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3Hopeblog:
Please do you have projector

Today is your lucky day

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More rugs

Coffee maker and adjustable table.

Cooker

Sewing machines

Tiles

Chairs

Baby trollers

Rugs

Have nice rugs, baby trollers,chairs and lots more for sale.

All in great quality.

Stargurl20:
What will u gain from this comment, uncle?
Oh.... Ruining their beautiful relationship?

Ruin? No!! I won't do that. I'm just making him see what is before him. The lady needs to make a choice, and she needs to make it before she walks down the isle with him in four months.


Who entertains distractions four months to their wedding?

dubitando non faciunt "when in doubt do not act"

Kaleidoscopeman:
Dear All,

I have new screenshots on their conversation:

She put her status online and the guy says 'where were you' and 'who you go visit' in the pixx and she said when SHE was on vacation (only) whereas we were together.

Again the guy says you know I love you so much and she says 'I do'

Hopefully we can marry ....she says 'calm down now'

Guy says I dey here for anything ....she says 'sure bobo' ...'olori oko bam bam'

They had a video call that ended abruptly and she was worried and asked 'why he ended it but dude hasnt replied (TODAY is the dude's birthday cos she mentioned it in a voice note yesterday)

I think she likes the guy, his money and their possible intimacy they may have had

I will be posting more conversations hopefully....and I am hoping that we will be helping each other here

Hello Mister.

I have followed your story from the beginning and at first, I thought you were just being too reactive. Further comments from you has shown that you are a very simple and gentle guy. I can tell from the way you write that you are easy going and detest drama.

I will advice you like a brother right now: WALK AWAY

Any other thing than walking away will bring you pain and trauma, I can bet on that. See, you will find someone who will stick to you forever. This lady isn't for you.

Walk away now that there's still time. Do it for your mental health and your self esteem.

Take care.

CsRockefeller:
Anyone interested in buying some TVs in bulk or has a plug should kindly reach out.

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Items are on ground, alongside some other household stuffs. Will keep everyone posted.

Cc: Superboss

Anyone interested?

I'm giving this out for 20k

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nedekid:
It might be real.
But in all honesty I doubt.
That last part of going abroad made it seem like a nollywood script.

I tell you. So much semblance with Nollywood.

BabaDelta1:
Dear Madam,

I salute your courage and my sincere wish for you right now is grace and wisdom to move on and train your children in the fear of God.

Let me share my story with you maybe that will be of little help to you and other readers.

I married my Ex at age 27 as a virgin. We met when I was invited to his church as a guest minister to train his church choir. Everything seem okay not until he suddenly resigned from his place of work (bank) without any form of explanation as to what led to his decision. For peace to reign, I stopped asking him and made up my mind to take charge of caring for the family.

Hubby became a chronic womanizer and from a church minister he became a gambler and gradually started avoiding church.

A lot really happened but what finally caused our separation was the fact that he did secret wedding with my best friend who is a widow. On the day of their wedding, I was the one that opened our house gate for hubby and when he was about driving out, he asked " What about your friend, hope you still here from her?' I replied, yes she's fine and he said I should greet her when next I hear from her not knowing he was going to wed her. Same friend whose wedding to her late husband I was the lead vocal of all the songs in the church and Reception. Her late parents and mine were good friends and we were in the same church choir for 10 years before I got married and left the church. My so called friend was the one that came to stay with me when I had my first baby because my mum was ill at that time and my then mother in-law was no more. Same friend that will wake me up late at night that we should pray, same friend that frowns at me putting on any dress or skirt below my knees did secret wedding with my hubby.

It was more painful when I got to know they lied to the church that joined them that I was late and that my children are with my mum.

Please note, I did not do any wrong to hubby even till this very moment neither did I frustrate him when he was out of job. He knows how much I earn, I was 100% faithful, I respect him a lot and I don't spend without taking permission from him despite the fact that it was my money.

I also need to mention that after my National Diploma, then hubby has a BSc and he wanted to go for his Masters. Because of limited funds, I agreed to hold on and continue working while I singlehandedly sponsored his Masters program till finish and during this period, he was also defrauding me and used my money to sponsor a lady with two kids through school.

