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Twaci:
1. Say you fall in love with a girl but had no opportunity (or guts) to let her know then travel out for a year and come back to hear that your brother or close friend had a sexual relationship with her, would you still tell her how u feel? And probably date her?

2. What is the first thing that comes to mind when a girl friend zones you? Would you remain friends with her?

out of all the questions asked in here, this caught my attention.



1. Every feelings for her after learning abt the situation will evaporate like smoke from my heart..



2. I won't remain friends with her... if I wanted to be friends with her only, I wouldn't hav asked her out In the first place. Dats why I"d appreciate if she tells me befor hand dat she doesn't hav any feelings for me whatsoever. When I see smth I like, I go for it. If what I like doesn't like me bak, I like someoda. Simple

Ask dem oooo

juhan:
im okay. You?

pretty much cool.. after my outing, I came bak ta rest.. cooked rice, and had a stroll in the evening..

juhan:
hi goodevening

hw'v u been all day

I have not died oooo. Oh ye experts.

Lmao





Do not commit adultery.. it was boldly written



If u die as a result of it, bro, na hell straight

juhan:
nah i dont have anyone yet

hey

kinglekan:

As in ehn... my oga no get chill atal..

Now weY we don open all the back to back hit threads today, Hector wetin we go do 2mr?

cuz I just have four major appointments online dis nyt, that female thread, my yoruba language sessions, chat wit a darling and nw this male thread too.. mehn. I duno hw to manage all..




Tomoro we go think of smth better. Twaci just really did a good job tonyt, I must really commend her I swear.

Oluko mi



Cc:naughtynaughty, I am ready..

JeffreyJamez you should have waited a while before creating this thread, maybe tomorow..

HateU2:
hahahahahah. See this guy ooo. Typical omo ibo with sugar coated mouth. U don sweet talk my bestie abi . I will tell her to stop teaching you

what do u want?

mimzy:
I assume ure talking bout a lady ure already dating. If yes.then find below:

Stalking her
Acting like you don't care when in actual fact you do
Taking her love for granted
Forgetting special dates e.g bdays, anniversaries...
Taking her out to a party then ignoring her all tru d time at the party.
Cheating
Reminding her of her lapses that your ex had in abundance

I could go on and on. Lol

mimzy please I want u to go on. Abeg. It will go a long way to help guys

ireneony:
All guys here should ask me any issue concerning ladies.
U all are welcome

I asked a question, u should look up the thread and answer.m questions are for the general house(ladies), and not just one person to answer

optional1:
Twaci dear please do mention names dat wil answer a particular question frm d guys not only u answering it. Some of us might not b able to contribute cos u r answering all d question.

Thanks dear!

Good work God bless!

optional1 dat twaci or any lady answers a question first doesn't mean another lady won't answer it. We guys need different opinions on d same issue so we can knw how to handle the matter optimally. So please ur work should be to answer and not to keep asking questions.. infact I asked a question just nw so answer it!

safarigirl:
various things.

I like to itemize attraction into two.

Attraction of the body (physical)

Attraction of the mind (mental)

Let me use your illustration in terms of a female.

There are girls in the world that some term "a guy's girl"...she's outgoing, cool to o hang out with, looks good and all, but, guys simply aren't into her, why? Because she's "just cool".

You meet some people that you think would make ideal life partners, but you just want the person to remain that cool guy/girl you know. You don't want to break this idea you have of the person, you don't want to discover an 'uncool' side, so you avoid the relationship.

Maybe she likes the guy and he's cool, but in her head, she doesn't see him as her man.

You meet some guys and you just imagine hanging out with em, going to watch games or movies, but that's all. Then you meet some guys and you have some 18+ thoughts running through your head. Both guys are similar, characteristics and all, but one is just your home boy.

thanks so much for goin into details. I really am grateful

mhiz:
IMO not every girl likes Mr Nice. Sometimes we need spontaneity. That bad guy stuff. Dunno if i made sense to u??

alright.. thanks for your answer..

I think there are up to like six ladies viewing, pls someone should answer my question abeg.

I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

Ladies, pls twaci shouldn't be d only one answering questions, I urge other ladies viewing to post their opinions alson on questions asked instead of moping like one zombie dat is lookin for banana.







Refiner if I catch u watching eh? U just better contribute an answer

Hahahahha


she is very lousy... Probably raised without proper home training...



Am sure they all use that tactics to cover up for their incorrigible character.

Can modern couples wait like this?

Festivalofholi:
Some hav opportunity to work but refuse to.... I spend money on my woman if i want, not d other way round.

den if she doesn't give u, u should stop! It's not rocket science.. once u start doing smth, they get comfortable with it. And take it as a right. Like if u quit, she will begin to ask u why u ddnt send her money, bla bla bla. So stop complaining while you are the one adding petrol to the fire.


If u want her to work, den u stop givn her free money. At least for that moment.


Simple. Jeez

Gettin a job ain't easy op. Dnt make it look like as it it comes with a snap of the finger. And i'm very sure if she gets the job, boyfrnds like u will b the first to pester her for money.



So it's a two way thing

queenfav:
My dear, almost every lady has a sad story to tell about her experience with men she dated in the past.However,some lie about it or grossly exaggerate the facts to score some sympathy points, and to maybe ensure you treat her well.A lady makes a guy wait not just because she is forming hard to get,she just wants to be careful so as not to get hurt again.Just be patient, if there's any you really like,she would eventually say yes to you someday when she is good and ready to date again.

i'll try this time