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Amaraokafor:
Good morning nairalanders. Forgive my blunders if you find any.

I need a candid advice for a decision in life I'm about to make. I have been dating this guy for three years now and even if we like each other, I'm beginning to realize that I'm getting tired of the relationship.

I come from a family of three girls and four boys. My elder sister is married as well as my younger sister.I'm the one left hanging in the air. I'm not a desperate lady, but recently I'm beginning to realize that feigning ignorance to this particular issue is beginning to take its toll on me.

I'm in a LDR that has seen little or no results for the past three years. Although there's a reasonable online contact, but physical presence is like a war. Sometimes I don't get to see him for months.The thing again is I'm chasing other guys away from me. Kept saying I'm taken but it's like I'm deceiving myself. I'm tired. I've tried to let go several times but couldn't just bring myself to do it.


Recently another guy came into my life and he seems really nice.He asked me out for a lunch date but I've been mute. I don't want to double date and my present relationship is beginning to make me deeply sad. I like my present man but the relationship is so dull. It's too empty. There are no memories. It's like Im not even in a relationship to start with. Apart from the fact we profess love to each other, I think it's the most dull and under performing relationship ever.He is responsible and cool headed, but the way he handles our relationship leaves me completely empty, extremely sad and hopeless.

I want to date again, but it's like I need a push. I have this ugly reputation for overstreching patience. This suffering inside and smiling outside syndrome. So people don't get to know how extremely sad I'm until I open up. I'm extremely sad.


Talk to me.
I will listen.

TheUpsetGirl:
your guy dey here o...
how was your night??

work no dey allow me sleep.

like seriously I can't remember the last time I slept before 12am.. maybe 2016

TheUpsetGirl:
hehe..

Good morning ..

TheUpsetGirl:
Cutehector you're viewing..

Sup, apologies for yesterday.

Hope you've moved on?

Rosebloom:
Pity

NLevents:
She should pay and stop typing empty words. "Put your money where you mouth is"

RuthDaniels:
Lol. I can be troublesome you know? If i show up at the party my motive will be to break Vizkiz's nose

Anyways i wish you all success

TheUpsetGirl1:
which one is think again.. it's the fact not think..
stop complaining...

Twoclans:
Why do you think every nairaland lady is broke?

Even the female students can afford 5k.My guy cut us some slack.

Rosebloom:
Free for ladies... why

TheUpsetGirl1:
The fact is nairaland ladies are broke.. they can't afford the 5k if they're billed no lady will attend..

you understand now?

TheUpsetGirl1:
Donpiiko sup, hope you gonna attend?

Donstan18??

Cutehector

DuruCrusher:
To become popular Abi?
Cos I'm not understanding u

IamAirforce1:
sometimes its difficult to pull out o

You go don pour am In before your head reason pull out

biacan:
I'm being honest here

biacan:
I don't watch porn and I don't want to have anything to do with it

biacan:
I've not seen anything oooo

biacan:
Black Americans are the best in terms of that

biacan:
Why are you asking

chronique:
Yeah. It's what I'm looking at. Trying to save up funds to develop a prototype in China and see how effective and efficient it would be and if it turns out good, I can look at selling it to an international firm involved in defense technology. No time to waste with Nigerian govt.

biacan:
Me pay for your dot di0k

biacan:
Open leg ko..... give me head ni