NYSC › Re: Corper Shows The Meals They Got Served At NYSC Camp by CuteNbad(m): 10:24am On Jul 27, 2024 |
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NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by CuteNbad(m): 9:41pm On Jul 25, 2024 |
Good day here. Quick question
Will next batch receive 70k? Or same 33k |
Education › Re: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by CuteNbad(m): 10:34pm On Jul 22, 2024 |
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Education › Re: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by CuteNbad(m): 10:34pm On Jul 22, 2024 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: Yes because I haven't ripped most of you off your hard earnings to my satisfaction yet.  and the bdsm and extreme nackin you have been receiving in exchange isn't enough i guess |
Education › Re: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by CuteNbad(m): 10:23pm On Jul 22, 2024 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: Just like I have always said. Men are not really intelligent. That is why it is too easy to manipulate you all.  yet you haven't manipulated one into marriage. |
Education › Re: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by CuteNbad(m): 10:06pm On Jul 22, 2024 |
this one graduated a virgin. i'm certain. |
Family › Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by CuteNbad(m): 11:06am On Jul 19, 2024 |
BlindAngel: If only you know the daily cry, you would understand why I bowed to the pressure of getting married to her, which I'm still regretting until date everytime I think that I'm married to someone that I don't love, and worst still not sexually attracted to, it hurts me a lot everytime I think about it, our marriage is just 4 months and I have already started regretting everytime I think that I'm married and I don't have 1% love for who I'm married to, it would still be good if I'm sexually attracted to her, but I'm not. I'm so deeply hurt. OMO, una two no come this earth together. if she is not the wife you want. the wife of your dreams. baba divorce her asap. las las you go just dey pay child support and na wetin you fit afford you go payas a responsible man. do you know the joy of waking up every morning to see that you married the woman you so desired. and who gives you peace. Baba you only live life once. make your decisions to always be WHAT YOU WANT nobody follow you come, none will follow you go. USE YOUR HEAD. |
Family › Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by CuteNbad(m): 10:51am On Jul 19, 2024 |
BlindAngel: It seems I have been too easy and quiet on her, I will do as you say and ban her from going to that church and if she refused, she should pack her load and go back to her parents house, I have really condole enough of her rubbish and tears at any slight arguments.
I paid 396k for her cs operation, and no where my name or surname appeared on the receipt that was given to me, it's her name and her father's name that was on it. This is because after marriage she has not changed her surname to my name, this hurt me a lot because her elder sister that is just a baby mama to her boyfriend has already changed her Facebook sur name to her boyfriend surname. Whereas my wife is still answering her father's name, I have told myself that if she can't think and do this willingly, I will never and ever confront her concerning this.
I have been allowing her to do whatever she want but this, she has over stepped her boundaries, seems I have been too easy on her. OMO. not taking your surname shows she clearly does not regard you. it's sad. i know you love her that is why you have allowed all of this to happen but believe me it is time to end all this bullshit you have been taking in the name of i love my wife or i want peace to reign. Baba she has to earn your trust. you need to do that DNA asap make your case no be like others that has unknowingly raise another man"s children. Them no dey telli person. the decision is yours. either you find out now or later. later might be too late. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CuteNbad(m): 8:56pm On Jul 18, 2024 |
EreluRoz: But all men lost their virginity for free, some even paid the women they lost it to, so what are you saying. Men are cheaper than the air we breathe men are cheap until it's time for marriage. |
Sports › Re: Between Copa America Best XI Vs Euro Best XI, Which Team Is The Best by CuteNbad(m): 10:27am On Jun 13, 2024 |
Olatundex22: This team go kill any team Comot ronaldo..put harry kane |
Romance › Re: Rate These Photos Based On Their Sexiness by CuteNbad(m): 7:22pm On Jun 08, 2024 |
Damnnn Something must kill a man  |
Politics › Re: Dear NLC Trends As Nigerians Compare Salary Of Workers & Senators & Rep Members by CuteNbad(m): 9:25am On Jun 04, 2024 |
casualobserver: Stupidity is when you believe their monthly allowance is N27m. Stupidity is believing they collect over N50m a year for accommodation. People are taking their annual allowance and passing it is monthly and you believe? At that point the problem is your stupidity.
