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betshopagent:
If Nottingham forest had held on for a win yesterday, I would have been 28mil richer. Only if...

NotAWierdo:
I understand your pain bro, but try to kill that "love" for her. Some people would recommend option 1 for you but with your current frame, I think that option can mess you up. The sex can worsen your "love" for her especially if the sex goes good and it can lead to you fighting for her attention in the long-term (while she keeps you as a side nigga and keeps dating her BF).

So Option 2 is the best bet for you. Delete her chats and number. If you have any bitch in your fvck list, call that bitch and clear your head sexually. If not, try getting laid ASAP (just in case na konji dey mess your head). Then reset your brain to thinking that the unloyal babe is nothing to you. See her for who she really is: a junior course mate you couldn't lay and accept defeat. I bet she won't bother messaging or calling you once you stop initiating it from your end. So with time, whatever feelings you have for her will die naturally as you move on to chyking/wooing other girls. Hopefully, this incident must have taught you a good lesson: Never give your heart to a single bitch, rather keep your options open (the logic of plate spinning) so that your heart remains cold and guided. Cos truly, there is hardly any girl out there that deserves your 100% affection. Cheer up, bro!

P.S: After reading back a bit on your story, I don't even think you can pull option 1 cos the babe is obviously just playing you (pele sha ). And you keep asking how you can rectify the situation, meaning you are probably poor with attracting girls. You saw a fresher last session as a part 3/4 student, so you had an easy chance at wooing her. She got a lot of attention/pressure from a senior (you) and caved in. But ultimately, she had to delay sex with you (cos of her initial naivety) and you accepted cos you thought you were grooming her up. Then she meets a bad boy (current BF) that broke her sexual barrier and brought out the bitch in her. Your story is a quite familiar one among many folks that woo freshers (yours truly included). So don't be a loser bro, up your game, try getting another bitch (or a couple more) to become interested in you and accept your lose with this babe.

Smartb0y:
You're neither cute nor bad else you won't be behaving this way.

The truth is you don't want to be saved. The feminine energy in you is too strong.

The only way you'll learn is through experience.

sedIoyol:
she not interested in you bro. Kindly move on.

CuteNbad:
Good day y'all,


I need y'all input on this.

So there's the girl I'm seeing currently. I'm yet to ask her out since these days no one does that again. I didn't wanna put a label on it or apply pressure. I just wanted it to keep flowing the way it was. I said was because there's the new guy she's seeing now.

She told me about it the last time we spoke. She said she gat her virginity to him. Something she promised me.

I feel hurt really. I do love this girl but she's slipping away from my grasp and I can't seems to accept that.

When I asked her why she slept with him when she knew we both had planned I'll be her first. She said it wasn't intentional and that it just happened.

Now she they've had sex thrice and she keeps calling him her bf to my face.

She came to my crib last week Monday and I was to have sex with her but she was on her period so we only smoothed and all... No sex.

Since she left my crib she's yet to call back or reply my text

She keeps saying I never asked her out each Time I asked why she's with the other guy.


I truly love this girl fr.
I have like three other girls in my life but I don't love them the way I love this girl.

I even stop talking to two of those girls because I thought she was getting serious with me.

Also she's never billed me before so it's not like she's after money

Anything I can do to save this?.


Ps: we're all undergraduate students.

FuckTheMod:
Lagos is actually the most expensive State to live ESPECIALLY FOR CIVIL SERVANTS.
Cost of living, transportation and house rent is the highest compares to every other states relatively.

In more than 12 YEARS now, the salaries of civil servants has not changed, but inflation since then has risen by at least 200% in any commodities you can think of.

12 years ago, the dollar to a naira was around 120-140 Then, a level 8 civil servants was earning better 80-120k per month, TILL DATE, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HAS CHANGED. THE SALARY IS STILL THE SAME.
NIGERIA IS THE HEADQUARTER EVIL GOVERNANCE. A HELL HOLE WITH THE MOST GREEDY AND CORRUPT LEADERS, ELDERS AND POLITICIANS.

Alaigbomaster:
Corn 🌽😃🌟

Seankhalifa:
I love binance more dan sex...

IgbosNIGHTMARE:
Full is for someone with small substance ... Fool is for empty and unfortunately, you have nothing.

