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Op has a point
a woman's body is an asset, just like a man's resources. If they give it away too quickly and too cheaply, it becomes devalued.
most men keep women around because of sexual attention and female validation to stroke their ego.
when demand is high but supply is very low, value skyrockets. Which is why even great men used to pay huge prices for virgins, but when demand is high and supply is also very high, value nose~dives, and subsequently the demand goes down, because what you're always available for will never look for you !

siofra:
I really want to know, because honestly I see people talking about how you need to act feminine or masculine and I don't understand.

People are very diverse and different, you shouldn't try to box them.

So she can actually state a premise without adding a touch of lunacy !
Decides to reply again !

Feminity is not an act
Its what changes the energy in a room full of guys when you walk in..its in the way men relate with you, with a touch of honour !

We guys insult and bash ourselves even for fun, but will treat a feminine woman with respect, no matter how familiar. From what i've seen, every male moniker here dishonours your womanhood !

Why ?
Your ways are crude and crass, with a touch of verbal carelessness, these are masculine traits !

Tries to type more and decides its not worth it !

siofra:
Is it not you that was having existential crisis (you never see anything) about TRP the other day.

Tell me, what makes a woman?

Contemplating..... !!
Then decides to reply

What makes a woman ?
You really wanna know or you just want to flood my mentions with more of your blasphemy ?

Smh !
Thats your daily dose of attention, use it wisely cos you may not be getting any from me in a while !

Bro
Dont stress
I avoid her threads like shit
You've even given her the attention she wants by creating this thread and its only gonna fuel her vanity more !
I doubt she's even female
Cos she's dosent have anything that makes a woman !

No reverance for the husband + no fear for God = cheating with the next available attractive person with reckless abandon !

SMH !

Bro !
Rebels are taking the surrounding areas in the capital of ethiopia, which could incite civil unrest

And even the presidents of china, russia and india refused to attend the united nations conference on global warming earlier on !

My point exactly ?
We've got better pending issues to deliberate on than your inability to fornicate with your new girlfriend, whom you'll soon jump for another !

Request costody of the child, how old is he again ?

Your ex wife knows how to pull strings, you should beat her at that game !

Even if it takes giving into the court's demands for the mean time, you have much too lose and she has nothing to lose, which is exactly why she has got you in a tight spot

You've got no fault,
She was once your sweetheart, so she knows which buttons to press.

If you're smart enough, you can beat her at her own game, if they aint giving you custody, you can start paying the support till you figure out what to do, and that my friend is your descision alone !

What we redpillers do on a norm !
Its not love, you're just attracted to her !
You aint gon date everyone you're attracted to !

I have seen this first hand,
Dont ask me how !
Few years down the union,everything goes south. Women dont just submit to every male, submission entails that you are superior to her in many ways and she sees you as a person to look up to in all ramifications.


Men are the resevoirs of financial security, if she way more secure than you are financially, triple your hustle bro !

Who even hates this man sef
aint got no hate for nobody, but why rub everything you do in peoples faces....the top dogs with billions aint doing this !

Dude is almost more attractive than the lady
Just hope she's submissive and sees you as the prize that you are !

So i posted the first redpill thread to grace nairaland's frontpage, which i didnt even realise untill ubunja, a man who taught me more than half of what i know about TRP today confirmed it in a comment, which is suprising and leaves me wondering whether nairaland's mods are not in favour of this emancipation.

so on thursday evening, my mom made a comment about my recently found lifestyle which apparently motivated me to make the post. a daughter of a family friend of ours needed help of some sort but couldnt approach me for reasons best known to her, but instead went to report me to my mom and dad.

as guy man wey popsy be na im sabi wetin dey sup cos he used to advice me about women when i was younger just & waved it off but mumsy come carry am on top head come summon me.

lets cut to the chase i had a heart to heart talk with mom and she told me some consequences ill encounter if i continue on this path, trying to win me back to the bluepill.

so gents how do you handle the pressure ?
the hate is heavy!

[quote author=Perfectskills01 post=106772384]You are a red piller indeed . It's just that you don't know where you belong in the red pill .
Understand this ..... Red pill comprises mgtow , PUA , misogynist , father's right group etc .

Mgtow red pill teaches you to go your own way

PUA red pill teaches you to get women

Misogyny red pill teaches you to hate women

Father's right red pill teaches about paternity fraud and parental alienation

Etc

The red pill is amoral . What you do with it is up to you .

