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Hezzyluv:
Imagine cows roaming the streets of state capitals and even the FCT in 21st century and no balls to say, enough of this nonsense from the government?

Honestly. Especially here in Abuja. Eye sore. The whole place is littered with cow sh**. Smells like it too

*Gags*

Abuja and Lagos both smell like human piss and shit.

None of the commenters saying men are evil.

Imagine if a woman did this! It would be nonstop yapping about how dangerous we are. Useless gender

KingDashx:
I'm curious
Don't all this pornstars get HIV or other deadly diseases or are they just immune lol.

They do! That's why they are required to test themselves every three months. But that's in civilized countries where the producers and agents care about the welfare of their stars.

zenithgroup:
If you come to realised your wife or partner has never take your lead nor listen to your opinion from the beginning DNA is a must for all your children. Generally women don't like to get f.ck, pregnant by Simp, if it happens by mistakes she'll abort it.

She will married simp collect his resources but she wants the seed of a man she cannot manipulate to grow inside her.

Women don't like to abort for redpiller even when under pressure to she'll preserve the child with all her life.

If she naively married and has children for Simp, she'll never be happy or fulfilled in that union.

It's the game, learn or perish.

What you wrote makes sense to you?

bobonla:
Good evening romancelanders. How e dey be. I took loan from Fairmoney people. Na just 15,000, with interest of 5880. That is to pay back 20880.
These people wan use call finished me. Infact the have even added 1k extra. I don't want to pay back. Any repercussions?

Absolutely nothing. Will they threaten you with fire and brimstone? Yeah! Does it matter at the end of day? Nope.

Enjoy yourself, friend.

And ignore their agents commenting above.

Sonnobax15:

You see one thing about married couples!!!

Once two people don dey lash,I no dey involve myself into their problem at all....Cuz las las,na your matter Dem go take settle for bed after exchanging of rounds upon rounds

It's so sad she's being oppressed! She is literally crying in the video and you make it seem like it's her choice to return to the toad who is harassing her entire family.

The average male mentality.

meobizy:
I’m slowly learning to enter first before providing. I can debate all day about her not finding me attractive. The signs are glaring.

Then there's nothing you can do. End the relationship

SpencerForbes:
No one is talking about moral compass but about psychological factors- a single mom is a lady that has been ditched; what do you think will be her plans
Majority of them plan revenge on their new partners.

Once you marry a single mom, there’s tendency she’s bound to return to her baby daddy if things go south.

Another challenge you might face is; disciplining your child and the other child, any little discipline might be regarded as wickedness and can cause trouble in the family.

There’s also tendency of the child going back to his/her dad. Especially if he’s a boy after all your care.

I can go on and on listing the disadvantages of single mothers. She’ll be emotionally attached to the child than even your child and you- because the child reminds her of her first love and mistake. Remember a woman doesn’t just marry for marriage sake so the child is a constant reminder of her failed expectations and experiences.

Who said the father of said child is her first love? Lol!

Overall, sounds like a poor home.

Why would you care about the child's decision when you already have yours? It would only hurt when you think about the investment as a sacrifice, and that means you are poor.

Disciplining the child? If it's done in a healthy way why would she mind? Or you want to physically and verbally abuse the child? Don't you correct children that aren't related to you? Any problems so far? All you have to do is not show disparity in the way you treat your biological and step children.

What does plan revenge on their new partners even mean? I think most would be grateful to have the support that comes with a good relationship.

When you date any woman or man, there is a 50percent chance they would cheat with someone new or their ex. It's simply common sense. Nothing to do with having children from a previous relationship.

Anyways, goodnight!

SpencerForbes:
Stability, protection, support- emotionally and financially etc.

In modern times? There isn't stability without affluence.

Protection? Lmao. That is the job of security enforcers.

How many women do you defend on a daily basis? And if you have ever done so, it was from your gender. No?

Emotionally support? Ok

Now if we’re to agree most men are broke and unemployed, then don’t you think it is folly for a young broke man to marry a lady with a child and potentially baby daddy issues??

Don’t you think it is unwise to marry a lady that can always switch when their baby daddies become more financially stable than you?

Which takes us back to my earlier comment.

Most men yapping on Nairaland about single mothers can barely afford to feed themselves. That's why they always get frustrated in the relationship. It's that inability to fulfill their expected role.

Again, nothing stated shows that single mothers are morally lacking. It's rather emphasizes the deficiencies of men.

Bendeco02:
So flavor is fairer than wizkid?

You have eye problem ni?

Are you serious?

SpencerForbes:
Marrying a single mom to me is a sign of low self esteem. What happened to all the young girls around?

I don’t think most rich men will agree with you because what does a single mom bring to the table of an established man

I disagree. I think it's a challenge that only the best men win.

The irony of saying an established man... The men creating threads like this come here minutes later with their alternate accounts to spam giveaway threads or ask us to identify the rashes on their you know where

What do most Nigerian men bring to the table when they are mostly unemployed and broke or at best supporting their woman with allowance from their meagre earnings

SpencerForbes:
Some people are not worth advising. Sometimes it’s best to let them get bitten. Once they’ve gotten the experience, they’ll learn.

The crazy part is:: experience is not the always the best teacher but a hard teacher; a wise man once said- experience gives the test first before giving the lesson🤦‍♂️

Most men yapping on Nairaland about single mothers can barely afford to feed themselves. That's why they always get frustrated in the relationship. It's that inability to fulfill their expected role.

Tenrack:
lol I stumbled upon it. why are you trying to blame m n for reckless women who open their legs for every tom dick and harry? Who say make dem get poor sense of judgment?

You are entitled to your decision to not date single mothers. Some people might label it bigotry but not me, I am very biased too!
But it's ridiculous to claim moral superiority over all single mothers. Or say they are 'reckless women'.
When you do that it's probably because you're still hurting. Take the time to heal. Then tell us if you still have this single mother phobia.

Bendeco02:
Go and learn color first before you come to argue

You think being fair is looking like Ramsey Nouah?

You don't know what is fair abeg

Which one is medium?

That's not the definition of fair?

Anyways have a blessed day!

Bendeco02:
Stop deceiving yourself.

You mentioned Burna Boy because you're dark and want to support dark skin.

I did not say that all girls will choose wizzy but majority.

Bad boy is not by muscle but by doings and cordination.

Most bad or play boys that women like are soft looking guys.

Even the dark guys women crush on are the soft looking ones not the gra gra or muscle type.

Even the asake you mentioned, do he look manly?. Person wey be like say na man he dey do

Asake is hawt!