Are senators guilty of many excesses..yes but there are things you see and common sense must tell you this is not plausible. The Peak of Stupidity is believing that this current crops of nigerians politicians are incapable of paying themselves such. |
Politics › Re: Dear NLC Trends As Nigerians Compare Salary Of Workers & Senators & Rep Members by CuteNbad(m): 7:24am On Jun 04, 2024 |
Adesolomon2014: #494k is unrealistic, we know that.Govt should be realistic in improving the minimum wage nani. That's what we call negotiation people.... but Nass member earning 2M+ basic salary with 27M+ allowance MONTHLY Is realistic abi. |
Romance › Re: What Is Your Bitter Experience About Sex As An Adult? by CuteNbad(m): 3:15pm On Jun 02, 2024 |
After 'cumming' you 'come' to your senses |
Sports › Re: Which Of These Coaches Had The Greatest Legacy? by CuteNbad(m): 7:08am On Jun 02, 2024 |
englishmart: Zidane, Guardiola and Anchelotti were just lucky. Have you forgotten that Anchelotti almost relegated Everton? Sir Alex was a match fixer. The only two legit records there are owned by Mourinho and Xabi zidane lucky to win champions league back to back three time. Una go just open mouth dey talk rubbish. Make your papa go do am too na. As it's that easy feat. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Borussia Dortmund vs Real Madrid: UCL Finals (0 - 2) On 1st June 2024 by CuteNbad(m): 10:04pm On Jun 01, 2024 |
Ekaka14: Wetin dey worry Bellingham with all those attention seeking tantrums on the bench🙄 he dey find Balon d'or |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CuteNbad(m): 5:37pm On May 08, 2024 |
Rizzputin: Simple.
When the sex topic comes up, don't avoid it. Just stay with it. Be calm... share your thoughts and opinions in a chill, confident way
Ask about hers too. While talking with her.... picture yourself fùcking her. And let that sexual energy move through your body. Embrace it. As the interaction proceeds, she'll feel the energy and get turned on
Be bold to make moves on her. You have to understand that women LOVE sex.
She's been dying for you to get sexual with her and bang her.
When you do this, she'll test you. Remain calm, don't overreact. For me, I ignore most shìt test with a smirk
A woman testing is her natural inclination to love tension. That's why she loves drama. That's why they love sneaky sex. That's why they love threesomes and fùcking in public places
So she will want to put you under tension with testing & drama to see how you react.
Act offended or reactive and she'll think your weak and leave. Remain calm and her attention increases.
So to recap, talk about sex with her in a calm chill way. Don't laughing and giggling like a girl. Just talk about it comfortably. Tell her you love sex and how passionate it is. But that you love sex with a special kind of woman. If she asks you what that kind of woman is just tell her " you find out later" with a smirk
Do not attempt to hide your sexual desire. But don't be desperate.
The reason women lust after me is because my sexual desire rubs off on them.
So allow yours to come out but don't be desperate about it.
Many guys have asked me about this. Seems getting things sexual is a common problem from guys.
