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Is it your achievement ?

She's an orphan.
Its gonna be easier to break out of ikoyi prison in lagos than to sever a bond that has been forged by years of sorrow and ecstasy alike.


If you want her more on your side than theirs,you have to forge a stronger bond with her,and it takes time.

Women dont think the way men do.you analysed the situation with logic,added two to two and the subtracted two but it gave you one,dosent make sense right ? But she dosent think like that,to her,her obssession with her siblings is right as long as she feels good about it.

And to women the onlx thing that is better than feeling good,is "feeling better" give her that and she'll migrate,you cant just ask her to do it,flip the switch,no it dosent work that way.

I know how you feel though,it hurts your ego to know that your woman is more connected and more dependent on someone else when you're trying your best.

Ignore the people telling you you've not married yet,good marriages are forged by good relationships !

[quote author=iLegendd post=103172730]Humans are hypocrites. They consider people who talk about sex or dating or relationship as irresponsible.

By default, 80% of people who know me online will consider me noisy, arrogant, and irresponsible because of the type of books I write and how I bluntly say things.

These same people are the ones that buy them behind the scene. Offline 95% see me as responsible, humble, and calm. People can have dua personalities depending on what they want to achieve.

Since I already believe they consider me irresponsible online, I have no choice than to use all "legit," but irresponsible strategies available to get more sales and controversy is one of them.

Everyone considers Naira Marley as irresponsible, so this gave him freedom to confidently sing about anything and make money from it.

Some real accolades to you man ! You got some big time psychology up your sleeve,you just took care of my uncertainty !

cchub:
If you want to know how effective the strategy is. Study the OP's profile.

Am already on that bro
Just need his word for it
Because only he knows the figures,the pros and cons !

[quote author=iLegendd post=103171430]Marketing is the greatest skill. Inside marketing, you have copywriting and storytelling.

Now, you've got marketing handled, there is something left and that is great content.

With a poor content, you'll make money if your marketing is great, but that customer will not come back again. He's going to talk against your business behind your back and you'll lose new clients.

With a great content, you'll make money forever if your marketing is great. Customer 1 will come back to buy more and he or she will tell others about you and more people will come. So, it's 51/49. Great marketing + topnotch content.

Excellent marketing+amazing content =sales and longevity in sales,got it !

So is it adviceable to generate audience through controversial means i.e create a charade to arouse curiosity and attention,while channelling the energy towards your product ? How effective is this strategy in the long run i.e does it bode well for the credibility of your product?

You cannot be more right about Digital assets,it is the future,and you cant also be more right about the fact that nobody wants you to be better than them,even your blood

I just have a question for you though
When it comes to creating and marketing digital content,what skill is most vital,is it your ability to create amazing content or your strategies and expertise when it comes to marketing ?

An engagement would be appreciated ! Thanks

Bro
Where's your manly dignity ? Come on man you even gave her the go ahead to keep milking the guy ? Whats the difference between you & her now,cos if you were to be a woman,it shows you would have done the same,its an insult on your honour as a man.
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST AND ABIDE BY THE CODE OF HONOUR !

dannyrhymes600:
oga, it is not only fornication that can make a person stay behind when rapture happens, common phone lie can, taking what isn't yours can, backbiting, gossiping and other petty things can.

i dont remember saying so,what the sin of fornication does is to extinguish your life of peace and assurance which is why people give thier lives to christ every two two months cos they no longer feel they belong cos of the life they've been leading

but you have peace right ?,inside of you,you are sure that if the rapture happens now,you'll be saved right,you dont feel empty and disoriented eachh time you look on your inside right ? Well if you experience all this,you would know that its worth more than carnal pleasure

nuggets

Sometimes you need to get away from the crowd to discover yourself cos it is after discovering yourself that you will discern where you fit in


You'll get bored
you'll get lonely
but if you are after something,it'll be worth it but you'll always need people as your relevance is determined by how well you impact others

I feel your pain
you're no scammer
those words however short can only come out of experience !

this world is too rugged not to live for something
and only God can add that sense purpose to your life....keep breathing
there is hope just follow God,you can ask me how

"Whenever i look at you,all i think about is sex"
The man is loosed

and the woman is clueless and loosed at the same time,she should know that whoever feeds,clothes,shelters or sponsors you in any way has a liscence to control you

if this is what relationships are all about then being single is a blessing !

NACE13:
Bro, no matter what, don't throw away your alpha male status, it is the next thing your woman respects after your financial status. No woman wants another 'woman' to be the head. Even if you must sacrifice a few things for love, don't include your alpha status. Once you do, you have lost the respect. There's reason why the male lion has the mane

An

You hate yourself for always doing it yet it seems you cant quit,its slowly draining your energy and morale but you always go back to them

People complain but you just cant seem to let it go,you want to change yet you havent changed,you imagine your life without these short comings but thats all you can do, IMAGINE !

NOTHING is new or hidden under the sun,that very HABBIT you are struggling with,someone out there has been able to overcome it, that very ADDICTION degrading you,someone has already defeated it many times over.


SHARE that bad HABBIT or degrading ADDICTION and let someone on nairaland tell you how to defeat it.


N/B NO JUDGEMENT
The thread is aimed at helping people not demeaning them.

mine; eating fingernails

Thats how it mostly plays out, a man was designed to lead i.e emotionally,physically,financially and so on and a woman, a help meet.
even when she is taking temporary charge of leading financially,she knows deep down that she isnt supposed to be doing that but maybe out of love and respect,she does.

That wouldnt stop her from getting judgy and melodramatic(after all i have done for you) when she senses the slightest form of neglect or heartbreak as they are highly emotional beings(weaker vessels)

ignoreme:
Be consoling yourself. Just say you can't afford to womanize.

