Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 11:16am On May 16, 2016 |
Allegation is not guilt, But when the accused 1) apologised 2) provided no other explanation 3) Didn't deny 4) knows that it wasn't the first allegation 5) uses an unpopular father-daughter representation to ease his victims Biko, leave me alone. You are impossible  . You will have a daughter one day. Till then....... joseph1832: LOL. When did allegation translate to guilt? Please check the meaning of allegation, then come back, better still, don't come back. |
Romance › Re: Dedicate A Song To The One You Love Or Have A Crush On(season 2) by D2diff: 11:03am On May 16, 2016 |
Please don't mention me. I am not worthy of it  pinceprinz: Dedicates 'crazy in love' by Eminem to Daretodiffer |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 10:49am On May 16, 2016 |
1)She claimed he did something 2)He did not defend himself 3) He apilogised after the allegation and not before. I am not surprised sha, no be you  Goodbye! joseph1832: Did he say what he apologize for or who he apologize to? |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 9:04am On May 16, 2016 |
You need to read the content and not the title  Sexual harassment is not rape. These allegations do not acuse him of rape. Sexual harassment is not sex. It means unwelcome or inappropriate conduct of sexual nature or the promise of something for sexual favors, it also includes intimidation or coercion of sexaul nature. When he forcefully kissed the lady without taking responsibility and also threatening her if she disclosed it, he has succeeded in sexually harassing her!!! Next time pay attention to the terminologies. I know it can be confusing. This is what the poor investigation is all about. Those girls are not claiming rape, they are claiming harassment. joseph1832: What do you understand by 'sexual harassment?' And when did having consensual sex translate to sexual harassment?
Here you're talking about using ones brains? Mtcheeew. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:45am On May 16, 2016 |
Darling, why did the man apologised? Have you read the first allegation? joseph1832: What do you understand by 'sexual harassment?' And when did having consensual sex translate to sexual harassment?
Here you're talking about using ones brains? Mtcheeew. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:36am On May 16, 2016 |
Please sharrap if you cannot use your brain Have you read the allegation that brought this to the open? He cannot be guilty of having consensual sexual relations but he would be guilty of sexual harassment which is exactly what this is all about. joseph1832: Please keep mute and use your brain to reason for once in your e-life. He called them daughter, so? The question is: did he rape them? He had sexual relations with them, and they were of legal age. Plain and simple.
The ones who were below 18 can sue him, and yea, he is guilty for having sexual relations with them, but what I don't understand is the sentiment people like you attach to this.
Someone calls you daughter, and the person is not your father, and he had sex with you, which you agreed to, what's the crime or harm there? Did he rape you, no!!! |
Politics › Re: Withdraw Your Threat, Ijaw Group Tells Oodua Defenders Union by D2diff: 8:26am On May 16, 2016 |
I am tired of all these stvpid groups. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:23am On May 16, 2016 |
It is not appropriate if it is accompanied by forceful contact, intimidation and blackmail. How would you feel if a man act really nice to your daughter then ask her to call him father, then touches her/forcefully kiss her  ? How would you feel if he intimidated and blackmailed her when she accused him?  When you want to exonerate a pervert, remember you are going to have a daughter. However I am not surprised, no be you  joseph1832: I still fail to understand why this poet is being accused? I mean, when did it become a crime that someone in his 50's have sexual relations with a girl who is in her 20's. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:18am On May 16, 2016 |
I am not bro and I am not mistaken  If you are a paediphile, admit that you are a paediphile. Menstruation is not a sign of maturity or sign of readiness for marriage. Stop thinking for Muslim women if you have never been one. I am a Muslim woman and I know that child marriage is abhorrent. Early marriage it is and that is if and only if the person is ready! Early marriage is enjoned to prevent zina. It is not a sin to wait if you can! kunta2simple: You mistaken bro. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:09am On May 16, 2016 |
You misunderstand Islam. Islam cannot condone a relationship that would harm either sex. Therefore there is no advantages to child marriage. Islam encourages early marriage especially for people who might commit zina. It is early marriage not child marriage! kunta2simple: Mumu, but they are being forced to sexual intimacy. Resulting to unwanted pregnancy just like the case of the akwa ibom girl yesterday. Too much moral decadence in you guys that you now find forced sex, prostitution more worthy than marriage. African tradition before the missionary set in. Once a lady have her first menses, she's made to have the next in her husband house. This move prevented cases such as: Unwanted pregnancy Abortion Rape Old age marriage Prostitution But what do we have now, increasing cases of the aforementioned. And take it or leave it, cases like the aforementioned is at a minimal In Muslim dominated societies. |
Literature › Re: Nigeria: Report Indicts Nigerian Poet For Molesting 19 'daughters' by D2diff: 8:05am On May 16, 2016 |
I wonder why we haven't heard any thing about other great poets? If you bothered to read the first allegation you wouldn't have typed like a fo*** This man uses the same line. He wants them to call him father while they act like his daughters. The allegations does not disprove the fact that men also get a sexually harassed or molested, that is not the case here. Focus on the issue at hand and stop getting enotional  KissCODE: When a girl crushs on u. She finally seduced u to playwith her. If she discovered that u wont her as side chick after, she will rush out to claim molestation.