Later, I'll pen a comprehensive guide on it. But this should be helpful for you what happens when you're desperate? A woman once said I am. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Terrible Experience Applying For A High Paying Remote Job by CuteNbad(m): 11:49am On May 06, 2024 |
Hermanie: OP sorry for your experience. I believe you have learned skills you can use for other remote jobs. Don't give up please. On the other hand I am starting a tech blog in about a month's time. If you're interested in working with me as a writer, please send a dm. The salary won't be much. Above 100k + data allowance because we're just starting. I'm interested |
Food › Re: Young Lady In Trouble After Ordering Azul Of 1.3 Million Thinking It Is 1300 by CuteNbad(m): 12:56pm On May 04, 2024 |
Psych412: simple....fu*k the club Manager in exchange for payment ...no strees 1.3M? Na 1 year fucking be that |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Borussia Dortmund vs PSG: UCL (1 - 0) On 1st May 2024 by CuteNbad(m): 4:10pm On May 02, 2024 |
Bianca2o24: Omo on god. I don sell my house bet untop dortmumd na them go bring me funds wey I go use buy jet. I dont tire for naija  hope say you do am? |
Business › Re: Why Is The Naira Exchange Rate Always In The News by CuteNbad(m): 7:30pm On Apr 25, 2024 |
bestman09: See them. Bunch of mo.rons
It is because they don't know what they are doing. Meanwhile, I bought USDT DOLLAR at over N1400 this morning. Which app is this pls? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Real Madrid: UCL (3 - 4) Penalty On 17th April 2024 by CuteNbad(m): 9:05pm On Apr 17, 2024 |
sprints1: Man city will still win... Carvajal is shaking by the time pep talk sense to akanji city will rock in 3 goals... akanji clumsiness dey affect rodri.. thank God for powerbank how I go take watch this game... that arsenal match be like A League match in 🇦🇺 Australia drop streaming link abeg |
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Politics › Re: We Will Not Allow You Walk Alone – APC Tells Impeached Deputy Gov, Shaibu by CuteNbad(m): 1:42pm On Apr 11, 2024 |
Opanka44: Who can pls lend me 5k? I'll definitely return it how can you return it? |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CuteNbad(m): 3:18pm On Mar 26, 2024 |
Pukkalolo: Ok, eclatante, Right now you are already operating from a weak mentality... In other words, you are already putting her sexual companionship on pedestal, and even worse you are also putting being in relationship with her on pedestal.
To change your game, we have to first change that poor mentality...
Let's begin...
Some years back, after coding all day indoors, I always go out every evening to chill at this guy's boutique closer to my crib. Most of what he sold was female stuff: wrist watch, glass, sun shade and female wears in general. And most of his customers were females. So I used that as an opportunity to socialize and hit on the beautiful girls that walk in there to shop.
This guy who owns the boutique wasn't always around, but he had this sales guy working for him.
Pay attention because this is where things get interesting....
I noticed something impressive watching the sales guy sell to the females that walked in . Since he has been doing this for a while now, he was so good at knowing what wears fits the customer better.
Using glasses and sun shades for example. He could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly. I found it impressive because he was so accurate: he could immediately select the right eyeglass frames without taking the customer through the long boring process of testing and testing different eyeglass frame in order to get a perfect one.
That seem very impressive to me, but then I noticed something surprising and almost weird:
Most of the customers didn't seemed to be impressed with that. Many of these female customers would kinda lose interest and give silly excuse to leave the boutique...And he was losing good amount of sales as result of that.
At first, this sorta confused the shit out of me.
Soon this boutique owner requested I assist in attending to the customer anytime I came around... That was when I got a clue on what this sales guy was doing wrong...
When a customer came to buy stuff, since he could quickly analyze a customer’s shape of face and present the correct glass that fits the female perfectly, he seemed to rushed the whole process to make the sales. So the female assume he's only just concerned about making the sales and not so concerned about her general satisfaction with the product...
As a result, the level of trust on the part of customer decreased; they give him excuses to leave the boutique, saying they'll come back, but they never came back.
But I did something different...
Although, I didn't have any sales experience at that time, but I had seduction/dating experience. So I apply my seduction/dating experience in to the sales.
When a customer came to buy glass or sun shade for example, I often genuinely took my time to study her facial features to "figure out" or "find out" what types of shade and glass frames would fit her better and looked good on her. We would select different several sun shade and glass frames and try them on. I was genuinely concerned about helping them makes the best choice.
After the whole process , the vast majority of the time, I closed the deal. The female happily walk out of the of the boutique with her product. (I even lowkey hooked up with some of the ladies.)
My sales trilled the guy that owns the boutique, he started giving me little commission for every sales I made.
While I was building trust, making sales and even banging (some of) the females... The other sales guy was destroying trust, losing sales and losing relationship. The crazy thing was that he was still proud; he could not drop his ego and seek me for my ideas.
