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NiceMen:
What is there to come to her face and say it? Can't you see that women do not like or appreciate nice guys?

The guy was playing the "nice guy" card and that was why she didn't reciprocate. Women HARDLY do cos it turns them off.

And this stem from the fact that when a man does not present himself well, he would be friend zone. it happens ALL THE TIME.

From her post, you can easily deduce that the guy meant well but she just didn't feel the need to reciprocate cos women are not wired for such men. They are wired to reciprocate men who are indifferent about them.

It is sad but that is what it is.

Where is the lie here?

Raalsalghul:
If the said ladies pestering you for marriage are in their late twenties/early thirties, I'd say leave them.

Then while using the remainder five years to build your estate, go for younger babes in like first/second year level at universities.

Use them as side attractions and to hold body too: at least at that point in their life, they are not looking for anything serious just the occasional car rides, movies at the cinema, bi- monthly cash transfers and shawarma, so they won't pester you for any commitment.

Finally, when you're through with building your estate, you can now consider the late twenties babes for marriage. The good thing is that you're doing well financially so you'll always see somebody who'll marry you after all na Naija we dey.

Both ways, you will enjoy your peak as a man and build your hustle too.

Bro you sent me a PM since last week.

Double0h7:
I nearly spilt boiling water all down my bottom half a few weeks ago. I learnt never to cook naked, and never use my bare hands to lift a pot of the cooker.

Wow!!

Also known as very close to; almost. It's not unusual to hear a friend, family member, or neighbor use the phrase "I nearly...." Whenever they recall an experience.

For some, it's positive, while others are negative.

What are your "Nearly Moments" where you felt a missed opportunity would have changed your life?

I'll go first: I nearly got into Unilag in 2010 after making a jamb score of 270 & a Putme of 65 to study Economics. That didn't happen, and I feel I would have moved faster in life and be at some top places if I had that admission. Unfortunately, age caught up with me as I managed to graduate at 26, round up service at 27 and those GT jobs were far and scarce to come by, as either I was late (age wise) or I hadn't enough experience.

Also, when I got admission into Yabatech for my OND, I got a notification for an admission application I applied through PFL a year earlier at Abuja. It was a program (Economics) at Sunderland University in the UK, but funds was the challenge and I quickly got over it.

I also nearly got into NNPC during the previous GT recruitment but didn't make it. For me, it was like the Eureka moment. I felt fate had finally smiled upon me. I was hopeful and upbeat that I would make it. Wrote the exam in Lagos, and was shortlisted for the interview in Abuja. Had a very confident interview session and was hopeful that I would be among the successful applicants.

It never happened. My hope dashed once again. Well, I've moved on, trying to make out of what life holds.

Sometimes, I look back and think of what could have been.

So what's yours? Please do share.

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Entebbe. That reminds me of these movies: 7 days in Entebbe, and The Last King of Scotland.

Lovely movies.

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Shobbyxi:
yes needed

Oya nau. Let's deal. 07056802001

Available for 130k

[quote author=The5DME post=107851528][/quote]Yes the Man. Now I see why an 80 year old Buhari still feels he has a lot to offer. Check across Africa, it's the same mentality.

I'm 29, and I feel very old already (Though I'm very fit, and sound mentally)

Let's form the mentality of doing things while there is still strength. Even the Bible acknowledges the importance of Times and Seasons.

Like I said, Africa is in deep sh*t.

JerryBizz:
see them. Now they are all lowering their prides. Besides, see how you said it. This one will be very authoritative in the relationship. OP, red flag. No class, even.
If they heard the OP say, I'm in Ogbomosho or Ketu, all you women won't be signifying your interests, oh. Opportunistic lots. After they've been used beyond mileage recovery.

OP! Advice:
Do not consider any woman on this platform. Let them go offline and humble themselves and rapport with those men who come their way everyday. They can't be tigers offline and act as lambs online. Most are past their 30s and they'll say whatever you wanna hear just so that you could be their saving grace. Besides, they know you're am abroad returnee, and you're bound to return there. Since they want to be extra choosy and picky. As if their own papa get anything more than what the men who they reject have. Or as if they, themselves are decent ladies.

Thank God someone finally said it!!

Having followed the Thread from start these are my thoughts:

1. Women love comfort. If I'm not mistaken, I counted about 5 females who signified interest in dating the poster

Of course, we all know what the attraction is, because Man hasn't even put up his picture

2. Men don't believe they grow old. I saw many people refer to the poster as a "Young guy"

Like seriously?

A 36 year old, young for marriage? Africa is in deep sh*t

BigBashiru:
Yea cos most western countries are LONELY.

Wow! So what will be your advice to a 29 year old that has interest in travelling but not in any relationship?

BigBashiru:
It's better for you to marry before you jappa. If not ur life abroad no go too sweet.

That's if he takes her along right?

solaceTK:
Yes u can chat me up on Whatsapp

What's your WhatsApp number?

