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observation 2:You Are Focused On What You Want Out Of Them And The Relationship
most people get into a relationship and can see themselves dating, getting married, having kids, and relocating to a tropical island for their retirement. They picture all of these things in detail, including short-term events, such as spending time together and falling more and more in love. But, they are focused on their future with this person from their point of view, not the other person’s point of view. If you see your relationship solely from your point of view, then it is infatuation, not love.Love is about knowing what the other person wants in life and working on compromising. It’s not about satisfying your needs and expectations solely.

yhermmie:
Na play

you will like fight and argument

Sit back, get your reading glasses, get a glass of water as you journey/read through on how to unfold your affection for your spouse or his/her affection for you,whether infatuation or love.



Observation 1:You’ve Only Know Each Other For A Short Time
I have known people who declared love for each other and all but at the end it was infatuation and deceit cause they found out that they hated almost everything about the person.
if you fall in love with someone, make sure you just don't jump into the relationship without understanding who and what that person it.
if you fall in love for a short time then it complete infatuation.Love takes a while to develop. It takes intimacy, which requires a connection or attachment to someone. Love is about being familiar with someone, where a bond has been developed. You may feel attached to them, but ifyou have not taken the time to develop an intimate connection, then that attachment is coming from being infatuated, not real love.

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yhermmie:
I didn't promise any gift, was just asking

na fight?

.

yhermmie:
Hmmmn

what ? I will be waiting for the gift you promised though.

yhermmie:
Any type of gift, what type of gift were u thinking of?

I dunno .. you tell me

single and probably not searching

Pope22:
I am so happy

we know you are

happy birthday!!

kiss and die fuçk and die

yhermmie:
The way u described valentine... But if dem give u gift, u go sha collect

I don't know whether am outdated or not, cut what's wrong with the way I described and defined valentine. and yeah , I will receive the gift.. what kinda gift though .?

MoDsHunter:
issorite, Try Hymnal Book.

Lol. I will xender the apk to her then .. hymnal books? of which church ?

Bumbae1:
Lol my heart its enough now
Money can't buy it

he he he, alright have a nice weekend

MoDsHunter:
A Bible .....KJV

she's got tons of it

Bumbae1:
No worries

what about you ? what you getting your boo and vice versa?

yhermmie:
Lol....

Lol, what's so funny?

Bumbae1:
Oh i see we do it here too but ror christmas gift lol Valentines one is new to me

You can just get her a box of chocolate or flowers or just one perfume thats it .. please no romantic gestures oh before her hubby hold u
Go to the mall you will see something to buy .. you only got weekend and Monday though

yeah, thanks.. I was thinking perfumes will be great too..
that your suggestion about taking her out was gargantuan. all eyes would be on me if I do that. thanks once again

yhermmie:
No... I really don't celebrate Valentine

me too.. it feels somehow irritating, I'd rather invite everyone in my house and host s party, where every will watch Netflix and drink, rather than bleep a girl in the name of valentine . Valentine is for agape love though . shey you know?

Fxinvest:
Okay. Tell her to visit my signature to fight recession.

20 slaps to reset your brain for you

Bumbae1:
Ok is she comfortable ?? Maybe she doesn't need one
Your presence and a romantic gesture should be all then ... or take out for a nice meal .. or you can just be chef for the day

No way.

okay here is the whole gist .
I'm a newbie at work, and it happens that this place I work have their traditions where they share gifts amongst themselves every Feb. 14th . a ballot was cast and I happened to pick up her name. so tell me, how am I to take a married woman out on that very day. ?

yhermmie:
The way my ex used to shout at me when I touch his phone made me stopped going near his phone...
Though he once told me then I had a 'backup' in case I bleeped up

hmmmm

So, this coincidentally occurred and I have been wondering, which gift is best suitable for a grown up woman that won't tear up my pocket.

Am Youthful while she is married.. and I guess she is quite older than me. Around 29 or 31.

so house, here is the question.

What should I get this woman next week Tuesday?

Am reading all comment.. the ladies should please comments

yhermmie:
Valentine

yeah, have you got a date for that day?

is Seun dead

wtf dude? you cloned it!!

BluntMadmoiselle:
Op.....chop high 5

Chopping it

*WHAT IS MATURITY?*
I used to think that maturity was about age and physical development, how wrong I was. I have since found out that age is only but a number, below are 20 definitions of *MATURITY*
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1.... *Maturity* is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity.
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2.... *Maturity* is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best.
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3.... *Maturity* is when you learn to let go even if it pains.
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4... *Maturity* is when you are able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for giving sake.
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5.... *Maturity* is when you understand whatever positive thing you do, you do is for your own peace.
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6... *Maturity* is when you stop proving to the world how intelligent you are.
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7.... *Maturity* is when you stop comparing yourself with others because life is not a competition.
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8.... *Maturity* is when you understand that you cant and shouldn't always get what you want every time.
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9.... *Maturity* is when you are content and satisfied with your life and yet aspiring to be better everyday..
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10.... *Maturity* is when someone hurt you and you understand their attitude and stay clear than trying to hurt them back.
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11.... *Maturity* is when you start thinking of other people and not just yourself.
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12.... *Maturity* is when you know you cant please everyone.
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13.... *Maturity* is when you see things in different perspective far beyond the way they are.
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14.... *Maturity* is when you love more and judge less.
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15.... *Maturity* is responsibility
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16.... *Maturity* is Love
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17.... *Maturity* is the application of wisdom and knowledge in humility..
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18... *Maturity* is when you accept that your accomplishment, failures, destiny, reputations and almost everything about your life depends on God's will and the choices you make and not pointing fingers on others.
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19... *Maturity* is when someone hates you and you still pray for them to succeed.
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20.... *Maturity* is knowing God, serving Him with all that you've got and I'm pursuing His Kingdom no matter what people think or say
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Share it with others and educate them pls.

another asylum run-away

Kaycee7:
Seems you're not a fan of the action genre.

I am .. I watch all kinda movie.
Bros haba, you don't expect me to list the whole movies here na. that was why I said, feel free to hard yours

AshawoGirl:

a beg swerve