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And how does this affect or concern us ?

First of all beauty alone dosent attract suitors,might do flirts and from the psychology behind your thread,you lack confidence in other words you think there's something wrong with you which may be true. But if you dont believe in yourself enough for someone to believe in you,you'll struggle in almost every aspect of life.
DEVELOP YOURSELF till there's a man who needs you

Ever wondered why giving is such a difficult gesture ? even to some christians ? My answer am afraid has to be deduced from more questions.


Ever wondered Why it is so difficult to give even when you have ? That you literally have to go to war with your greed before you can summon enough capacity to let that"pure water boy" go with the remaining #20 naira ?

Ever wondered why you seldomly release funds for purposes that do not bode well for your personal interest ?

Ever wondered why it is easier to carelessy acquire a movie for a thousand naira than drop it in an offering booth at your local assembly ?

My answer ?
there is something about giving ! something that the natural Selfish man cant make peace with.


Giving dosent neccesarily need to be in church alone but on any ground that can garner the blessings of God

Because you dont believe in it dosent mean it is not working for others and there is no point to force your unfounded opinion on others.

you give to God's work it advances,you dont give ? It ADVANCES.You give to humanity they survive,you dont give they SURVIVE.

You ask for scriptural backing and prove and when you get it,you start argueing your brains out like someone who is trying to convince lionel messi never to dribble a player again(pointless)

Not bent on convincing anyone otherwise their perspective but to reveal the true reason behing the reluctance which is purely a self centered narcicistic impulse.If you are taking a stand,atleast admit why you are standing where you are standing.

"Drops pen,sips hollandia yoghurt,closes note pad and says to anyone reading 'i come in peace' "

Don't even understand one