The worst thing about this is that even when a man is forced into sex. When a man is raped... It is no case.
We are being molested everyday. But no one will hear us out. Our sin is that we re born as men. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 8:00am On May 16, 2016 |
I am sorry I hurt you  greatman247: Tell that to the birds. I can tell the tin pain u well well but there's nothing I honestly can do about it. Stories for the gods. U too dull, a condemned soul. |
Politics › Re: How I Converted To Islam - Olufunsho Amosun by D2diff: 7:51pm On May 15, 2016 |
Use your brain! What does refusal have to with terrorism? In case your common sense cannot tell you, religion is a very sensitive matter for most practising adherents.- southpole: I really understand what you are going through, however I will not also blame her mother because if I were in her shoe I will behave the same, seeing what is happening in the whole world from Africa to Europe to Asia in the name of Islam every none Muslim should be afraid to give his or her daughter in marriage to a Muslim. |
Politics › Re: How I Converted To Islam - Olufunsho Amosun by D2diff: 7:33pm On May 15, 2016 |
It is not allowed in Islam! Ibrahimmrfish: He'll yes.It's 100percent acceptable in Islam. |
Politics › Re: How I Converted To Islam - Olufunsho Amosun by D2diff: 7:31pm On May 15, 2016 |
It happens! Learn to use your brain next time. Are Icecomrade:
Money talks
Am still waiting for one Imam to endorse his daughter to a Christian without disowning her
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Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 12:41pm On May 15, 2016*. Modified: 1:00pm On May 15, 2016 |
Whether tomato is less attractive or not is not the issue. The issue is why is that this time every year, tomato is always scarce and expensive? If it is less attractive, why is that we often have abundance and cheaper tomatoes earlier and later in the year? Earlier this year, around Feb I think, I know of a basket the small ONE THAT WAS BOUGHT FOR N300. During this period, a paint plastic usually goes for N4500 but now it is about N7000 due to the economy. Therefore can you explain why it is so? ...........this is what I asked earlier. I would have addressed the other part of your argument but i do not understand it. Can you please rephrase and edit it? On yam, there is a period when it is very expensive, bitter and scarce so what exactly is your argument. Harvesthomes: You still dont understand my point.Tomato is economically and less attractive for serious farmers...why do you have an over-abundance of yam compared with tomato answer me ? You think the Northern people don't calculate income before they start cultivating or that they cultivate to help the nation...lol make i laff,by the way if your thesis is accurate which i find fault in dry season is better for planting than wet season if the irrigation system is in place which is another topic i drew an irrigation system for a 10 acres farm and the money for irrigation alone mopped out 5years of profit,i'm working on how to cheapen this...so as i was saying dry season many pathogens are ineffective which if irrigation had been in place would have fantastic for farming..i think PERMACULTURE is the recommendation in this sense |
Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 12:27pm On May 15, 2016 |
Okay. My question is very straightforward. Please answer Why is it that around this time every year we experience scarcity? Please focus on 'around this time every year'  . Harvesthomes: @D2diff i'm a Biotechnologist/Geneticist Food Biotechnology is my field as well as Agriculture in the broadstream Now Let me break it down,you can wikipedia this info Nigeria is among the top 3 largest producer of crops like groundnut in the world....But why Groundnut and not tomato..answer...money...which is why i gave solution give grants for certain crops to be planted..why the tomato farmer goes through stress before he even gets tomato and runs high risk of spoilage The soyabeans Maize Groundnut farmer can plant extract oil and first sell as Vegetable oil..sine the oil is removed the remnant isn't prone to quick spoilage and is still sold as feed for animals..so double money...less monitoring..i still spoke with the guy to help me manage a 10 acres i'm planning on and we both agreed on this..He chose to monitor for me crops that needs less supervision because the more the supervision the more i had to pay if i was paying 50,000 per acre for just supervision and a crop like tomato needs morre supervision he charges me 75,000 per acre...now times this figure to like ordinary 10 acres and see the difference,i did my research on India Government had to intervene and do this through aggregate distribution and it works.South Korea adopted this model for Rice and used for other crops.It's just copy and paste..but can one copy and paste unless he first of all reads....READING is the problem.people don't read.. |
Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 12:20pm On May 15, 2016 |