Lol bro you dont need much money to womanize even if i was broke,its a choice

paul100:
Creativeace,God bless you.

and you too sir

Please do well to attach an encounter to your claim how do people react when they notice your selling point ? How did they get attracted to your package so we know you're not just bluffing

adajoe555:
my smartness/ intelligence
my gap teeth( that's why i love smiling)
my bulky eyes

Awwwwn you don sell pass agege bread like this oh "thats why i love smiling" you really got me there i love cheerful people

MasterShifu010:
my brain.......if am talking to a girl and I wanna take her number, I ask her to call it, that's all, I've got it.....and also am artistic too, I decorate people home that when people see me work it seems effortless and breathtaking

brother you're really selling then,we have so much in common,i mean i find it strange that people have to look for pen and paper every time they're getting digits,whats the brain for ?

icenti:
Height, dimple, the ability to speak English fluently coupled with commonsensical words.

wow
only you ?
oya give us gist na
how did you know for sure ?

Quietly:
My Old school hair with a pink lips,

smiles
old school people have this mysterious energy and vibe !
i love them

Sadiqali24:
My eyes!

seriously ? i thought only women have the eye thing ?

FanOfMyself:
My innocent face

True people can be attracted to innocence oya share your experience na

Lol
oga you no need cry
everybody makes mistakes but wetin come bring the jezebel na ? Dem thief your destiny ?

osemoses1234:
My sense

oga give us gist na how your sense dey take affect people abi na sense organ ?

illicit:
I just tell girls that I have it and they will be like wow are u for real and I will say yes now I swear.


Then they will be like oya let me see.

Then I will be like u got to blow it to make it long tho.

Then they will be like really?

And I will say why not try it and see for yaself.


Then they will be like ok, no harm in trying and gbam....

Thats how I sell my points

Small remain i 4 call you odugwu
for saying such nonsense with much confidence
well anything that works for you

illicit:
I have a long dick

come on man is it located on your forehead ? If not how is it a selling point if people cant notice it ?

Are these proven facts based on authenticated research or is it just aimed at brainwashing people into thinking there's actually a justified purpose for sex other than procreation and carnal pleasure ?

I'll keep this short and direct

I am of the believe that nobody is entirely unattractive or unappealing,you may not be overwhelmingly beautiful and well endowed for the ladies or well built and handsome with a full beard in the case of the guys but there has to be something about you that someone needs,something the opposite sex admires,that positive thing people always notice about you,share your selling point here with an encounter to authenticate your claim.

N/B showing off is allowed

okay am going first
Am damn good with words and i mean it

1st experience

Back then in secondary school in my ss3 i once convinced a female corper to postpone her much scheduled test with a combination of sweet talks,jokes and motivational talks in front of the entire class after when she invited me to her table at the staff room where i continued the jokes and the sweet talking to her delight

i could already feel the attraction growing even as she tried to mask them but her eyes gave her away.

na so one full bearded corper come pursue me comot but you know what ? We're still best of friends


drop your own selling point and your experiences with them
dont spoil the fun

'Sips hollandia yoghurt
picks up a biro and begins writting......

You just sucessfully played two innocent ladies into falling for you the same day and you are now feeling like the solomon of today while telling the encounters to your friends and the feeling of conquest entices your soul,little do you know you are officially a slave to the art of womanising


Gentlemen of the land of naira i put it to you that there are more fool-proof reasons not to womanise than they are to !
Which am gonna enumerate with illustrations


(1) HONOUR
There is this special kind of honour that men who do not womanise command,you dont beg or ask or force it out of people,it's a sub-concious respone from people towards men who dont get dirty
I never inculcate anything i havent experienced thats why am giving windows.

I walk into a lecture hall with 80% ladies both juniors and seniors and 20% guys some my paddies, and immediately i show my face the gossips amongs the ladies automatically haults for about 6 seconds while the guys just lower their volumes


once people learn you are not a womaniser,they automatically adjusts their minds to give you respect whenever you show up which results to the curtailing of some discussions compared to that womaniser who is mostly shunned by the honourable ones and taken for granted by the rest....you no for like that kind thing ?


(2) PURITY

You wake up in the morning focused on your goals because you have a pure soul and a guiltless conscience,you pray to your creator without having to confess your sins first,you are not afraid of speaking with joy and felicia at the same time,you can gladly pinpoint your partner and introduce them in social gatherings because you owe no one else fealty,your partner is given maximum respect because your conducts are honourable,you've got no soul ties because believe it or not sex goes beyond physical.

your aura is always serene and transquil in private and public....you no for like that kind thing ?
(3) You dine with kings

The child that washes his hands well shall eat with elders

Show me a man deligent in his ways,he shall stand before kings

like attracts like in the law of attraction,honourable men gravitate towards honourable men

I attend the in quote not so big campus satelite church having joined few months earlier only to discover the general overseer came inspecting progress and immediateky i set my eyes on him


me. Good evening man of God !
GO. bless you sir,do you belong with us ?
me. yes sir
GO. Protocol arrange the minister's boot i wanna meet with this young man
30+ mins later
GO. There's an envelop of chasity and honour around you, where are you from ?
Ill leave the rest to the imagination but the favour,oppourtunites etc i have enjoyed from that relationship is overwhelming....you no for like that kind thing ?


I can go on and on but am a lazy tpyper not forgetting the financial benefit of not womanising cos trust me,its costly,and the attraction you command from honourable ladies etc


WOMANIZING does more harm than good and there are more reasons not to womanise than otherwise.


Drops pen and sips the remaining hollandia.

i come in peace !