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no2fuks:
if the interviewer askes me a question that relates I will answer truthfully without hiding anything but it wasnt an interview it is Twitter were ppl type their mind 140 characters at a time. since when was our security issues become a secret?

He said it in an interview. look for d video

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JoeCutie:
I'm one of those people that oppose bringing serious family (personal) problems on here, but well...

Some time ago, a guy came here to brainwash all of us of how he hit his wife because she deserved it. He wrote a lot, and we all believed him. Not until the said wife (thankfully, a Nairalander too) came up with her own story, that we all changed our perspectives of belief. These things happen.

Hello, Op, I'm sorry, but until I hear your wife's own side of the story, I might be too incapacitated to judge. We all tell stories in a way to suit us. WE ALL DO IT. And just like I'll always say; in every story, there's an untold story.

But then, I'd advice you sit down with your wife, ask her what you ain't doing right, tell her what she isn't doing right. Don't argue about this, don't fight, just sit and talk like friends (not like husband & wife now), imagine you're meeting and "toasting" her for the first time, possibly with a drink. Just calm down, keep your cool and talk things over. You can do this. You guys can make things right. I know many people, especially guys, have advised you to find a new wife asap, but it's not always about the new wife. The devil you know is always better than the angel you don't know. Brother, this is a family issue, and I'd advice to treat it as such, with utmost maturity and respect. I bet you, how you're able to handle this situation, will go a long way in determining how your wife sees and respects you. Finally, I'd like you to see this as a second chance to do something honourable. Take this chance, and save your marriage.

Don't mind these guys advising you to do otherwise.. They've never been married, so they wouldn't know. There's no such thing as "Oh, I feel your pain" or "I understand". You can never really feel that pain of just throwing away your marriage, until you experience it yourself. Brother, show this lady why you're the man and why she should respect you forever. Go and make things right. Everybody deserves a second chance.

In conclusion brother, I'd advice you guys round off this 'talk' with at least, a very hot round of sex. It's very important. Trust me.

Good luck.

Cc: Freelance777

What the OP said happened to me in my first relationship. I was foolishly faithful to her but she still cheated with her next door neighbour.

D short of d story was that I cheated too and entered into a relationship with d lady I cheated with. It was my actions towards her that made me realize that my girl had been cheating lol.

"Everyone will want to look innocent when telling a story" na foresight u go need

F50:
My brother there is absolutely nothing wrong with your wife...the problem is with you. Now let me try to explain.

Your wife is behaving like a normal woman and that's how they were created. The problem is that you didn't created boundaries in your relationship.

Most women are created to be loyal and submissive now couple that with a man that disvirgined them or a man that is better than you in bed, what you get is an over loyal woman even when she don marry someone else.



Now you may be her husband quite all right but as long as you didn't set strict boundaries that are supposed to checkmate her past loyaltys you are in for this type of Mary go round.

I assure u that your wife loves you but why she removed her ring I believe she has already told you, and from her answer it looks like u caused it too. Some people believed in do me I do you god no go vex. That's if she was telling the truth about her true reason.

My girlfriend can not make the mistake of chatting with an ex not to talk of my wife.
She can not even wish him a happy birthday, she can't have his number on her phone, she can't pick his calls o! She can not interact with him through any media possible. She just can't simple.

For me its better my girl friend cheats on me with another man than with an ex. I will forgive her immediately if she sleeps with someone else I no go even think am too much...but with an ex? The relationship is over o! I hate ex's pass devil o! And she knows . she can not try any form of communication with ex o! Becos the wahala that will result she won't survive it.
These are the kind of boundaries you for don set since b4 una even marry. As in eeh the first time she even chat with the ex u for break that your flat screen TV for parlour and her mirror for room and her phone so that she go know say ex's na no go area.
Then if she flirt with a neutral guy just do like say e no pain u too much so that she will be able to differentiate ex's temper from neutral guys temper. You see she don dey understand u

Nicely said but no b everybody go fit do am.

"Woman sef go wan dey say do me I do you" no be she dem wan Bleep!

If d husband divorce her now, she feel say d guy go denounce his wife for her?

The silly thoughts that some women have. Now we get to wonder, if man no get money, problem go dey. If he get moni and he no sabi for bed, wahala go dey.

That's y we all have to try and adjust to our spouse and understand them

no2fuks:
if you are a rising International star will you not move around with extra security if you are coming to naija

I would but I won't go on an interview describing how I protected myself with AK47's and Commandos. That's silly

no2fuks:
what jedi said is true and what skales said is a lie
suffering and smiling

lolzz. na Reverse Mode u dey? abeg change to normal mode

Nigerians and their unnecessary hate sef... What Skales said was a fact. Jidenna should try another joke please

DuchessLily:
OK ooo... But men helped in making women want to work and make their own money.

