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myhoodlink:
Dear Lord, please see one of them. May this heart be touched too. Amen!

Too late....

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myhoodlink:
Dear Lord God, please grant victory unto the camp of President Goodluck Jonathan in this election in Jesus name, Amen! Touch the hearts of men (all Nigerians) to vote in his favour. May every hardened heart come to the acceptance of your will to vote for President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan in Jesus name, Amen! Thank You Dear Lord for your victory unto us. Amen!

Too late...

pcguru1:
i use a washing machine it makes no sense to use my hands when machines are more efficient so what's so hard about throwing kandikane's undies into the machine, if washing machine is the reason you're beating women let me know i can send you one, that way i'd feel good knowing i helped a brother out.

Phuck off my mentions abeg.

pcguru1:
i look forward to seeing the day one of you wife beater kills your wife and you end up on Nairaland as a mug shot i can already picture cyril83 in a mug shot if it continues with that way of thinking.

When your type marry the likes of kandikane, i swear you will wash undies

kandiikane:
A potential wife beater giving marriage advice? I have seen it all. Respect goes both ways, arguments and disagreements will crop up, it is a natural part of human companionship, no person in a marriage is above the other. You are both equally humans, not master and slave, no one puts their hands on the other to show dominion, only weak people do that, if you cannot keep your hands to yourself, please go marry a punching bag, atleast it does not speak. Abeg, I am done.



Abeg, go do something beneficial with your life joor! Sitting here dey huff and puff on how you have to be given respect you do not deserve. The only person that needs to grow is you, you still dey there dey suckle on a goat's teat, talking with goat's milk spilling from both ends of your mouth. You earn respect, not demand it.


What are you talking about? Weirdo!

I forsee heavy thick punches on your fat lips.

Pls phuck off my mention.

kandiikane:
A potential wife beater giving marriage advice? I have seen it all. Respect goes both ways, arguments and disagreements will crop up, it is a natural part of human companionship, no person in a marriage is above the other. You are both equally humans, not master and slave, no one puts their hands on the other to show dominion, only weak people do that, if you cannot keep your hands to yourself, please go marry a punching bag, atleast it does not speak. Abeg, I am done.

That's where you get it wrong, the issue of master and slave is not applicable in marriage.

Most ladies need to brush up their ways of reasoning. Are you telling me you can't wash your husband clothes or cook for him.

What's your own definition of master and slave ? You expect your husband to do the cooking whil you do the washing ?

kandiikane:
A wife beater giving marriage advice? I have seen it all. Abeg, I am done.

I caught you there.. Ur expecting more pressure from me, nah! i make a u turn because i was able to understand your type.

Honestly, you need to grow.

kandiikane:
Darling, you do not need to pity my life, it's quite fabulous. The only person beating their chest is you. Talking about how you will hit your wife if she argues with you. Why not beat every woman that argues with you, show them the strong man you are, better still, do it to your fellow men, show them too how strong you are, show them that you are a god. Ofcourse, you won't because you are weak. The only people you will try to "intimidate" are women because you believe they are weak and beneath you. Oga, I know you have never tried it before but the day you try it with someone that does not tolerate such rubbish will be the day you catch a glimpse of your ancestors.

See, don't worry about who will marry me, I am not worried.

If you want a truly fine husband, respect him at the level at which you want him to reach. A man will usually not rise above the level at which his wife respects him.” This is a general principle, not a hard and fast rule because God does not put accountability or responsibility for a man’s character on his wife. Nevertheless, strong evidence indicates a woman holds great power to make or break a man. Behind every great man is a great woman to Behind every great man is an admiring wife. You just have to be behind him not trying to level up or compete with him

Something in a man needs the respect of his wife. He thrives and grows toward godliness when his need is fulfilled. This explains why God emphatically says, "The wife must see to it that she respects her husband"

My dear, you need lot and lot of things to learn before marriage, you need to drop that ego of being equal to task when arguement breaks out and stop listening to beyonce song.

I'm not a bad boy, i only detest marriage because of ladies characters.

I wish you well in all your endeavour.

Stay bless.

OREMUSSANCTUS:
We thank God for safe trip
Dat does not mean he won't cry morrow
Vote transformation
Vote jonathan
As ya vote for jonathan may ya life be fully transformed, Amin

You will either deactivate or register another moniker when your clueless man gets wiped tomorrow

kandiikane:
See you life? You craze ba? Pray you never try to lay your filthy hands on a woman like me.