The mistake many red pillers like you do make is that , they don't take time to understand the red pill they claim to belong .

Reading some red pill contents doesn't certify you as a red piller if you lack the proper application of it.

However, since you are interested to become a red piller , you should also understand what the red pill is all about and know where you belong . You are either a MGTOW , PUA etc .

I appreciate this

God bless everyone that understood my point, i have swallowed TRP and there is no going back now.

i am just new to the excessive hatred that comes with being diffrent. in my circle, i have tried giving the pill to some of my guys, and the moment their women notice it, they leave thier guys and come for me, as in the hate is just massive so i came here for a word or two from my fellow redpill brothers !

its a process and i trust it, am just realising that women are very manipultative beings, you dont dance to their music they try to make you pay and the more you persist the more hated you become.

am just new to the feeling of being so massively hated by women, shout out to the reasonable ones who understand TRP and masculinity

NO SIMPING FOR ANY REASON.

[quote author=Jman06 post=106740173]Op, you're not yet red pilled. When you become red pilled like myself, women would be the least of your worries. You'll not care whether they give you attention or not. In fact, you'll never need a girl's attention to validate your ego like you put it.

As I'm now, I don't care a hoot about women! From the look of things sef, I might never get married and I'll be very fine. I'll make my money not to impress any woman, but to enjoy my life and also take care of my mum, my nephews and nieces. Simple

I am redpilled
i wasnt trying to make money to impress women, but to feel like a man, i went too long without an ego boost, which is not healthy for a man.

My whole point is that no matter how much achievements i pursue, am not feeling whole, you cant even begin to imagine the simple things i have deprived myself of, for example, i haven't hugged any woman in 8 months, trust me, which all part of my scheme to morph into an alpha with zero emotions and vulnerabilities towards women, but i seem to have noticed that to really enjoy people, you have to drop your guard a bit...still typing

helinues:
The red pillers and the so called feminists are the most hypocritical people cos they don't practice what they preached

I have never preached redpill, but i believe it, there's nothing that bereaves a man of honour than being broke and being used by women

First of all i aint no simp and never will be, i have always been a person that respects myself a lot before men and women, but everything escalated when i encountered the redpill.

I was 19 when i was exposed to TRP, out of academic and hustling stress i started reading threads on nairaland and i no time as a lover of knowledge became hooked on ubunja's miseducations and after practising TRP for two years going now, i cant really say it has won me favour in the eyes of people, especially women.

I broke up with the first and only girlfriend ive had, because i changed drastically over night because i was high on the pill, my circle of guys started leaving me out cos i suddenly became the odd one out.

Girls started giving me attitude, cos i reduced the attention i gave out, so i decided to take it to the extreme and went all out ignoring all of them.

Lets cut the story short, am toxic, alone, with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing

FaruqMadridCr7:
wow.Thanks for this Did you use to feel something like fear when you're shy? Cause that's what I always feel.i can unshy so easily but my shyness comes with fear that's why it's getting on my nerves

it's called nervousness, your heart beats at a rate that suprises Even you, you just can't explain it but it feels as if you perceive this overwhelming discomfort coming your way,that gets you really confused. Shyness usually comes with many disorders man. Just don't let it get to your soul, it could cause a psychiatric condition, continously talking to yourself, becoming terrified of public places, creating a fantasy world in your mind etc. Just stick to developing yourself, have quiet times with God, you'll feel peace, the kind of peace that makes any awkward situation mean nothing to you.

FaruqMadridCr7:
pls complete this.thanks

Sorry, was dozing and typing, couldn't walk past your post. Am actually an introvert, and was dealing with shyness once, but you need to see me speak in public, i kill it everytime, way better than some talkative extroverts, i am invited to speak and i get paid sometimes. But i was once very anxious and shy. People mocked at me, i didn't have no friends, few pple used to pity me, but Guess what ? I decided to make myself right use my energy to make myself. Once you're relevant, your flaws are automatically overlooked, and your prowess hyped. Find that thing that is going to give you satisfaction when you're on your death bed, and work on it. Discover yourself. It maybe making money, serving God, building a company, teaching, anything !