I decided to move on with my life when I finally got to know about his secret wedding to my so called bestie. The betrayal from the two of them almost cost me my life. I cry morning, afternoon and night. I cried not because he got married but because he did it with my bestie that is like a sister. I was more shattered because they both lied I was dead. More still, I was devastated because he was out of job for many years and I have been the one caring for the family, rent, school fees, utility bills, clothing him and children's school fees leaving me to wonder where he got money to do wedding.

I attempted suicide twice because the shock was too much for me to bear and I was also concerned about what people will say knowing I was a committed sister in the church and also in my family.

Much later I decided to move on because of my children and the fact that I can't afford to hurt God. It was not easy for me but then, God proved Himself mightily in my life.

I became more dedicated to the work of God, I became EXTREMELY STRICT to men's advances and concentrated more on my children and job. I enrolled for more professional courses, went back for my BSc and Masters and today the rest is story.

Now I can look back and give glory to God Almighty for how far He has helped me. My children are doing excellently well in their studies, they have everything at their comfort and we are more than comfortable.

It was not easy I must confess especially when nature calls but I was strong willed not to disappoint God and my children. I did all I could to be a good role model to them and I don't say evil things to them about their dad despite the fact that he was not giving me a dime to fend for them till date. My second child was not up to a year when we separated and today, she is all grown and my son is now in one of the best Secondary school doing excellently well academically and moral wise.

By the grace of God, I and my children will be relocating to Canada soonest for further studies and my wedding is around the corner.

Learnt my Ex and Bestie are now divorced.

Op, key notes for you

- Move more closer to God
- Concentrate more on your children, job or business
- Mind what you do before your children, brace up to play father and mother role
- Avoid bitterness and do not speak ill of your ex to your children.
- Develop thick skin because friends, church members and associates will mock you but when they later see you succeed, all will be a thing of the past.
- Do not rush to get married again, easy does it.
- Work on past mistakes
- If you can afford it, travel out of the country with your children
- Try as much as possible to raise Godly children.

If there is still room for reconciliation between you and your hubby, please embrace peace and if not, I wish you the very best.

Is this real?

I had a girl like this. Met her in school, she was a hairdresser then (still is) but just had only Waec as her highest education certificate.

Small, beautiful and speaks well. I really liked her, and as years went by, she grew fond of me. During my youth service I left Lagos and it didn't deter her from wanting a relationship. I was worried about her education status, and one day she begged me not to leave her because of it, and promised me she will do her best to get into school (we weren't even dating)

Luckily for her, she started her ND in a private polytechnic, still I wasn't convinced, mainly because she was from another tribe. Nevertheless, I always encouraged her and gave her moral support always. During that time, she got into a relationship and later left.

Do you know what saved me? We never had sex! I wouldn't pretend or lie that it wasn't in my thoughts and even she suggested it a few times but I just couldn't. I knew she wanted more and having sex with her will give her a claim to us being in a relationship. I also knew she would always complain of some fetish stuff going on in her hometown, so I didn't really know what she was capable of doing and didn't want to find out.

So I avoided that route. As long as I never had sex with her, I was free in my conscience to walk away. It's is evil, wickedness, highly deceptive to have sex with a lady that is into you, and you know that you can't marry (not leaving out the fact that sex outside marriage remains a sin)

Today, she has completed her ND, her hair fashion business is still going fine, and she hopes to get married soon. This was not even a case of what would my parents say, but for me too, there must be a certain standard educationally speaking.

Don't let anyone deceive you that it's not part of it, it's very necessary, especially as a Man. I have illiterate uncles that married educated well grounded women. Never seen it reverse. But if you can afford to put her through, why not.

Modified
I started my higher institution journey with OND at Yabatech, and so will never look down on anyone with an OND. However, the question remains: what next? Do you want to keep being "ordinary" or you want to move up the ladder? If this lady is someone hungry for more education, then try to push her. I fear that she might have lost that enthusiasm given that she's in her late 20s. But still give it a shot if you like her, as you said you do.

Awesomeking:
e go shock youm

Time will tell...........

Awesomeking:
you will not marry a virgin, you will marry a non virgin like you who will starve u of sex until the wedding and then use fake virginity pill and fake blood on you, any other questions?

If wishes were horses......