LIGHTLOVERSGRAM:
am just 27 and available � chocolate in complexion, 1.6 in hight � God fearing Girl� very hardworking but like fasting too much. Complete single girl. thank you sir and ma�

Lol. Why do you like fasting if I may ask? Are you praying for the second coming of Christ?

solaceTK:
Can it go for 130k?

Still interested?

Magnoliaa:
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Story ti ko kan aye.

NEXT!

Sorry Ma'am, didn't mean to offend you.

I don waka

Tenshades:
Having a digital marketing hub where young and enthusiastic minds will get trained and be well equipped to STAND TALL in the economy.

I'm into Digital Marketing. I have also thought about this. We can hookup and see what we can do.

siofra:


Op see better advice for you o

You can still go to Shiloh and look for wife sha if those ones don't work for you.

The joke is lost on you two. Here's a man who has achieved what many within his age can't do in terms of financial security. He is seeking a wife, and he will find. Just as many young and old women are getting married everyweek across Nigeria.

If you think the world ends here on Nairaland where you and your cohorts shame both genders for their inability to get hitched, then you need a Google to see the bigger picture.

And yes, people will go to Shiloh to find their partners in prayers and God in his wisdom will answer them.

Manlikechoba:
Thanks bro


She just blocked me.. . Am really devastated right now.. . . But anyways, I will try visiting her and if she still adamant


I will let her be. . .. Thanks am really not in good shape now.. . Thanks

Welcome to the club

Like someone said: "to love is to die"

You feel this way because you have loved.

Do you know why we sulk whenever we fail at love? It's because we haven't embraced love as one of the challenges of life. Now let me ask you, if you get sacked tomorrow, won't you find another means of survival? Will you keep on sobbing while your stomach starts dancing and your account balance reduces? Does it mean you never cared or liked your job because you moved on?


Take that same mentality to your love life. Find love and give it your best shot, makes sure the feeling is mutual. If things don't work out as you planned, don't sob, don't sulk, move on. It's natural to find love and give love so don't make anyone make you feel that you were stupid or foolish.

You will heal, and when you heal, get up and find love again. And if that love doesn't work, find another one, and another until you find one that is bespoke, just well suited for you.

Love is beautiful my brother. Be hopeful, you will find. All good men eventually do.

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webm:
The lessons:

Don't familiarise with hoteliers and change hotels often.

Let no one know your routine in a hotel.

Avoid lonely hotels no matter how cheap it is.

How long can we keep up with these rules?

Remember Hiny Umoren? The Akwa Ibom lady that was killed in Uyo during a supposed job interview. She did everything right, told her friend, posted it on social media, even quickly did a VN before she was killed.

May God protect us all. Amen.

Man unkind to Mankind

During my final year, my HOD who doubled as my Project Supervisor made me go through Hell.

I ended up with a C on a 6 unit course, and managed to make 2.1.

I had many thoughts on how to harm him, at the end, I told myself that my certificate (Good or Bad) won't define me.

I'm glad I let everything go, as that certificate is lying fallow somewhere while I do something else that has more potentials to pay me more than a Lecturing job would have done.

I really feel for this guy, they are going to make him a scape goat, he just can't escape this one. At the end, you are better off if you can control your anger.

He who is slow to anger is better than a warrior, and he who controls his temper is greater than one who captures a city. - Proverbs 16:32

PotatoSalad:
The igbos say eburu ozu nwa onye ozo o di ka ebu nku...
Talk is cheap nwanne.

Quote me anywhere, anyone who can't control his anger will suffer terribly for it.

If you have anger problems, always think twice before you act. I have been in many situations where people like you would have lost it.

Kill anger and rash acts before it kills you.

dfrost:
The bubble is about to explode to something bigger. The receptionist has already sang like a canary.

Let's wait for the autopsy.

What did the Receptionist say?

Daceline:
I pity the poor receptionist that had already confessed, they may likely kill her like it happened with the key witness during Otokoto saga.

Please what was her confession?

bayumyguy:
The receptionist can't lie against the chairman I know that for sure...Police should do their proper investigation wella

Please what did the Receptionist say?

simplepee:
You did not eat the food. Ebi ni o pa e..


When I tell girls, stop rushing into marriage because of just love. They say I too like money. Yes, I like money. Reason I have let love rest and buckled up my shoes to chase money, more money and money.. When I am a bit comfortable, I will look for love.

By the time hunger wire you for marriage. And you can't afford basic decent things for yourself, that love will clear from your eyes..

Carry your cross op and continue "managing". Shebi suffer dey sweet una??

Your post doesn't relate at all. One can have both at the same time.

womenareapess:
another falling brother

Stay away from naija women you people won't hear now.

Stay away from those baboons especially those baboons who own a Salon and beauty care stuff!
Those female baboons in this field are the real undercover ashawo

And what the hell will you be doing with a 26yrs old ape
Are you mentally unstable?

This guy eh!!