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Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Olayetan(m): 12:17pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree: Op You're stressing yourself, both of you may not have same interest, and why not try and find out what interest him and bring up a conversation on it, maybe he will relate well in that aspect. You can't force what doesn't interest him in his mouth. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by KindleDesigner(f): 12:28pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Too start |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Kokaine(m): 12:30pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Ishilove:Wao... You're advocating for girls. I hope you also see their descriptions of an ideal guy too. Something Nigeria situation hardly permit guys to be. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Egypt209: 12:36pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
I'm very conversant with all the happenings around the world including in-depth analysis of the war in middle east. I'm al-Qaeda specialist when it comes to analysis Trust me, you'll love that one. So my dear inbox me The lukewarm buffoon can go and die for all i cared. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Shuku: 12:37pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
jansonn: It's 'Sylvester Stallone' Sir. Maybe the so-called 'dumb' and 'pretty' girls were not the problem. And you want to chat with a lady that can discuss quantum theory huh? Pls shift jare. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by openmine(m): 12:42pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:True! 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by iBubbler: 12:51pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Cynosuree darling, I totally sympathize with you. Anyone who doesn’t didn't or can not see your use (and command) of English as a pointer to the fact that you are not any man’s average everyday girl. And guess what? I’m totally in a bind on this one. I can’t think of anything, for the life of me, how to deal with this. Perhaps, you could send him a link and jocularly say you want to discuss the issue later that day so he’d do well to read up on it. Else, no prize (whatever he likes). Good luck girl. I feel you deeply. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by iBubbler: 12:52pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Cynosuree darling, I totally sympathize with you. Anyone who doesn’t didn't or can not see your use (and command) of English as a pointer to the fact that you are not any man’s average everyday girl. And guess what? I’m totally in a bind on this one. I can’t think of anything, for the life of me, how to deal with this. Perhaps, you could send him a link and jocularly say you want to discuss the issue later that day so he’d do well to read up on it. Else, no prize (whatever he likes). Good luck girl. I feel you deeply. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by meemee(m): 1:17pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
If someone communicates very well and checks all the right boxes what else do you need again pls. Why don't you just enjoy the guy's company while you are glued to socio political and physio economic analysts doing your thing on the TV. Obviously the guy is not a talker but apparently a doier which explains his excellent grades and those who walk the talk make great life companions because they simply make things happen rather than talk about happening things. So my dear, you better look beyond your superficially created surface before things blow in your face. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree: If you were as smart as you claim, you would have figured out that in a relationship sometimes when two people have different view about life it is sometimes difficult to have meaningful conversation without having an argument this might be because of the difference in age btw you two or ur experience with life .if you like use ur hand to destroy what you have. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by moonraker(m): 1:29pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Small women of nowadays. These are same people that would talk about a niggur being broke.. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Kokaine(m): 1:36pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Egypt209: Funniest post |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Randommikey(m): 2:32pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Try talking to him about things he likes, he might have a problem with paying attention. Don’t talk about what you want to talk about, he might find it uninteresting, ask him what he wants to talk about, tell him to explain something you don’t understand, like sports or stuff that you know he likes. He might be more willing to pay attention to the conversation. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by smiliyB(f): 2:46pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Caseless:Lol, I won't blame the lady, your program get as e be ... thinking loud...how can you be happy with those media news, the only thing I have been hearing for the last two months is covid...the next nah death/rape cases, all those types of news makes me sad, join with our politicians embezzlement. Even though there are few interesting ones like journalist hangout, your view on tvc but I won't lie abeg, bad news plenty pass. Anyway, try other sectors, I'm not saying you shouldn't watch CNN, BBC oo It's even more fun watching movies with someone dear to you...you both can chat with it too. The person will even be drawn to watch news with you and narrate the event as well. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Elmuktari(m): 3:17pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Hey! She just came to tell us she is talkative, pompous and brilliantly stupid ��� |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by kristian98(m): 3:23pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
jansonn:Young man, it's " I am sapiosexual and I am done with these "pretty" girls " |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Markzy1991: 4:17pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
it now got me wondering. how did he manage to toast u naaa aunty? u for gree 4 william shakespear naaa |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by AlexJustin(m): 4:29pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Dear cynosure, not all men are the talking type. perhaps you've not gotten to know his niche. what interest him, what does he love. Try to know his hobby from there know why he's into it. etc you'll surely love him more. you haven't know much about him until the. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 5:16pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
truthsayer009:I'm not sure he knows who Elon musk is, and I don't watch Big brother. But go off 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Krixon: 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Girl I think u are the problem and not him |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by cynosuree: 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Caseless: It's funny how you lot can tell that I bother him with social media gossip based off one instance that I gave. I don't even care about social media gossip. Besides, is every controversial topic on social media gossip/gist? |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Bahddo(m): 5:19pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
jansonn:No be only Sylvester Stallion, na Sylvester Horse. Also, it's I'm or I am, not am Weird that you think it is a sign of intelligence - knowing an actor's real name. You don't know his real name either, so what do we say about you? |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Ndukwe007(m): 5:24pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Yes, my dear that's reality for you. No one has it all. So you have to decide if the other qualities would cover for the others. Try talking to him about it before you take your decision. Compatibility is key,just that people like us know how to adjust our expectation. Maybe you should adjust yours if u really like him. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Bahddo(m): 5:24pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:calm down. If it's a deal breaker for you, then end the relationship. Either way, you're going to hurt him, so do it while he still has a chance to hurt less. Pretty sure there's an Einstein somewhere that you can date. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Caseless: 5:27pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Ishilove:make desert comot ur slippers dia! Pls, the only time I see desert is when I go to Dubai on leisure or fun trip(don't even try to doubt me). Lagos na like my backyard now. I alway come. Instagram geng! Good to know she's fine. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Caseless: 5:35pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
smiliyB:which lady again? Na u nau. Actually, those things u see on tv are the realities - most times, reality is not appealing, so I live with it and it doesn't hurt me anymore. I jst have to use real ways to confront my fear, instead of the fictitious ways. U even watch JH? Then u're my friend |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by smiliyB(f): 6:04pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Caseless:Huh Nah Nah!! Hahahahahahaha I may accept to be your friend but not as gf ooo You're right about the reality part, it's nice you have learn to live with it but for someone like me, I haven't oo I simply avoid it, if not it may interfer with my right frame of mind and I don't want that. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Snipespeter: 6:32pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
RPG2020:Hahahahahahahah |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by macho44(m): 6:33pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:, haba!!! I only quoted ya moniker. Shebi u sef folo for our generation? |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree: What does he discuss with his friends? or does he just say "Yes" "that's right" "Okay", "you are correct" while being with them? I mean, If he his dull, his friends will be dull too. Once you've seen me, you have probably seen 5 of my friends. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Bahddo: LMAOOOO my brother, I come & bow ohhh |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
athaliya: It depends oh, gods get levels. |
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