borntosave:
Sad

cyril83:


You are talking like one of those ladies who turn their husband to errand boy.

You argue and if you can't argue, you get the phuck out of her way blablabla. My question is, why arguing with your husband in the first place ?

You argue, argue and keep arguing and you expect not to get boxed.

ayusco85:
Praise the Lord!!! am a year older today. Happy birthday to me.


Pls like this post to wish me happy birthday.

#OneLove

quivah:
l[b]et women act like women.. calm and collected
and men act like men .. strong and protective[/b]


domestic violence will be on the low side...
women don't be market women and not expect to hang with touts!! we are all humans, talk like one

men don't be touts and not expect to hang with market women!

it takes two to make a relationship work...

I know there are some exceptional cases where the man hits his wife at the slightest excuse tho.. but most domestic violence root from one party acting crazy initially while the other (after several cooling off) turns back in full force.. in this case let all party the blamed and advised! it takes two to work.. you can't act like a beast towards your partner and except him/her to always turn back to you as an Angel..in truth, he/she might an angel but your constant beastly acts had rub off on him/her, and he/she returns a little taste of your act to you.. the sad part tho: he/she releases the venom in 7folds..

third law of newton; to every action, there's equal and opposite reaction!


I don't support domestic violence of any sort...!!!! at the same time, I will ensure i act as humanly as possible.. and not cry wolf I got slapped after I night have tongue lashed or even slapped a man.. that's hypocrisy!.

let teach both men and women to cool off!! stop the double standards!

@op its really a terrible case.... if she wants to leave, I will advise her to .. no one deserves that.. equally no one deserves any kinda abuse!! make or female

quivah:
l[b] let women act like women.. calm and collected
and men act like men .. strong and protective[/b]


domestic violence will be on the low side...
women don't be market women and not expect to hang with touts!! we are all humans, talk like one

men don't be touts and not expect to hang with market women!

it takes two to make a relationship work...

I know there are some exceptional cases where the man hits his wife at the slightest excuse tho.. but most domestic violence root from one party acting crazy initially while the other (after several cooling off) turns back in full force.. in this case let all party the blamed and advised! it takes two to work.. you can't act like a beast towards your partner and except him/her to always turn back to you as an Angel..in truth, he/she might an angel but your constant beastly acts had rub off on him/her, and he/she returns a little taste of your act to you.. the sad part tho: he/she releases the venom in 7folds..

third law of newton; to every action, there's equal and opposite reaction!


I don't support domestic violence of any sort...!!!! at the same time, I will ensure i act as humanly as possible.. and not cry wolf I got slapped after I night have tongue lashed or even slapped a man.. that's hypocrisy!.

let teach both men and women to cool off!! stop the double standards!

@op its really a terrible case.... if she wants to leave, I will advise her to .. no one deserves that.. equally no one deserves any kinda abuse!! make or female

LekinsRibirth:
That woman must have done something despicable to warrant such beating. Maybe she was trying to hold ground with the man as what most women would do.
If you can't fight don't run your mouth! No man would beat his wife if she doesn't do something wrong. You know your husband is an animal yet you'll keep on exchanging words with him.
Sorry!

quivah:

because 4years is a young relationship, the woman should rather stay in such abusive relationship than move away she's too young to die in my opinion.. its left to her to choose between her life or her marriage!


undergoing selves studies with beatings..


your posts on this thread make one shiver..!

pinkycute:
Ooh dear lord....
What is our men of this days, are turning into
Hmmmmmm
Am kind of scared now...

kandiikane:


That's fine I can be called a woman who turns her husband into an errand boy just as long as he not a weak azz man like you.

Are you okay, are you not two different human beings with different personalities clumped together, disagreements and arguments are bound to arise. What are husbands, gods that cannot and should not be argued with?

I guess I picked the right comment because I have found one weak ass man in many who will easily beat up their partners(that's if you even can) just because they stood up to you. You see how insecure and weak you are? Were you not breastfed or shown a mother's love? I bet you saw your daddy constantly pounding on your mum like yam? Not only do you need a zoo but a psychiatrist who will help you with your insecurity and lack of mother's touch.

Sirniyeh:
What did she do? She reaps the fruit of her infidelity! Never judge by the injury, she could be the type that deserves it.

What of if she was the first to attack the man? Judge not


Most of these beatings are usually have women to be blamed. Before it degenerated to such level, she needs to be queried.

A wise woman will never be hurt by her husband but a stubborn one.

Sirniyeh:


When she divorces and take a leave, to where? Infact, it's a childish advice. Taking a leave will expose her to promiscuity and may end up in another man's hand that will be more brutal than the former.

Solution: they have differences and they try to be submissive to each other's opinion.

I against abuse of women, but hun un un un I bounced on her just once in 14yrs of marriage. Eventually I was justified because women sometimes command the act.

I married a very tough lady, iron woman. A year after marriage she attempted to stab me inspite of claiming a born again woman. Today she is as gentle as a dove, all by wisdom. She is best of my life. If I had divorced her, I could have crippled my marriage

Divorce is not solution. Because most women need to be talk to

Fhemmmy:


You are mean oh

andyanders:
Why is she complaining? Why stay in an abusive relationship for that long unless the fault is from her and no man except the man wants her.

She has a daughter and can walk out from the relationship. It will be easier for her to get married again than with a male child.

cyril83:


Keep blabbing. Ladies only cherish a very weak man and detest a disciplined/policy man.

You had better stay out of marriage if you can't control your razor mouth.

cyril83:


Keep blabbing. Ladies only cherish a very weak man and detest a disciplined/policy man.

You had better stay out of marriage if you can't control your razor mouth.

kandiikane:


Honestly, look at yourself, i know your kind. Very insecure and the only way to boast your insecurity for a moment is looking forward to the day you can have a weak woman you can control and manipulate to the way you want. I'm sure if the woman breaks a glass you bought in the house you pay for, she will see hell fire on that day. I hope you meet a woman who pretends to be easily control for her to only turn around and show you pepper the day you decide to form big boy in your marriage.

Have a good day.

uzolexis:


shatap dia my frnd,there is absolutely no justification for this barbaric act. who told u some men need reasons to beat their wives eh don't mk me vex or else, wise woman ko, foo..lish man ni

I am usually well behaved on NL but when it comes to domestic violence, whether from a man or woman, I loose my cool.......so no vex

Coldfeet:
You come off like someone from an abusive home? No insult intended.
If women should go by your advice of not running their mouth coz their husband is an animal, how about the man controling the animal in him when he knows he married a woman who likes to run her mouth?

Sincerely there's no justification whatsoever for a man to do this to a woman mouth running or not!

My mum runs her mouth a lot! And no single day did my dad raise a finger to her!
When she starts he walks away.

No matter the provocation a man should never hit a woman.

cyril83:


Honestly, i have decided to remain single because most ladies i've met are either mannerless or wayward.

ekiloui:


Kandiikane just spoke the undiluted truth, weak men do not like to hear ladies speak up, they feel they are demi-gods that should simply be bleeped and fed by their wives...I pity the women that marry ur type, They'll be like zombies awaiting your orders. Discipline my foot...u better not turn the poor thing that'll marry u into a slave. I'm sorry for men like u who do not realize that marriage is a partnership not a sole proprietorship

Cutehector:
dnt be scared. D lord will bless u wit a good husband

kandiikane:


Please do, an animal has no business in marriage.

You must work on yourself first before looking outwards.

Sirniyeh:


Na so e dey start! Loosing your cool on nairaland. That mean you can do more than before your husband. You don't understand beyond that. I rest my case with you