i am the wife,.and please dont associate nagging only for women.
'My husband nags me a lot, often yells at me when i cant do things exactly as how he wants it to be,.times passed i ask friend's opinion about it and they said i should submit to him because in knowledge and learning he is ahead of me,since he has been married before and was 20 years older than me,.ok so i am the one immature in this relationship and i need to learn more in how to handle relationship and life but why even when i seem to do my best its still not enough. Evrything is not enough for him, i feel like he wants me to be a robot that whenerver he pushes the button I am always on the go. It has been his ex wife's problem with him too because he just can't shut up,can't stop talking. When i say a word ,he has got hundreds more to butt in. Isnt it funny how people always think girls are the ones who likes nagging. Yeah you shouldnt be stereotyping. Nagging sucks and tears the very fiber of my sanity. My happiness in this marriage is now questionable. I miss the old husband i used to know, I miss the one who is always joyful and cooperative. HE tells me,marriage is a teamwork,yeah right but its a teamwork of two people that the other person follows all the commands of the other person. thats teamwork. and also my immaturity and being young he's telling me i dont know anything and that he knows more than me,. I decided to go with the flow and follow strive to meet his demands. But there are times i feel so lame,this is not the life i dreamt of. I feel so useless because I AM "JUST" a wife i need to submit, and that i dont have the power to say what i feel. I am a complete robot inthe house.maybe even in sex.help! this marriage makes me loose my sanity and self esteem,also kills me slowly with choking me of things i dont really want and like. its all just because i am obliged to do so. I am married to him and stil love him,dont intend and never had thoughts of leaving him,just feels that hopefully one day he will change that habit and be back to the same lovely man i know.