Chest beater... I pity your life.

You had better remain single all your life because i don't think any human being would tolerate you as a wife.

Nnennavera:
MY husband CAn never do dis for any reason at all #crying#for MY fellow woman.

You should expect the same treatment when you phuck his best friend in his matrimonial room.

pcguru1:
It's a shame and this would be the type to marry soon I pity his wife and daughters heck and son too. We are in a modern age marriage is partnership yes respect is given to husband however competition it depends what you call competition. I don't want a marriage where I tell a babe jump into the river and she does. It's good a wife challenges in you in some areas especially like decision making cuz we men take too risky decisions. If you married a dullard how would you feel knowing you can't get her opinion on anything. I want to believe kids are commenting here. Maybe when you grow up in such home you will see how disgusting domestic violence is. Am referring to cyril

It is dunce like you who beat your wife to the point of death when she downgrades you in public for not being a man enough.

uzolexis:
Nowhere in my posts have I insulted u and u have already decided I need a beat down.... *Domestic Abuser Alert*,ladies beware

Calm down ... I qouted kandikane comment for you to judge my stand on this issue. You never abused me and i don't think you will do.

uzolexis:
what exactly is competing and dragging issues my dear u have 2 deflate that ego of urs if u want 2 get married, ur woman has a right tooo...issues r not meant to be dragged by either partners,they r meant to be discussed by both partners so if u think u r d sole decision maker when u get married then u have no inkling what marriage is about.

It is not ego, it is called respect. You have to accord your husband the respect he deserves, failing to do this will defo leads to broken homes.

Too much of beyonce lyrics is really affecting our ladies.

kandiikane:
I was scrolling down the comments just to see someone spit all over their keyboard to type such rubbish! No one is responsible for actions you take, if a woman stands ground with you and argues either stand ground too and argue or get the phuck out of her way. If a man is an animal then he should go admit himself in a zoo. Even a child that is trained with the rod should not be beaten to such extent, how much more a grown azz adult you say you are married to. Oga, abeg get the phuck out with your justification of marital violence and go lock yourself in a zoo with the husband. Bloody weak azz men!

uzolexis:
what exactly is competing and dragging issues my dear u have 2 deflate that ego of urs if u want 2 get married, ur woman has a right tooo...issues r not meant to be dragged by either partners,they r meant to be discussed by both partners so if u think u r d sole decision maker when u get married then u have no inkling what marriage is about.

Carefully go through her post and tell how a mannerless lady of her type would escape a down y combo from me.

uzolexis:
I'm glad u used the word "partnership" and not dictatorship. Partners work together and have to agree on issues together, no partner has the uppermost right or power over the other...that is exactly what marriage is about and not dictatorship like some men mistake it to be.

And that gives you every right to compete and drag issues with him ?

You need to place your husband where he belongs not denigrating him all in the name of partnership.

Women are just so selfish or self obsessed.

kandiikane:
Please do, an animal has no business in marriage.

You must work on yourself first before looking outwards.

You also have to go back home for training so as to avoid being drilled.

ekiloui:
Kandiikane just spoke the undiluted truth, weak men do not like to hear ladies speak up, they feel they are demi-gods that should simply be bleeped and fed by their wives...I pity the women that marry ur type, They'll be like zombies awaiting your orders. Discipline my foot...u better not turn the poor thing that'll marry u into a slave. I'm sorry for men like u who do not realize that marriage is a partnership not a sole proprietorship

Do ladies of your type understand the word partnership in marriage ? I don't think so. Dragging every issues with your husband will definately result to this, no matter how careful the husband is.

You just have to understand your husband and never compete with him but reverse is the case for some ladies.

kandiikane:
Honestly, look at yourself, i know your kind. Very insecure and the only way to boast your insecurity for a moment is looking forward to the day you can have a weak woman you can control and manipulate to the way you want. I'm sure if the woman breaks a glass you bought in the house you pay for, she will see hell fire on that day. I hope you meet a woman who pretends to be easily control for her to only turn around and show you pepper the day you decide to form big boy in your marriage.

Have a good day.