Men these days see taking care of their wives as burden. To them a housewife is a liability. To them a woman who stays at home to take care of the home and kids is useless, worthless and a burden.

But they will happily give money to prostitutes outside

i want to marry you.

iamtomi:
like ur gf has a bikini...

she does

The guy isnt smart at all. Thats not how it is asked
Send me a pic of you in Bikini. Guys need to be sharp

My God is not a God of Confusion

YOURMAN:
Hey people! I don't know if this is the right section for this ..but if its not maybe the mods can help move it to the right section

After my graduation from one of the nigerian universities, I have been staying with my elder brother.. He's the second born as a lady is my parents first born.. But he's the first son.. Age of about 42+.. Before I got admission in school I do stay with him and after my university education, I went back to his place, because his house is big and spacious to contain me .. After about two to three months, I have been going to work with him I noticed something..

There is this number he usually call wen we are going back home in the car.. The way he talks to the person on phone I doubt if its a guy he's talking to.. Because the number is saved with a guys name "henry" but I do hear a ladies voice at the back of the phone.. So I'm wondering..

After my final findings I do discover thats a lady..
Now the big question is my bro got 3 grown up kids.. And a wife..
What should I do? Should I just leave him to move on or tell the wife?? To me I feel that he's still a young flexing man! Maybe he should enjoy it while it last.. Or I should just tell the wife because the wife is cool to me and nice.. What should I do..

Also Note behind.. This my bro.. I do respect and fear him so much.. I can't even dare talk about a lady with him.. As his like a dad to me! So telling me to talk to my bro is out of the solution.. So my fellow people what should I do?

permit me to go off topic....

Did you say you just graduated? then you are a disgrace to education.

I know of a mechanic with primary school certificate yet he writes better english than this one i could barely read.

This post long ooooo.




See as people wey vote change dey complain! There are more changes coming.

These phone manufacturers are crazy. dey wil jst be making new phones now and then..

i respect the Nigerian market sha..
Watch out for innjoo fire 2, innjoo fire 2 pro, innjoo volcano, innjoo volcano 2 pro

wordbank:
Me? My name na Linus na If I no lie how I go take chop Wash dia head with hypo den rinse am with jik. Na time

na wa o

wordbank:
Me? My name na Linus na If I no lie how I go take chop Wash dia head with hypo den rinse am with jik. Na time

na wa o

Dnarvaez:
Girls loved to be lied to than confronted with the sincere truth. You would be in awe even after you sacrifice the little you have to quench their needs and desire, yet they would have your heart stamped to bits. World of gold-diggers, b!tches, snitches and heartless mudafvckers. A guy going into a relationship should be prepared to meet an ice-berg (obstacle) maybe possible, as likened to loss/profit in business.

hmmm

Cutehector:
They confessed they dnt like guys who r too honest.... I for once hav my values, I would neva take advantage of any gurl... Like neva eva... If they dnt want me cuz am nice, then its their loss!


Op, dnt change for anybody.. Continue upholding ur values.

tanx but the tin pisses me off

ArchEnemy:
They say Guys fall in love by seeing and women by hearing.
I don't support lying anyway but you need a 'sweet mouth'

Can a mouth be sweet without lies involved?

So i met this girl that i liked so much and i wanted her to be my woman. I for one values truthfulness in every relationship so i was always true to the lady.

In the end, i was friend zoned.


Then i met a new girl, and lied like hell to her, it didnt take long before we started dating. naturally since i was lieing to the girl, i didnt take her serious.




Now my question is this. It is that girls prefer lieing guys or what?
please contribute.

Shoro Niyem! Ona k'ota!

Oshare na... wor me da joma otor!

Na wa o. i be think say you get better reason why dem for no make Bello ambassador.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Can a girl be pregnant and still see her period? [/color]

in some cases, there will be blood flow which may b confused as period

ok. I will be back to say my mind in 2019

Na Wa O... News: A Nairalander's Dog has Given Birth.
Relevence of news: -20.

Lolzzz. Have u ever heard of dat sort of tattoo?

SimpleJetty:
She should first of all intimate her would-be hubby about the latest trend and of course seek for his understanding. Then they should both work together and alert the police. Now the trick would be to lay ambush for the so-called ex boyfriend(beast) on the pretence she has succumbed to his crazy quest. Then a venue would be agreed upon. Once the animal shows up, the police will get him arrested and he'll face the law cause it's a crime to blackmail someone. Also let her not forget to record there phone conversation henceforth which will be tendered as evidence in a competent court of jurisdiction.

Hmmmmm...dead

This guy's love for Nigeria knows no bound. He tatooed Nigeria's coat of arm on his back.... I imagine the pain he must have gotten while getting that tat...

Photo below