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imagrg:
He only wanted to catch you red-handed cheating with another man on his matrimonial bed.
And like magic, he would emerge from the wardrobe and see your toto accommodating another man's preek.

Be cautious oh.

I need two wraps of this weed 🤣🤣

Revolva:
Mee too my content rank in entertainment ask @lalasticlala

There should be a way NL should give back to serious creators

seriously. I think it's high time people start pointing out the obvious.

There are sometimes after creating some contents and you add a link to it, you get banned because some idiot have previously used the domain to do something else.

For instance, you cannot link to certain resources on nairaland because the whole domain have been blacklisted.

And if you repeat your domain in multiple posts, it get blacklisted without regards to the content you used it in

There's something I've come to noticed about nairaland that I feel is selfishness on the part of the owners and the moderators.

People come here because of the contents available on this website.

More than 99% of these contents are however created by the users and not the site owner or moderator.

But instead of giving back to these content creators, seun would rather punish them.

I'm not talking about money here. On the internet, linking back is the currency of trade when it comes to payment in content creation.

Now seun, punish creators here too severely for even Linking back to their website when they create meaningful contents.

A case I would love to point out is the case of NAAIJA COOVER. You are seeing the misspelling there because even mentioning Naaija coover (obviously spelt wrong) get deleted automatically.

This NAAIJA COOVER contributes a lot to nairaland especially the crime section with most of his contents being voted by getting pushed to front page.

But for no reason, his links have been banned from nairaland. Such that creating a NAAIJA COOVER dot com can easily get you banned.

That's no way to reward hardwork.

Yes, I get that there are many spammers here but consistency should be taking into consideration.

If I have been tirelessly working and creating contents which the members of this platform loves, it's only natural that such a user should get a pass on some things.

There are many others here also who get banned for flimsy reasons without regards to how much reputation they've built with their usernames.

Especially those who have even been part of this community before the very mods banning them.

Seun, should have a reconsideration of how he treats his most precious content creators.

If people get rewards for creating good contents, they invariably get motivated to create even better ones.

Kill spammy back linking. But let the healthy ones grow.

Dshocker:
Oga abeg free me, when Jesus was on earth, he couldn't save everyone.

He only saved those he can save.

this is an animal.

Red flag

Ty

skj1377:
9.49am on Monday. I want to believe this guy is on shift duty and is off today. Business is very slow the market is tight , hunger no money no food fuel issues. Hmm this man is doing fine.

jackmrandy:
oga today na monday.. abi you nor get billls to pay? na story you dey find

both of you are very silly.

Is creating a topic different from the same comments you are making?

I know the obvious answer might be to break up and move along.

But consider this, marriage is not the only goal of some relationships.

There are people out there who wanna date and experience love but without the commitment of marriage.

I mean, people date other people for different reasons.

Hence, when you are proposing marriage and they don't want it, should you break up even when the feelings are still there?

How about some who are not even ready at the moment for the commitment?

But most importantly, should all relationships should be about marriage or about finding love and happiness?

Let's hear your thoughts. If you propose to someone and they refused would that end the relationship?

Dshocker:
Oga abeg free me, when Jesus was on earth, he couldn't save everyone.

He only saved those he can save.

still doesn't justify being happy in some place while you are fully aware that your children, wife, parents and siblings are burning eternally.

So, saving your skin is all that matters?

What exactly is righteous about a person with such selfishness? What exactly is worth emulating from such a person?

Dshocker:
Oya carry your sin and others around for your head and enter hellfire.

On the day of judgement day, you will tell them to go, that you will serve their punishment.

if I can. I will.

It's a shame how selfish Christianity is while proposing love.

Dshocker:
My brother focus on yourself, you are not sure you will make it there.

You are indirectly telling me to share or partake in the punishment of sinners around us.

Oga carry your cross.

nah.

I'm not so selfish to focus on myself only.

marlow1962:
You never even sure say your own soul go make heaven, you don dy fantasize on who and who you wn see.

I think you're reading the wrong thread

Dshocker:
Oga heaven is a personal race, nothing concern you concern another person soul.

You should be worried about your own soul making it to heaven, abi you think say to make heaven na moi-moi.

Since the creation of man, the number of people that has made heaven is not up to 20, and i will not be surprised that the likes of Abraham, Solomon and co didn't make heaven.

Apart from Jesus and Prophet Elijah that am sure 100% that made heaven, the rest i can't vouch for.

would you be happy knowing that only you made it to heaven and that everyone else you loved is burning in hell? Even if it's a personal race?

What manner of righteousness would make a man feel comfortable, happy, peaceful and at home in heaven while knowing fully well that your loved ones not even your enemies are burning forever?

Is that really righteousness?

Or would God wipe those memories away?

saintopus:
Both have different heavens

I think my statement didn't imply that they have the same heaven

bukatyne:
😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 at Western Things.

If I don't know of any other place, I know that American men & women embrace housewifery more than the average Nigerian.

And it is not a 'punishment' or 'potential limiting action' as it is seen here.

that's where our girls are learning the nonsense from.

Most now think it's slavery or some kind of demeaning task to be a housewife

I never take any girl out before o and I dey fvck die.

Any girl wey say make I take am out, na there our talk go end. If you no fit come my house, maybe I get you refresh or cook, you are on your own.