Bro
Anxiety is real to everyone every now and then
No one is totally frre of it, I have been where you're at before, its not funny, it slowly drains your energy till you don't find anything good about life anymore.
RELEVANCE
Bro pursue relevance, seek to be More important, make yourself right, never mind them, chase the bag, chase purpose and meaning, be an achiever.
Anxiety usually comes out of the feeling of not being equal to the task,or not being enough

And you just have to start caring less and less about what people think about you.
If you don't emancipate yourself from that mental chokehold, you'll never be free of unnecessary anxiety, am actually a

Bro
To a woman, love is not a descision !
That only happens with men !
To a woman, love is a feeling or set of feelings, hence why she still clings to one abusive male over the dozens of guys begging for her attention. She loves whoever she feels the strongest sets of emotions for. Which is why you can turn your female enemy into your girlfriend in two days, cos she already feels for you very strong negative emotions, which van be easily harnessed and converted.
So most times, a woman dosent chose who she loves, she just loves.

Babamillie:
Y'all should stop saying things that you know can't work. How will Naija police accept that offer. If you're in that position can you go to the police station to go and sleep?

well I have done that twice,but seeing as she's a woman,it may not be the best option,but I think she's running out of options

You have no friends nor relatives there ? Well I suggest you make one soonest,by the way,you can spend nights at a police station,it's your constitutional right as a citizen

richmond500:
I think taking her out and relaxing is a good thing, if the relationship is new, she may be uncomfortable coming to his house, let them meet in a neutral ground where she will be comfortable and he also will be, what he needs right now is confidence, him go just fvck up if him try to do alpha male, he will embarrass himself, he needs confidence first before trying to pretend he is in charge so he doesn't scare her away trying to make her feel she's lucky to have him.

The only time u try to be a redpiller is when u meet a feminist, if u try to be like a lion on an obedient girl, she will be defensive, its good not to make early mistakes

You've got a point bro
But he still needs to come off as a man thats in charge,or in the long run she'll toss him left and right at the see finish stage.

You are right about the public meeting,i guess he wont be able to make her trust him well enough,soon enough to visit him.

You're right.

Relax !
I bet you're feeling so lucky to have her such that you dont wanna say or do the wrong thing !

Its always that way the first time,you can only learn by experience,no amount of coaching will make it perfect,you have to learn from victories and mistakes alike.

My advice though
Dont ever insinuate to her in any way that you feel lucky to have her,that will give her more power and leverage over you,and as a man,you dont want that to happen.


Be confident
She's lucky to have you,not the other way round,so dont go trying to please her !

Since you're a new couple and you dont have much experience,ill not recommed you taking her out,it'll be awkward and pretense filled,instead invite her to your crib,and just talk,get to bond properly !

Dont try to impress her just yet,the goal is to make her fall head heels over in love with you,and you do that by forging a very strong emotional bond with her (it is the only language they understand)

What am i saying in essence,just talk and let her feel you.

Prechgold1180:
She has a place to stay

Her dad has like three houses
One in edo two in delta

Her elder bro got something big in same delta

I nur just know why she is choking me
She is nice thou
I do love to marry when I am ready but for now I got to breath abeg

Do what i said,withdraw,stop recieving the wifely benefits,the talk to her

Bravery is not just being ready to die for your woman but putting her in order,even if it hurts her feelings for you,its for her own good.

Talk to her first,she maybe hiding from something or someone,your duty is to find out.

Dosent she have anywhere to go ?
Is it circumstance or she just choosed to stay with you ?
Have you been sleeping with her during this time,has she been cooking for you and performing other wifely duties ?

If yes then she feels entitled to the shelter you offer her,nothing goes for nothing.

You messed up man
Being a man includes being able to bring order where there is none.you really messed up


Its a fair trade,if she is performing wifely duties,then subconciously she expects you to perform manly duties

Start with curtailing any wifely benefits she has been giving you,the sex the care,the food,in one or two days her concious mind will get the gist.

Then at this point,sit her down and ask how far,whats her plans,where next,is she planning to stay with you forever ? If she dosent have any plans,make one for her and execute it


NB only go through this stress if you see a future with her if not,you know how agberos throw away pure water sachets after drinking ? throw her out of your house like that.

Thats right
He's the anchor of hope and light in thd storms of life !

It is no longer news !
Women keep different guys
For different purposes

Wetin dey pain me now be say if i post a video of how infant's psychology works in both male & female children,you may not bother sharing it,but this low budget overused hoe comes here to tell us what we already know,seeking for attention,boom its already going places.

Guys which way now,i thought we all agreed that nigerian women are useless....all of them ?

Vawulence everywhere ! God will forgive you For a second there I thought i was going crazy Had to read it with my glasses to know i was not