IgbosNIGHTMARE:
Na noodles *fool* that box wey dey untop your neck

IgbosNIGHTMARE:
1)
When she's not a virgịn and she tells you no sëx before marriage, YET HER TOETOE CAN NEVER BE AT REST FOR ONE WEEK FROM SERVICING ONE GUY OR THE OTHER
Lesson: NEVER believe anything a whóre tells you about her sexuality. (Whórë= any girl with more than 2 bodycount).

2)
When she tells you her past doesn't matter...
Imagine someone that has lost count of her bodycount telling you that
You'll engage her and everywhere you go with her, SHE'LL MEET ONE DUDE SHE "USED" TO KNOW. She'll greet him and you fõõl will be shining teeth with her and the dude

3)
When she only calls you when she wants something or need a favour.

4)
When she adds no value to your life, yet you won't stop giving her your time, resources and time.

ezewealth:
I am vary ashamed of my self at 23, I have never gotten anything tangible for my mum, my niggars for hood go dey call me ezemoney, ezewealth I go dey vex cos I no dey touch the money

Go ahead. I wouldn't to meet you in real life sha. If not for anything, the unsurprised look of the boy's mother and the background of the picture should have given away who they are. Definitely not poor people.
For all we know, the boy could have saved from the money his parents have been giving him over the years.
He's probably a foreign student who worked and bought it. Or he is into sports and has some sponsors still.

But not you though. Like our policemen, you probably believe every young boy with money is a thief or fraudster

tonididdy:
that is benin...randekhi gold hotel, ihama, Gra Benincity.

i even happen to know the dude...he's nothing less of that age





lol my mom will never accept this gift so I wouldn't even bother

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


Only the 200 that they sprayed me at my last show

ibrocool:
Football is a game of luck. Any country can win it. But one thing I don't want is Argentina winning the world cup. I'd rather watch any other country apart from the countries of the two goats win it. Enough is enough.

Softmirror:
IT ALSO PREDICTED THAT ASIWAJU BOLA AHMED TINUBU WILL WIN 2023 GENERAL ELECTION AND WILL SUCCEED PRESIDENT MUHAMMAD BUHARI.

abobote:
This world cup sef, no country is on inform at the moment. But Argentina? No

Portugal would have stand a chance, but Ronaldo will spoil the show for them, just like he has been spoiling for Man U.

I'm putting my money on Brazil, Belgium and Netherlands, one of them will get to finals

YoungLionken:
That's a lie!!

I would rather believe in Senegal winning world cup, than Argentina..

Except you people have already concluded, hence the match fixing...

Sonnobax15:

Easier said than done

This year world cup,if not Brazil, then it's definitely gonna be France again......

Come to think of it,why aren't our Men of God in africa aren't predicting abi prophesying that an african country is gonna win the world cup?

FalseProphet1:
How do people have bad breath and not know. Honestly some people are just dirty.

Likewise girls having a smelling pússy and waiting for a guy to call their attention to it before know that they smell down there.

If you want to be with someone, the first thing you must work on is yourself. Ask your male friends if your mouth smells they would tell you, keep yourself clean. Brush well, bath well.

Even me as a prophet before any counselling, I lick Tom Tom just so that I can have fresh breath.

This I have seen.

Killbillz:
And u couldn't transfer one video to ur phone to save ur friend from doom... The story no clear. So u think u will just tell her and she will believe u? It's either ur not wise or ur just trolling

blabulu2000:
BOOM 💥

When i see some Yorubas that hate Tinubu i just Laugh they forgot that he brought YORUBA back into the game of politics when we have already lost our space in in this democratic era after Obasanjo sold us out without looking back!!!

The PDP (2011-2015) didn't have a single yoruba person in the top 8 political positions of Nigeria

1. GEJ- President
2. Sambo- VP
3. David Mark- SP
4. Ekweremadu- DSP
5. Tambuwal- Speaker
6. Ihedioha- Dep. Speaker
7. Katsina-Ala - CJN
8.Anyim Pius -SGF

Tinubu brought us back into the game and now we are back in the top 8 , and we currently have OSINBAJO & GBAJABIAMILA in top 4, 2023 is also our chance to rule this great country but some of us are lost

kennybabs1980:
Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Lionnation:
fool
Claiming what he doesn't know

Lionnation:
go to soudi Arabia or qatar and tell them the same thing, may be na you get money pass those people, fools everywhere

DaddyCK:
Women ain't problem in Nigeria but u don't hav any....corrřrrect?... brother, Google the word DELUSIONAL (no oofencsse)

DaddyCK:
OK son...thread will make sence wen u find a woman(no oofencsse)