Honestly, i have decided to remain single because most of the ladies i've met are either mannerless or wayward.

kandiikane:
That's fine I can be called a woman who turns her husband into an errand boy just as long as he not a weak azz man like you.

Are you okay, are you not two different human beings with different personalities clumped together, disagreements and arguments are bound to arise. What are husbands, gods that cannot and should not be argued with?

I guess I picked the right comment because I have found one weak ass man in many who will easily beat up their partners(that's if you even can) just because they stood up to you. You see how insecure and weak you are? Were you not breastfed or shown a mother's love? I bet you saw your daddy constantly pounding on your mum like yam? Not only do you need a zoo but a psychiatrist who will help you with your insecurity and lack of mother's touch.

Keep blabbing. Ladies only cherish a very weak man and detest a disciplined/policy man.

You had better stay out of marriage if you can't control your razor mouth.

kandiikane:
I was scrolling down the comments just to see someone spit all over their keyboard to type such rubbish! No one is responsible for actions you take, if a woman stands ground with you and argues either stand ground too and argue or get the phuck out of her way. If a man is an animal then he should go admit himself in a zoo. Even a child that is trained with the rod should not be beaten to such extent, how much more a grown azz adult you say you are married to. Oga, abeg get the phuck out with your justification of marital violence and go lock yourself in a zoo with the husband. Bloody weak azz men!

You are talking like one of those ladies who turn their husband to an errand boy.

You argue and if you can't argue, you get the phuck out of her way blablabla. My question is, why arguing with your husband in the first place ?

You argue, argue and keep arguing and you expect not to get boxed.

MERS:
Am sorry to say this, buh u need to shut up when issues are beyond your level of reasoning.

A wise woman will never be hurt? Do you know how many peaceful, virtuous women have found the way to early Graves at the hand of stupid beasts wanna be like you?

It is another thing if she attacked the man, buh if you have ever maintained a healthy relationship, you will know that a man who is provoked to the level of inflicting this much damage is a man who has not yet mastered his own self. Real men leave the house rather than beat their wives.

Bros, u need to sit down with a real man somewhere an learn how not to have something like this in your future because your excuses just won't cut it.

Leaving the house all the time makes you a coward before your wife and can possibly result to heart attack someday. Once in a time, something like this needs to pop up so as to save your life.

quivah:
because 4years is a young relationship, the woman should rather stay in such abusive relationship than move away she's too young to die in my opinion.. its left to her to choose between her life or her marriage!


undergoing selves studies with beatings..


your posts on this thread make one shiver..!

Chest beater... If you can't stand the heat, you had better stay out of marriage or better still, be of good conduct.

If you bite off more than you can chew, you take on more responsibilities that you can manage.

Ladies of nowadays are so mannerless and uncouth.

I remain single till thy kingdom come.

nkemdi89:
Control your mouth before you get into trouble why will you say the organisation stinks? Can you prove it? Control your basket mouth.

Nkem ? Are you nkem owoh's daughter ?

Rich kid..... I wish i had pvssy.

sCun:
I can now see why you support Buhari.
You beileve ''GMB never spoken'' is correct grammar.

Mama peace pikin, you need to work on your English.

DSS stinks.

It would be better for Dss director and marlyn ogar the PRO to resign honorably immediately GMB gets to power so as to save their ass from being dismiss with no pay.

sCun:
Yeah, ''GMB never spoken'' is really correct grammar.

Atleast you've just learnt a new word from a progressive... Are you still voting for Gej ?

sCun:
He read a speech written by someone else , he knows nothing about the content of that speech just as he knows nothing about APC's manifesto.
Yes, Buhari never spoke for more than 2 minutes at any rally.

You are indeed a scun, besides why did you highlight my post ? Are you saying i never used the word "spoken" correctly ?

sCun:
He read a written speech in Chatham house.
He never spoke for more than 2 minutes at any rally in any state.

Reading a prepared speech should be called what ? Murmuring ?

You must be a chadian to say GMB never spoken for 2 minutes at any rally.

sCun:
Who dash Buhari manifesto? I bet he cannot state a single line of that manifesto. Have you heard him speak for more than 2 minutes at any rally?
Allow him do so and watch him say things that are contrary to what is contained in the fake manifesto.

He spoke for good 2 hours at the chatham house in the UK and also spoke for 1 hour at each rally in 36 states.

A cripple soldier is more stronger than able civilian.