₦airaland Forum

senatordave1:
Am so disappointed and angry.they should have won the central to humiliate diri and send a message that diri is sitting on borrowed time

Sorry brother... Dont give yourself heart attack. Just sleep over it take heart.

senatordave1:
You should calm down rather.someone is popular on the streets,he outrigged his opponent to secure his victory in accordance to your politics beyond the streets so why are you complaining? You pdp fans are two faced

Brother you don't even have idea of what's up with bayelsa politics. Bayelsans hate Sylva with passion and anything called APC.

They fear sylva will have an indirect rule if Lyon is elected. On a free and fair election Lyon won't have won. Federal might, oil money and military intimidation marred the election. And this is one of the reasons some politicians got sanctioned by US for election malpractice

senatordave1:
Those are not facts my friend.its pure rubbish.your audience dont have PVC but yours have,very interesting.you simply dont have what to say.let us do a simple opinion poll in any bayelsa street and see if diri is popular.even in pdp,a lot of people opposed him and you are here blabbing

Young man calm down. Politics is beyond street talk. I just gave u analysis based on voters experience in the polling units and this is different from getting information from PVCless people who got no business with the voting process

senatordave1:
Oga,Lyon won clean.same sylva contested in 2015 but failed.when Lyon emerged apc candidate,I was angry but when I did some research,majority of bayelsans preferred him to diri.diri is not just popular at all,this is not a hidden fact.

Sorry man, I'm only giving u facts as it were on the election day. So many of my colleagues attested to what I said as above. It's the very fact. You made ur research from people who got no PVC.

senatordave1:
Not just the violence.mosdii was right.this is direct from inec adhoc staffs.it is the old method of rigging where pdp simply gets the original result sheets and concocts figures.nigeria has outgrown this.even if ebebi is to lose his LGA,it will be narrowly.this is the same place Lyon won and Dickson struggled to win in 2015

Lyon did not win anything. The election was massively rigged in favor of APC.

Arrewa:
[img][/img][s]Clout chaser!

Elrufai remain one of the best governor in Nigeria!


Elrufai is fighting insecurity and at same time developing Kaduna State.

Same people blaming Buhari for the insecurity in Benue are blaming Elrufai for the insecurity in southern kaduna!

Bigotry is a disease!

Only bigots hate Elrufai!

Elrufai is outstanding!

More Grace Mallam!! [/s]

From a paid media promoter of a Bigot.

Stop spanning Nairaland with all these pics. Best performing governor my feet. Insecurity Governor of Nigeria

Pancakeey:
How would you write my test for me when I a web cam is required??

No webcam is required. It's a tactics to scare candidates.

I've come to realized that indicator should be secondary. S/R and trend line should be primary.

I made lots of losses before coming to this realization.

Cool

Cool

BlowYourMind:
Hatred and bitterness will consume you if you continue like this, the guy never intended to go against law of social distance, things went beyond his expectation, it was a drive in concert

One of his junkie fans has been spotted...

In other words, your survival lies in your own hands.

As for Naira Marley, that dude needs psychiatric check and better cane. Dude keeps releasing junks as music upadan-- crazy noise with the same beat in all the songs. Nonsense

OOOpa:
This is interesting and worrying.


One of their Account Service Manager just called me this evening that she is my account officer. Encouraging me to fund my account. No hidden charges blablablah.....that if I get charged, I will be refunded my deposit or withdrawal fees.

Thanks this heads-up.

But, the 500.00 USC...levy.......I how this is not Dollars?

It's $5 equivalent to 2k. But to think of it, these guys are just so desperate to eat off from their investors. My advice is to you is for you look out for any reliable broker

Then sue Sahara reporters if you are saying the truth.
If not keen shut because you'll end up exposing yoursef

Nigeria with these kind of people as leaders...
60 yrs post independence, no tangible development to show. The country has being experiencing steady retrogression.

Age is just a number... maturity, submission and love is what u should be looking out for in any lady.

nijabazaar:
Darling, you are stupid.

God bless you, my brother.
And to the other person I called a r-e-t-a-r-d, I'm sorry. You insulted me first but no problem, I'll be the first to apologize.

But I still hold on to my opinion that El-rufai is a religious fanatic. It's my opinion not yours or am I not entitled to my own opinion?

Denique:
I bet you didn't read to understand the news

Madam, it's just my general opinion about the man o

Let's see the picture of the head first before we can say anything

Bola146:
I'm single and searching.... hookup and irresponsible mumu should not dm me please

That sounds harsh...

varnaija:
I'm already bisexual. Don Bleep both and they all heavenly.

You kinda have problem with English small.

You'll be alright sha

The lexical semantics of your text is so plain to understand; and my response is logical and valid. So, what's the problem with the English.

Well, I was only concerned about ur interest in going the full blown lesbo way. Sorry for rocking ur boat.

varnaija:
I saw moesha video, damn, I'll go full lesbo for that kind of ass, to hell with any man.

Do you think they are natural?

So, you are contemplating on going the lesbo way... haba why na

This man and bitterness are like 5 & 6.


Modified

To those of you insulting me for expressing my general opinion about El-rufai, well done for showing your home training. But I still hold on to my opinion that El-rufai is a religious fanatic. His eyeservice is obvious in everything he does. He has this hatred and bitterness for Christianity.

Try to make a video recording of any strange thing and document it.

But what does it mean by this statement made by the Abacha family...

No matter what, we can never be as poor as Dangote.

Awon ole... boasting with tax payers money.
All Nigerian politicians are wicked. They are demons and terrible souls.

This table you're about to shake enh...

Liposure:
but our society doesnt care whether u are ready or not. their own is just marry

The society you fear today will still be the one to insult life out of you if ur marriage failed.

Marriage is for men; not for boys. If you aren't emotionally, psychologically, and financially ready for it yet; then don't go there.
Don't get it twisted. Age is just a number. It has nothing to do with ur being ready or not.

Redmi

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

I think you married a boy. This is because everything u said about ur husband depicts the characteristics of a boy, not a man. Marriage is not meant for boys. You could have seen some of this traits in him at the time u guys were in relationship/courtship.


Anyways, now that u are in already, it's a no going back, for the sake of ur 4 loving kids. So, what's the way forward:

1. Keep tolerating him with ur quietness. Don't lose ur mind so there won't be an inferno.... again, just for the sake of ur sweet kids

2. Always keep in touch with ur parents and siblings because they are like a shield to you and the kids. Ur husband does not look like someone that can protect u.

3. Get your husband in a roundtable discussion and settle the financial crises. Here's what you should do. Join both salaries together. Then, cost out all the things that will be needed for that month. Make a flexible budget for a start. What ever is left after this, divide it into two parts. You both take each part as ur savings. This will settle the nagging about u hiding money or u not doing enough with u salary.

4. Learn to apologize even wen u know u haven't done anything wrong. Infact, apologize every morning when u greet him in the morning and evening before going to bed. After a while, he will find this hilarious. He will feel bad if and when he becomes a man.


My fellow guys, pls I beg u, if you are not mature for marriage, don't go there! Be a man first before you take the responsibility of marriage. Remember, being a man is not by age; but maturity