviral drugs.

Which begs the next question, if she was infected much later, how did she get it? Was she sexually abused by the dad who is also HIV positive or transfused at some point with his blood? Did they share sharps?

The story about the grandmother just handing her drugs is also unbelievable. Where was she getting the drugs from? I know for certain that she didn't buy it because they are expensive so she must have gotten them for free from a hospital.

Which begs the next question, who on earth in a hospital environment will give HIV drugs to a healthy person for a sick person? Or did the grandmother take some of the dad's meds to give the child. If so, how did the dad convince the health care providers the reason his medications were finishing so quickly. I would have suspected that he was selling the drugs and flagged him from getting further drugs.

And then finally, when she went to the hospital to collect her drugs as a teenager (several years later), she learnt the truth about her status. That makes no sense. What about her latest CD4 count, periodic checks on other investigations to ascertain if there are side effects to the drugs etc.

Like I said, there are holes in this story but if makes for an interesting read and most importantly draws attention to HIV in children and its attendant negative social effects. So well done.

Actually,this is Nigeria, All those 'holes' are not so big and they are easily fillable

DiarisGodoo:
But it was on video how they were slapping him around

Most people online are paid pr agents
Dont bother argiing with them
They know the truth but they will never say it

princepee:
the name is Fruit ..
We have it in our compound, very test less

We used to call it just fruit growing up
They were everywhere in front of my dad's office, planted for shade foe the cars.
There are varieties some are yellow when ripe, some are red when ripe. Some are actually very sweet, i think the red ones are sweet

iwaeda:
A fellow human being given terms and conditions to another elected person. Who is sure of Dec 2025? I am too sure Fubara will not honour the agreement, it will become, yam pepper scatter, scatter.

Well done ,Dele fagunwa abi wole soyinka of our time
Lol

YeyeGbami:
na common sense now, you think this is how people became elder statemen by uttering nonsense. after all the warnings, anything wey con happen na OYO you dey.

A former presidential candidate, talking anyhow


Incase you wondering, I just got paid my 30K.

Thanks for your honesty
But did the new minimum wage not touch you people ni

WizardOfNG:
Bro, if you dig deeper, it may be the case she is a single mother who think we are mocking the mother of the deceased toddler whereas that is not the case.

The article made it clear the couple were always fighting loudly and perhaps violently. Where is the adult commonsense and judgement of the mother that should have told her it probably isn't wise leaving the toddler with the guy?

I will never understand why some women can love and trust violent men. Well i understand but it just doesnt make sense to me.
Its so bad some women will even intentionally provoke you if you are too calm around them

Peterpaul96:
Sadly. Though Taraba is relatively safe from my observation

My dad used to tell me stories of travelling all over the cpuntry during his nysc days that was in the 1st year nysc was created
I have an older friend too who used to drive the military governor of ogun state then , he told me stories of driving his boss to Jos to play golf every month
Things have really gone to shiit

ajalawole:
so what are they taking of.
Some girls doing hook up are actual sponsoring them self to school or there sibling. They can't just run into hook up if responsibility don't come. I once try to chat a lady on Facebook, she agree to come spend the night, only for her to ask me how much I will give her in the morning that her husband will ask for the money she make from work.... That statement alone make me block her when I sense she was married.

Hook up culture is prioritizing short term casual non-emotional relationships basically for companionship and sex
It doesnt necessarily mean sex for cash or sex work
Your story is just crazy even though i have heard sich before, some people even send their wives to italy so that they can earn in foreign currency.
I wonder how that whole conversation will come up between husband and wife.
It will be very interesting

ajalawole:
When parent keep giving birth to kids they can't take care of that is the result. I don't really blame most ladies going into hook up, in as much they can take care of themselves and not be a threat to national security. Hook up is better then kidnapping, arm robbery and all that.

Thats not the hook up that is being talked about here

Alliswell248:
We have heard you. You said worse things in 2022. Even some p@stors supported you. The rest is history today

Tinubu is your president till May 2031

Why are u insulting ur fellow apc supporter u people should have secret codes to comminicate na

JovialJune:
Because you personally know the woman to know the kind of dad he is, are you sure you're okay?

Ask yourself the same question because i dont know y someone giving gis own perspective ona topic is giving you headache that much

helinues:
I am actually curious about somethings..

Under this government, most of the sectors and institutions are now independent..Should we still be blaming the presidency for some things.

The insecurity in North, starting from the Gov, to the Senators, HOR members, HOA members, kings, group leaders etc.

Please what's is their own responsibility in the killings here and there in North lately?

So the kings and the hor and gov are the c in c abi
Just continue earning your 30k gleefully
Just Continue