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iice:
I'd rather not hear it

Hehehe, I love you IICE!

There! So you prefer to read it then?

Hmmm, tricky situation there! Used to have this exact same headache until i discovered that you can't get a girl by walking up to her and telling her I LOVE YOU. For Christ's sake, she's heard those exact same words one million times within seven days! Why on earth would she believe u even if u said it with the SINCEREST (hehe, we dey create english for 9ja) face?

Say something like, you like her and would love to get to know her better. If she's interested, get a date for a follow-up conversation, if she's not, then be brave enough to accept that reality. It's better than coming off as a jerk.

RuuDie:
looks shouldn't influence anybody's judgement of another individual but sometimes it just can't be helped 'because what is d 1st thing u see of anybody before u get 2 know 'em?

here's an example , from her looks what d'u think 'bout her?

From her looks, erm, I think she's your girlfriend!

uspry1:
@Curved

I dare you to answer my question:

If you got tempted to betray your own girl receiving HIV positive test from someone else?


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[li]What you do with that girl you love very much but cheated on her?[/li]

[li]why screw up the relationship your girl is totally innocent you caused her? [/li]
[/list]

To me, cheater is cheater, period!!!

Dear uspry1

My heart bleeds for the above scene! In my case, i'm a one-girl guy (which most girls do not believe anyway!). When she gets too naggy and unnecessary suspicious, it's time to move on. This hurts, as it compels u to break up. That's my point! I don't do more than one girl at a time, even then, there's no loving without condoms dear!

Segedoo, i'm interested, how do u find out? When she tells u she wants to see u everyday? Nah, my man! She's doesn't trust u enough to let u outta her sight!

Ronnie-slimz, why u dey pitch me against Omo Eko? Abeg o! i no wan somebody to drive me from Eko o! But i dey feel u sha!

Ronnie-slimz, you took the words right out of my mouths there. Thanks for understanding even tho it seems, you're a girl!

Seems like everyone's pretty much saying the same thing here. Bottomline is, we would date you, love you and stay with you alone if you'd stop the unnecessary suspicions and distrusts. Some guys get pushed beyond limits by their women. Trust me, i've got a personal experience!

bunmii:
what do you normally do?

Simple! I just tease! After gisting for a while, i could say something like, "Hey, do u have a phone?" The response usually is laughter followed by "No!" Handing my sleek phone to her, "Hehe, no fear, i'll only call nine times in a day!" More laughter while she dials her number on my phone to get mine too.