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laudate:
Another shallow epistle from a person who has not thought outside the box. You think simply leaving this country is the key to success? Go abroad and see how many Nigerians are still living from hand to mouth with nothing to show for it, because they have mortgaged their future to the system over there. Many of them cannot even come home, because after many years abroad they have nothing to show for it. Do you know the number of Nigerian graduates with Masters' degrees driving taxi cabs, in New York? Others have taken to crime and illegal means to make money, out of desperation. While quite a good number have had to marry foreigners of low repute, just to obtain a residence permit. At the end of the day, those foreigners show them pepper and they can't do jack, because they lack the means to move.

Oga, think deeply before you fall into the trap of thinking 'going abroad' is a trip to paradise, and you end up making such mistakes. For you to say NYSC is a waste of time, shows that you do not even understand what NYSC is all about. A number of my colleagues made use of their NYSC period to engage in small-scale businesses or learn new skills at their place of primary assignment, which ended up fetching them good money. I had a friend who finished from UNILAG and was posted to Warri. The guy got curious about kerosense business, made friends who taught him all he needed to know and got connected to people at the depot. At the end of his NYSC year, he made enough money to buy a small car.

Only fools think that education is over-rated. Ask Buhari about the insults he received during elections and till date, because of his lack of an education. Education is a stepping stone, a periscope that broadens your horizon, and a tool that enables you to move from where you are, to where you want to be. At the very least, it gives you a professional identity, so that the public does not see you as a nonentity. It validates the little you have learnt. But it is not the final prize that puts food on your table. You still have to do more after getting an education, in order to become successful. And this is where people miss it. They think an educational certificate will automatically get them a job, without realising it is just one of the tools that shows them how to acquire skills that help them get ahead, or create a job.

There are so many little things you can do to keep body and soul together, pending when you get a good job. Think outside the box, study hard and network. Learn from entrepreneurs and visit small-scale industries for ideas. Above all, pray to God to send you divine help and inspiration. With God on your side, you will surely make a difference.

Omohjick:
I swear for real...I can only date Igbo or Hausa for der money n not for marriage anywaz

LecciGucci:
Lol it seems u want to help give ur topic more comments ..dats what i noticed
And i think i hav done a great job on that.

U thank me later if u wish... bu_bye

LecciGucci:
U SUPRISED ME OO
Obiviously im chattinf with a hypocite..
Bcoz i went back to the topic as u keep repeating it.
And i discorverd u are the one who started the fight .
The other guy said ibo girls are know to marry from their tribe which is his own point of view... but u started saying all stuff ..Saying ibos hav inferiority complex..
That was where the fight started from my observation. anyways byee

lushrolake:
I can tell from all your replies you have no regards for elders and even your parents.Its a character trait in most of you but I find it funny you are claiming the victim when you started the fued. Such hypocrisy!

lushrolake:
I can tell from all your replies you have no regards for elders and even your parents.Its a character trait in most of you but I find it funny you are claiming the victim when you started the fued. Such hypocrisy!

lushrolake:
If your confused always ask. Your insecure brother wrote of yorubas being dirty first and I quoted him to share my experience with your dirty sisters I see no wrong in that oh and who doesn't knw ibos are loudmouthed anyway how else you think you got the name chestbeaters?
You are yet to tell me something tho if you aren't ridden with inferiority complex why did you open a thread that says 'question for yoruba ladies' (when your neither yoruba nor a lady) only to mention ibo girls?Your looking really silly right now.

lushrolake:
Ugly afonja actresses? Dude please!Bleaching is a sign of insecurity but you think they do it to look like igbos then think again why would they want to look like a bunch of average looking muscular women lmao I asked you to show me a pretty igbo woman but your inability to come up with any shows they are more scarce than kenyan blondes. You didn't stoop low to argue you asked for it when your low self esteem made you strike a comparison on a neutral thread.
I said it before and am saying it again genevieve is the only somewhat good looking igbo woman you can boast of. Av given you comparison links vent your frustration there not on my thread pls.

lushrolake:
Stop hyping what is not most igbo babes are average in looks and its common knowledge that men will sleep with any girl that cheapens herself before them talk more of a sex worker it doesnt mean they find them pretty no offense rather say men go for these sex workers because of the light skin supremacy believe that is more believable than what your claiming.
That been said theres no excuse for promiscuity.

majour:
Try and reason before u type, sex workers and married women acting like sex workers aren't in the same realm of reasoning, Igbo girls are sex workers as u said because they are beautiful and they take advantage of ur weak desires to be with a beautiful woman, it still shows that they are beautifully endowed, but for a woman who isn't married to have so proudly the qualities of a sex worker, that there my brother is a big problem, I can give u numbers of some married Yoruba women here that are free agents for young men with money, am talking Abt women with kids, so calm down u hear

lushrolake:
They keep making up baseless things in their heads the other day I wrote about my experience with dirty igbo ladies and one guy was vexing.They keep accusing people of habits that are rampant in their own tribe.Very ironic.

majour:
Won't date a Yoruba girl cus majority of them are dirty with poor hygiene, especially down there. Plus they can't cook, they only prepare palm oil food and am not all into that. I schooled in kwara, served in ekiti, grew up in Lagos and working in Ibadan, so I can beat my chest and say I've seen these things reoccurring a lot. As for beauty, let's not even go there.

