Nkemika: very funny how one tend to place sex as top priority. in the religious view, are u suppose to test the man or woman in the first place, i think what makes people place sex on their top list is because they have tried so many and already know which is good or not so instead of focusing on much more values in their partner, they tend to focus about the bed, forgetting that no matter how good u are today, there will be a time when you both will get tired of the routine in bed...what keeps marriages is that unique friendship built.....those days how fathers and mothers will just marry and practice till they become good together in bed. ashawothings#, keep placing your top priority as Sex, Na you get urself plus na u know urself!!!

Yes, God bless you Nkem. While I wouldn't underestimate the importance of sex to legitimately married couples ONLY, I'm of the view that people have so much over-rate and idolise sex and forget that the most important thing is commitment to keep the marriage going, inspite of all odds against, till it attains its 50 Anniversary and eventually climaxes in old age, the attainment of which requires a lot from the couples involved.