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Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Caseless: It's funny how you lot can tell that I bother him with social media gossip based off one instance that I gave. I don't even care about social media gossip. Besides, is every controversial topic on social media gossip/gist? |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 5:16pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
truthsayer009:I'm not sure he knows who Elon musk is, and I don't watch Big brother. But go off 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 2:41pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
merahki:He talks, way more than me. And he can be a bit extroverted when he's around his guys, they talk alot....but it's never anything deep. That's what I want with him sometimes, the deep stuff. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 2:33pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
RealMrNigerD: cynosuree: I don't want to be too specific, for the sake of anonymity |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 2:32pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Nicklaus619: Lol I see alot of people have been suggesting this, but I have tried. Didn't work |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 2:19pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Atolu01:I don't think that's the problem |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 2:08pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Ariza: for example, I see a controversial post on social media that's been attracting attention. I screenshot and send to him, asks what his opinion is. It doesn't even require too much brain work, just tell me what you think. His typical reply is "It's cool, I guess" So I try to get him to be less vague by asking him to explain what he means. And then he says something like "different strokes for different folks I guess" and then proceeds to ask what I think I tell him, and he agrees with me... Next thing, "wyd" 8 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 10:28am On Jun 07, 2020 |
XXLMANDIGO:Tertiary. Physical attributes at first. |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 10:27am On Jun 07, 2020 |
SVandal: cynosuree: |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 9:42am On Jun 07, 2020 |
XXLMANDIGO:I didn't say I want someone who knows quantum physics. I was only trying to emphasize that I'm not expecting him to be an Einstein, I just want him to be able to engage me in normal conversations. 22 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 9:00am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Oluromantic:Looking for his replacement, or "better options" when I'm still in a relationship 8 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 8:51am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Oluromantic:I wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of this so I wouldn't do it to anyone. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 8:21am On Jun 07, 2020 |
harlos:You don't have to be social to be able to contribute intelligently to a conversation. I'm an introvert, not social at all, and I can contribute to pretty much any topic 71 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 8:01am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff. But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed. He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me. I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much? The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy . I'd like to know what you think 100 Likes 10 Shares |
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