10-30k for date? Say wetin happen? Where I go get that kind money from?

Una dey try wey dey form posh o

Samantha124:
Do you know him personally?

I know him through his thread and have been seeing how he suffered to provide for the family.

Even though all the threads including this one are fictional.

saintopus:
Well it depends on the heaven you are talking about.

There are many heavens anyway.

To your question, if one leaves this physical life in death, you will always meet your loved ones who have died.

In fact you will not likely missed anyone since from time to time you will meet loved ones. For instance, you meet them in the dream state. For the dream worlds are real life in heaven.

So you can always share your love with loved ones.

I think I clearly stated the Christian's heaven and the Muslims paradise

Samantha124:
Marriage is partnership even when she's taking care of the 4 kids by herself heavily pregnant and breastfeeding while the man is doing nothing? Where's that partnership there?

this is your problem. Selfishness and entitlement.

Who said the man is doing nothing?

Up to yesterday from the time they got married and probably even before their marriage, he has been the one feeding the family even before she gave birth to their first child.

Never has he complained that the woman was suffering him.

The woman made a good gesture and decided to contribute in her own way. In just a day and he's here praising her.

But all you got from the story is the woman should not have done anything? You see how entitled and selfish you are?

And yes, marriage is partnership even when you are pregnant. Because even if that man is on his dead bed, his family is still the first set of people whose interest he'll want to protect.

It's still the man that will choose to die for his wife. Until you understand that marriage is for better and for worse, you really aren't ready for it.

Samantha124:
So your heavily pregnant wife that is also breastfeeding is even working tirelessly to feed the entire family while you're just sitting back and shedding tears?

Wow!!!

the difference between a woman who understands that marriage is partnership and not "me me and me"

I'd exchange 300 of you for just her hair

Puss360:
Face the topic....

I'm facing your comment on the topic. It shows that you have a problem

Samantha124:
I don't see myself being a house wife and neither do I see myself getting a maid to take care of the household chores on my behalf... I'd rather hire a cleaning company to send its cleaners to the house at least three times in a week to do a deep clean on my behalf while I'm at work.

still the same thing.

One is just a modern day glorified position. Whether working at work or as full time house wife.

It's all the same thing. Your problem is seeing your husband as the boss.

GreatAchiever1:
I really disagree with you, sir. Being a housewife is a full-time profession, thus there is nothing wrong with it. As long as hubby can support his family with the necessities and keep the house safe, there is nothing wrong with a man wanting a housewife and it isn't in anyway bringing down his self-esteem

Nobody ever claimed housewives were dullards nor nonentities; they take care of the family, help their husbands, nuture and educate their kids, which makes the house functioning, which in turn makes society functional. Yes there are ways they can make money for themselves, with handskills like tailoring, hairdressing, making stuffs, baking stuffs, online business etc, they can easily earn some cash from home while building the home.

Lastly, the wife is supposed to only be useful to the hubby first and the children, these should be her top priority after God. Lets forget about modern wokism culture.

he's only repeating things the western magazine have fed him. Most people are brainwashed but they don't even know

Puss360:
Yes... If I marry a white man...
But here in Africa, Never....
Either I work pass the man or we do the same working hours....
Coz one day, the man can become aggressive and say I'm lazy, so I need to be prepared for dat day in my marriage....

That will be when I marry sha...🙈🙈

NEXT CASE PLEASE!!!!!

you have a problem though

TemplarLandry:
Only archaic men with lowest of the lowest self-esteem imprison their wives under the guise of housewifehood.

Women are not dullards or nonentities. They have parts to play in every functional society. A real woman has to make some money for herself too.

Being a housewife means you're only useful to your husby as a copulation machine and a babies-producing device. Zero contribution to a functional society. That's bad bad.

this is trash.

It's not low self esteem that makes a man say his woman should be full time house wife.

It doesn't also mean that the woman is incapable of anything else.

For some, the arrangement works. Most women love it. That's all that matters.

All these western things have brainwashed many of you

Naijanascam:
That's why you guys are making Africa unhealthy to live in with all sorts of evil mindsets and actions.... while the other worlds are making theirs worth living because that's what they have but you guys have heaven

being intelligent in the wrong place is same thing as being dumb.

You're going off point... Far away from what is being asked.

It's likely you are the only one who will make it to heaven.

How do you enjoy peace and forever tranquility knowing fully well that the rest of your family members are burning forever in hell?

Will God wipe away people's memories of the love and bond they once shared on earth?

If yes, then what's the point of saying love one another? If all of that will be forgotten?

How exactly would heaven be like for those who eventually made it inside?

Same question to our Muslim friends looking forward to spending forever in paradise

EriMma1:
That's what I'm saying now. Responsibly caged

nah.

If that's it then you are caged in your working place because you owe them an obligation.

There's a price for everything. Responsibility is paying that price

EriMma1:
Marriage na cage from the way I see married women. Whenever we go out with them and try to chill, you'll see them hurrying back home to meet up with school runs and chores. Haba! Me I'll just be laughing and enjoying myself till 8-9pmish before going home.

Sometimes marriage scares me.

it's called responsibility not cage.

Or you expect them to be irresponsible to their kids?

wink2015:
He is actually a man that transformed to a woman either through cross dressing or sex change.

a man cannot "transform" into a woman.

He can only pretend to be one

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