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Onyixx:
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DissTroy:
She's a church girl? This is where you got it wrong. Overly churchy girls are some of the most hypocritical females on earth. She'd get banged all day and go for choir practice with no remorse.

She'd post bible portions all day on Facebook and Twitter while she's multiple dating in her inbox.

Here's how you begin to know who you are with: Do you have access to each other's phones' passwords? Can she comfortably leave her phone unlocked with you for hours unsupervised? Does she pick all her incoming calls when she's with you and speaks freely

If you can't confidently reply "yes" to all of these questions, then, dude, you are fooling yourself and being played.

Can you take her WhatsApp to search these keywords: "dîck", " penîs", "pûssy", " vágina", "honey", " period ", " test", "visit" and such words? Do so. What if she's archiving her messages? You need to reengineer your mind to think like a woman to get the kind of tricks they'd be up to.

Is she jittery when you are with her phone? Read her body language. That a cheating or flirting woman would stop when she's married is the greatest lie ever.

A wedding is just a public celebration of the emotional contract between both of you which was signed when you agreed to date exclusively. If she's sleeping around or flirting, she's broken that contract and the wedding is just you celebrating a lie.

Sanctimony is a weapon many females use. They realize perception is stronger than reality. If she can successfully encourage the perception that she's a good church girl, the reality that she sleeps around or is a chronic flirt doesn't matter.

femi4:
This is where you goof

Though I've agreed to move, not to her church but a neutral church both of us will decide on after our wedding.

DICKstractor:




Person put sugar for your mouth, you talk say, you no want, say e too sweet

solaceTK:
Can it go for 130k?

Timekeeper:
Price

vislabraye:
Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

vislabraye:
You said 3 years and you even promised her marriage ?
I'm with a lady for barely 6 months. I've not even made any promise of marrying her and yet she told me her mom wants to see me.
My guy, you went to far. My situation is small compared to yours and I even need advice..

Lordbinsmar:
Nigerians are very stupid when it comes to polithiefcians matters

Cescy:
Samsung A72 needed ASAP

PeaceJoyLove:
Hmmmm! Your comment is inspiring. This is exactly how it should be. Mind you that you have the potential of leaving catholic because the seed has been sown in you.

Your girl did the right thing by telling you straight up she cannot sign for a catholic. But you pushed it cos you have the seed already sown in you.

The only issue here is: do not fall into the trap of just following her to her church or to where she wants. Please, start praying together now. And please, let her know you may have to look for another church and not hers. Do not let her just assume you will join her.

There is someone I know who is from the Seventh Day Adventist. What is the chance of converting another christian into this particular denomination? I think converting a Muslim is easier. Let's be realistic here. Going to church on Saturdays is for the strong minds. Are the Saturdays the partner is making money you will tell him/her to attend service? The population of SDA is like less than 0.1%. So, how did such person think conversion of someone else outside is easy? It is just better for the person to get someone in the local church; else, the fellow should forget about marriage. Else, the fellow will hate the denomination later in life when it the reality comes around. And it hits girls more cos as soon as they are above the age of getting pregnant, they are full of regrets. They can say it now that they dont care, but the time their mates have grandchildren to visit them, and they have no one, that's when they come to their senses.

I told the person, if you cannot get someone in your church and you really need to get marriage, God is telling you to step out. Something must push you out of your comfort zone. What is important to the fellow? To be comfortable with the church doctrine and be without a spouse, or to move out and seek God elsewhere? Is God telling her to seek her elsewhere? Is the same God elsewhere? Or only restricted to her denomination? Oh the fellow said "they" is comfortable there, and I said ok. I said: you are free to sit in your comfort zone, amd God will move elsewhere". The truth is that those pastors brainwash their members that their church is the only living church and that's where they can get to heaven. What a lie!

Again, the check is praying and reading the word together. A partner who refuses to do the two is not qualified. This is the truth. That person is empty. The person can pretend and come online and preach and do many things. But as long as the person cannot study the word and pray together with the other person, better to let the person go. Such partners will have problems. Such is a typical example of a church goer and a strong religious person. That is a strong chain which will take the grace of God to break.

Please, it may be wise to decide the church you will attend before wedding. After marriage, people do stupid things cos they think the other is already "theirs" and they sant to impose their self will on the other.

PeaceJoyLove:
Hahaha. Thanks for the correction. Then, the girl is the manipulator. In this case, she is to follow the man to catholic. Simple as ABC. If she doesnt want to attend catholic, why date one? I am sure catholic church will treat the boy like "anyhow" if he leaves. His whole family too will label him a rebel. The boy should stay in catholic. The girl is a manipulator, and with such character, she isnt even a good Christian. They will have trouble in the marriage.