Most Yoruba women love to cheat on their husbands too or boyfriends, they like promiscuous things a lot, maybe its a genetic trait

sweetestjane:
They do op, I have a Yoruba friend who is married to an Edo man. I think those that don't or hardly marry outsiders are the Igbo ladies.

lushrolake:
Bro u jez killed them they wont come back to this thread

lushrolake:
Trying not to feel inferior describes you but unfortunately you are inferior.Show us a pretty igbo lady here I provided a thread so people to save you the stress of frantically searching google but your the deluded one. What's with igbos and inferiority complex tho?

lushrolake:
No your parents lied to you when they claimed your tribe is beautiful. Ofc Igbo women will pop up cause y'all insecurity drives you to the web to promote your average looking Igbo women and in those search results am sure you never read people disputing your claims. Ha!Another 'punchline' is always the age factor bruh please.
@luminouz is true na thread title says 'question for yoruba ladies' and they opened to start talking nonsense who asked them?
@Aderola15 you so right yoruba demons forever.

www.nairaland.com/3412760/pictures-prove-sw-ladies-more/4#50348998 is a thread comparing them I noticed your ibo brothers fled when they couldnt take the heat

See real beauties here www.nairaland.com/3485183/fulani-yoruba and igbos carried their insecurity here too

lushrolake:
Hehehehehe. Igbos have always been insecure which is why you see them comparing themselves with yorubas to try to look legit.
The white men couln't keep their hands off igbo women indeed again insecurity is making you pull out assumptions from under your feet. Bitter truth remains that for every pretty igbo woman there are a thousand prettier yoruba women and please I knw you igbos only defense is 'you dont travel around' when your been defeated.Igbo women are light skinned no one is disputing that but equating that to beauty reeks of immaturity.Show me an igbo woman who looks at least okish without makeup and I will show you a real beauty and dont even mention genevieve who is obviously the only ok one among you.
Finally no pretty yoruba girl is termed 'pmo igbo' only the light skinned ones are again stop pulling out 'facts' from your anus.
You are just a bunch of insecure people which is why you opened a 'question for yoruba ladies' thread and had to mention igbo girls when there was nothing about them here.

lushrolake:
I laugh when people call yorubas ugly do you even know who Yorubas are? 'D I've seen a thread here comparing the three major tribes you can search for it. I will have posted the link here so everyone can decide which tribe is ugly but some people will feel bad so let me not.
I find it funny you call yorubas tribalistic because we are undoubtedly the most accommodating in naija ask anyone outside nairaland this question. I personally dont have a reason in particular for not dating non-yoruba I dont even notice it but this question made me realize that's why I asked here.

lushrolake:
Igbo girls are known to be more open to marrying outside their tribe you will hardly see a yoruba girl do such.#fact
Why are you igbos suffering from inferiority I can see you desperately trying to promote your women but I suggest you open a seperate thread for that.Yoruba women have always been pretty I don't even need to stoop so low to start a competition here but if it makes you feel good keep promoting your women on every thread.

lushrolake:
Last year someone asked me 'why do yoruba girls never marry outside their tribe' I was speechless because the question was strange. I never gave this a thought prior to this discussion even though my girlfriends have been confronted with similar questions. I asked 'why' and the dude who is obviously not yoruba said because his friends are always turned down by girls they love.
On wednesday I was in the midst of my friends when the same question was asked by a colleague. We all started laughing because we had gotten tired of the question and had no answer to it but then one of our guy friends jokingly said 'they are too pretty to marry outsiders so they only go for yoruba demons'. My question is this.....ladies do you also get asked this? And what are your reasons for saying no to non-yoruba boys?

Jodha:
I get your point... But there's a way you'll turn things around and make her your friend... Not rejecting her...

Girls are to be loved not to be turned down

DeepFriedPuff:
[color=deepskyblue]But why will u dudes wanna see a vagina its not even visually appealing. Not pretty [/color]

Alondra:
Falling in Love is not a decision but staying in love is a decision.