Awesomeking:
you are not a virgin, and you wanna marry a virgin.. Does that make sense to you? What if the lady is bothered about your own body count?

I will marry a virgin, and a thousand of you can't do anything about it. Any other question?

Sunday2021:
I don't think you understand my message. I am trying to let you know that as long as you have hatred in your mind against someone you will always think that that person also hate you. Buhari has done what no president in this country ever done to the south east. But upon that you guys still hate him. Why?
When Gej was in power,igbos were in charge of almost everything, nobody carried arms to destroy the country.
Talking about the country Nigeria: I can swear with my life that nothing will happen to this country, and Nigerians will be together for many many years. So if someone is decieving you to pay one thousand that he bring Imaginary Biafra for you,pls stop wasting your money to a scammer.

It's fine my brother. Peace and prosperity is all we want.

stepaside2:
Debunked by who? Are you saying we don't have the population? We have the biggest GDP in Africa, how do you think that came about?

It's not the population the investors look at. Not even your GDP, it's in your Per Capita income. It's in your FX, it's in your ease of doing business.

Egypt, South Africa, Kenya and even Rwanda are preferred countries. Of what use is a gathering of poor people?

Nigerians that still celebrate buying second hand cars

By the way, if I can make some millions of dollars as a NRC, why should I invest on the ground? It's a Digital world now remember?

stepaside2:
Significantly increase their market share in the supply chain logistics business in Nigeria that allows them reach many more customers. Our population provides that opportunity for them. Except of course they don't see Africa and Nigeria in particular as a useful market.

This population theory has been debunked a long time

That a country has a huge population doesn't make them attractive for investment. That's old school Economics nau

Sunday2021:
you are expecting buhari that you hate to love you abi? You just stated that you don't like buhari, but you are expecting buhari to like you. You guys are full of hatred but if another person show you hatred you begin to cry.

This is exactly the issue I have with Buhari and his followers like you.

As the President, you are the father of all despite political differences. You can't just decide to return hatred as the father of a Nation especially when arms where not taken against you.

Nelson Mandela did it in South Africa. You heal, bring together, not injure and scatter.

I know you will object this sha. Hatred for Hatred. Even Jonathan at some point said Boko Haram were Nigerians and he didn't want to rain down fire and brimestone on them.

But you guys will always defend evil. See, I really don't care at this point, the country can burn. If Buhari likes he can appoint Yusuf as the next president, I'm focused on myself and my family, or do you see me here arguing daily on Nairaland?

Nigeria died long ago, whatever we have left is it's ruins. And I say this as a passionate citizen of this country, but one wise enough to know when to let go.

My uncle died in Borno trying to save Nigeria as a soldier. I'm not gonna give this country the luxury for me to even loose a strand of hair.

Have a nice day.

Coldshisha:
Why are Ibo elders scared of Nigerian Justice system

If they are not satisfied they can head to ECOWAS court or international criminal court

Why is the rest of Nigeria scared of the Igbos?

Why does Buhari hate the Igbos. We chose Jonathan, and will do so if we have the opportunity a million times over.

Don't forget, we also supported Yaradua. So we don't hate the North or other parts of Nigeria.

Buhari is just a tribalist, among other negativity associated with him, and we simply said no, and chose Jonathan.

Well, I blame those Igbo elders that went to beg. For me, Kanu can fit in prison. What's most important is development comes to the East.

musicwriter:
It's Nigerians that would pay the tax not Amazon or AliExpress. I already got a random email from AliExpress today talking about reduced earning percentages because I dropship from there

You are a big man o! Doing dropshipping on Amazon. What niche are you into if you don't mind?

These guys want to kill E-commerce biz. Already, Jumia and Konga have been charging VAT on their items since Buhari came into power.

What does this mean? Online shopping is looking like an exercise for the rich and wealthy. Ripple effect means that economic activities that supports this industry will see a download spirall in their revenue and traffic.

Lastly, not that these new reforms are completely ill-thought as I believe most Nigerians don't pay tax as shown in our Tax to GDP ratio, but can we trust taxpayers money in the hands of Government officials that have a track record of corruption?

Don't forget subsidies in the power and oil sector are already in motion to be removed.

Nigerians should brace up for tough times.