Ok, eclatante, for this same reason, you are about to lose both the pussy and the relationship with this girl. But unlike the sales guy, you are not proud: you're willing to seek for advice... I admire that.
You said,
"She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me... I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned."
Guys think, being "pussy focused" is all about having the goal of just fucking her. But NO, I don't mean only that. If you're interacting with her with the aim of getting into relationship with her, you are still being pussy focused.
As long as you are concentrated on "trying to get the girl", you are being pussy focused.
Hold up!
Right now I believe you are confused... you might be thinking, "wait, I don't understand, is that not the purpose of interacting with her: to get her?"
Yes, you are right. That's the purpose, but that purpose is the very thing that's about to hinder you from actually fucking or dating this girl...
Because from what you narrated, that girl is obviously interested, but you are about to lose her because you are focusing on the wrong things.
Ok, so what's the way forward...
Let's go back to the boutique again:
I won't deceive myself: I'm there to close the fucking sale and get the commission.
But the buyers are not dumb, they are aware of that, and they are psychologically ready to frustrate that attempt. So these females enter the boutique with doubt and distrust about the whole sales process because they assume I'm only concern about making the sales. They tend to be careful not to make any wrong buying decision they'll regret.
In order to counter that metal barrier the customers are already having about the sale I often immediately gave them the impression that helping them make the best possible choice is more important than closing the sales.
So I often took my time to genuinely study their facial features to "figure out" or "find out" if a glass frame looks good on her. Sometimes when a customer select a particular wear or glass frame that doesn't fit well to me, I tell her not to waste her money on that one that it doesn't looks sexy on her.
After taking her through the whole selection and fitting process, "trust was built." She felt comfortable and just literally close the deal for me even without me even pushing for it.
Same with women...
For the few guys here who have actually met me in person, you know I'm NOT much of a handsome guy: I already got this rough look about me. And the woman most times enter the interaction with me with doubt and distrust in her mind, because she assumed I'm only concern about getting something(sex or relationship), so she's psychologically ready to frustrate my attempt.
In order to counter that, and start building trust, I also enter the interaction unimpressed by her attractiveness and personality, and having doubt if she's a good fit for me romantically or she's just a time waster.
The goal of my interaction is to find out whether the girl has the interest level, personality, vibe and qualities (or whatever else that I'm looking for).
So I make bold/cocky/audacious statements and moves that help me "challenge her", "figure out" or "find out" if she fit in my requirement.
I bang beautiful girls, the reason I can do that is because "I'm not immediately concerned" or "in a rush" to get sex or relationship from them, but rather, I'm more immediately focused on challenging them, "finding out" and "figuring out" things about the girls...
It takes a little time to embrace this mentality, but once you do, you'll be surprised by how easy it is to get pussy. can you pls mention some bold/cocky/audacious statements and moves that can help challenge a girl |
Health › Re: Man Swallows Phone To Prevent Wife From Reading His Texts: Ends Up In Hospital by CuteNbad(m): 2:26pm On Mar 26, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: Man With One-inch Penis Opens Up About Life With A Micropenis by CuteNbad(m): 10:01am On Mar 24, 2024 |
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Business › Re: Name An Item You Have Stopped Buying Due To Inflation/high Prices. by CuteNbad(m): 11:44am On Mar 05, 2024 |
Blacktruth: Its ETv installation with an android box , they have everything you want to watch on dis planet . how much to get and install it |
Romance › Re: Woman Cries After Being Called "Bouncer" On Social Media (pics, Video) by CuteNbad(m): 6:02pm On Mar 02, 2024 |
fyzaila: Anybody can be bullies online and work away with it, something the can never try face to face shut the hell up dimwit!! |
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Business › Re: 'If You Are In Nigeria, Move All Your Cryptocurrency To A Custodial Wallet Now' by CuteNbad(m): 10:47pm On Feb 21, 2024 |
mrvitalis: They don't so why will they engage in an unprofitable venture...can you clarify please |