Almond oil, olive oil are good.Baby oil can cause you yeast infections.

Or go and get a silicone based lube..durex makes loads of them,small sachets different flavours to play with.

Haddock:


Very epic reply! Thumbs up!

They talk about marriage as if it is a walk in the dream land. Silly people. They have forgotten the statistics of their so called bad girls who end up as fish in wicked men's pot!

How many "bad girls" are struggling with some STD's?

How many "bad girls" wrecked their wombs?

How many "bad girls" are living their life in shame and embarrassment in their matrimonial homes?

How many "bad girls" are lying in unmarked graves around the world without any hope of marriage for them anymore?

The OP is being used by the devil, he is just being opinionated. No fact in his foolish vomit.

Clean minded men are still busy seeking for good girls!

Unfortunately,all you listed can be experienced by both good and bad girls.

The problem is falling into the hands of a bad promiscuous spouse.

The so called 'bad ' girls seem to know how to fish out innocent guys and pitch tents with them.

Even ordinary NL the biggest LovePeddler of a man is looking for virgin to marry..imagine the unfortunate girl.that ends in his trap.

Good or bad girl should be careful about choice of spouse that's all.

Marriage isn't all its cooked up to be ,there's more to life than being a Mrs.

You know he's eating out so why exactly are you worried? If he was fasting or starving it would be different.This not eating thing has been an old school form of emotional torture,once you respond to it by paying attention and getting upset,the offender will keep repeating it forever.

When a child throws a tantrum sometimes it's best to.ignore till the child settles down.

You may have to toughen up and let this play out till he is tired then you both can sit down and discuss like adults .

If you start by always begging even when you are not wrong,he will keep on behaving like this for the rest of your life.How about both of you talking through whatever issues before it escalates to this level..

Cook enough and freeze.All these threats of losing him to another woman,pure nonsense.If he wants to go to another woman he will do it even if you force feed him or hang leg 360 degrees in bed.

Live your life and stop giving in to childish acts.
If you are desperate though,red pant and bra method are always an option.

Not all men are babies,there are truck loads of them who are mature and would rather sit down to trash out issues instead of engaging in infantile nonsense.

Good luck.

This is a clear cut case of domestic violence.
Do you want to die?Hitting,slapping,iron,bottle?
Your lady is sick upstairs.
Kindly thank your stars and run away from this relationship because next time it will be a knife.
No matter what you've done,there is no excuse for this sort of behaviour.

A word is enough for the wise.