My post is not one sided. It is very clear. The Nigerian culture says the lady should follow the man to his church. Simple. This is the standard based on the culture.


But if you ask me my stand: no one should change anyone. Even, I dont like that the woman is asked to change, but I think it will cause conflict for baby christians, so our forefathers made it a standard for the woman to leave her church. The right way for me is that the two people should pray together. That is what they should do when dating. But the ones of these days will rather start sampling themselves and are weak spiritually. So, they religiously choose where they were born, or where they received salvation.

No matter the church you attend, even you like it, and it may even be where God is using you.....as long as you know you want to live together with someone else to be one body, you must leave your thought that the person must join you. The two of you must sit down and discuss. Yeah, both of you are born again. And one person or both must leave his or her church. So, who will leave? You will be selfish to ask the other to leave. So, what do you do? Start praying together. Do not even pray for direction to which church you should go. Just start praying together to develop yourselves. Start reading the Bible together. Share your thoughts. Then, go out to churches together and just observe around. This is my method. One way or the other, you both will get direction, and there wont be conflict. And each of you must bear it in mind that there are 3 possibilities with 33.3333% chance each:

1. Attend the man's church
2. Attend the lady's church
3. Attend a different church

When both are opened to equal chance of any of the 3 above, then, that is one happy family. But when one of the spouse is stubborn to say his/her church is where he or she is growing or developing, then, there is going to be a big trouble. It is a sign that they will keep manipulating themselves in the marriage. Anyone who is like this should check him/herself well. It is not only a denomination members who will inherit heaven. Jesus did not institute denomination. He instituted His body - the body of Christ. So, I feel so bad for denominational people. They appear to be dutiful and faithful to God, but they are the ones Jesus will tell He doesnt know. Why? They are so partial in their ways. When they see another person in another denomination suffering, they willl rather hold their goodness and give it to their members. These set of people are chained. It is a serious bondage. But the irony thing is that the church they attend might really be excellent. But what if God needs the person to step out? What if the church is just a training ground for the person? This is how the person will chain himself or herself to that ground and will never fulfill his/her destiny. Yet they will be doing serious religious work in the church. You can imagine if Paul did not step out to the Gentile, we wont know him today.

Salvation is a personal confession and not collective. You can develop in another place, and not only in tje place you think you can. I pity people who are chained to a particular denomination. Watch closely, they are empty barrels.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Awwwwh...wished I could help.

Just pray to God and ask for signs so you know when you meet your God ordained spouse.

Xilsbridalhouse:
lol I don’t know any for now...why are you asking me?

Xilsbridalhouse:
Looool your comment brought back some old memories lol

I recall also being forced by my bro to go hunt fishes in dirty stagnant water to keep as pet chai my bro really frustrated me then !

tosinhtml:
I can't bro, I stopped writing WordPress 5 years ago. Go to Upwork and hire a competent WordPress developer.

tosinhtml:
You are far behind in knowledge and understanding.

IamCookie:
Oh! I am not ignoring your emails. I apologise should i cause you any inconvenience. My mum passed away, and i have been busy with every every without reading sef...she'd be buried in 2weeks time.
I didn't get the past questions, at all. I am only hoping and relieved a bit , that it will be a multiple choice questions.

IamCookie:
Wow! Itz good to know you are , but i didn't get a message thru the PM , only a notification. You may send a mail to pushmotunrayo@gmail.com
Good morning

thatebonyiboy:
Seeing the constant increase in price of the Redmi Note 10 pro, I have now given up on trying to buy it.

What alternative phone can I get with almost or close spec range as the Redmi Note 10 Pro.

Budget is 120k (nothing more).

Please don't recommend tecno or Infinix, make i nor swear for person.

Thanks.

Abagworo:
Obasanjo very intelligent man. The only Nigerian who was able to enter the heart of Boko Haram at its deadliest moments and come out alive. The originator of carrot and stick but can we remember Odi? Maybe it was a stick before the carrot but OBJ is far better than Buhari. As far as I can see through my future reading glasses it won't take long before this IPOB crisis will spiral into the bombing of major cities across Nigeria. A new approach other than the military must be used to save the day.

IamCookie:
Na only you go vote in Nigeria What made you think he'll lose nothing is impossible!*

vincentgeorge:
How much

Praxtech:
When did you start?

Praxtech:
Answer my question

Praxtech:
When did you start selling PC's