SW also produce tomatoes. It might not be as high as the North. Also, the species are different. I I know this because there are periods where you will mostly find SW tomatoes in the market and there are periods where the common and affordable tomatoes are from the North. Whatever is happening is more than what is affecting the North. I think it has more to do with the season or something in this season that affects tomatoes in general. MrTruth4real: Virus affected tomatoes farm in the North and its affecting the whole country. The solution is simple other region like se, ss, sw should go into farming. Farming shouldn't be a north thing alone. Also solar energy and other source of clean energy should be utilize to produce power for these farms. |
Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 12:14pm On May 15, 2016 |
I understand you but it your solution is not addressing the problem. We have periods where tomato is very cheap and abundant. The question is why is that around this time every year tomato becomes scarce and expensive? Do you have any proof that it is because of low production? If yes, why do farmers decide not to produce for this period? I am not saying the solutions you have given are not on point in fact I think they are a bit too much -Loans+grants+contracts for specialised farmers is all we need. Lands in the outskirts of most cities/towns are extremely cheap. This should be applicable to most agricultural produce. I know this because we used to have a small garden of tomatoes, scotch bonnet, ewedu, African spinach, bitter leaf and okra. This is a seasonal issue. Your solution shhould be tailored along that line. What can we do to make our tomatoes plants productive during this period? So far, it seems our tomatoes are seasonal. Harvesthomes: @D2diff i diidn't mention most homes.Don't misquote me.I meant i saw houses.whether it's a few or not..how many urban dwellers even outside Lagos incorporate farming into their live routine ? I already gave clear strategies please re-visit my submissions.
1. State govts can give grants to specific farmers
2. Taxes can be reduced so house incorporate farming into dwelling
3. A model for the system has to be developed,i mentioned example when 10,000houses plant 1000naira worth to an economical figure of 10m worth of tomatoes alone
4. Cheap lands can be given to this purpose alone and it can be incorporated as a post-service course
5. Govt can build seed storage facilities so seeds can be distributed with ease.
6. A marketing/logistics system can be employed by the govt where govt injects production and markets thru market/govt framework without govt thwarting the present distribution system in order to force farmers to sell them to end users rather than processing companies.
7. Availability of cheap perishable systems so rural farmers can take a week to distribute without fear of spoilage.
8. Tv and radio broadcast to sensitize the people( Rather than fight that young IPOB fighter doing this would yield results and praise for this guy's govt rather than engagin in too many battles which would suck up too much attention,same goes to all state govts).
9. State institutionalize production centers and granted to local govts to over watch them,the truth is any scarce commodity can have a market built around it with competitiveness and productivity rewarded for a country that doesn't reward productivity thru competitiveness why should anything work ?
I'm out of here your politicians are not in my league... |
Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 11:48am On May 15, 2016 |
I doubt that is the primary reason. We only experience this type of scarcity at this time of the year. How would you explain that? Your explanation does not explain it at all. Most homes in US do not plant tomatoes, I believe. maybe the pictures you saw are farmhouses. Harvesthomes: @D2diff the tomato we are presently consuming up to yams are product on IITA research,the normal Northern tomato has been done away with in commercial volumes in a long time,the issue is this Govts abroad gives subsidies and grants for certain foods to be planted so farmers themselves can diversity Tomato is troublesome because of tomato worms and pathogens that destroys the crop a normal farmer can plant maize for example leave it and walk away without the montioring tomato deserves we need the templates used in foreign country if you plant certain crops get grants or if u want to plant u get govt approved lands for farming so we need catchment areas for planting just tomatoes and each house can cultivate.I'm ashamed seeing pictures of farms in USA where each house owns a tomato farm at the backyard do you know what it means if 10000houses produces tomatoes of 1000naira which in terms of economic and monetary value ? it means this 10,000houses produces 10,000,000naira worth of tomatoes and can get tournament rate and taxies reduced in exchange..simple..Politicains dont think and wont employ active minds like ours to help them out...im out |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Nigerian And Ghanian Churches May Soon Be In The Shoes Of Turkey by D2diff: 11:37am On May 15, 2016 |
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Agriculture › Re: Opinion: Immediate Solution To Tomato Scarcity by D2diff: 11:32am On May 15, 2016 |
This happens every year because the present economy, it is worse. Tomato is always expensive in April/May. Our Government should have sat down organisations like IITA to develop a specie that would be resistant to pest/weather (whichever is the cause of this scarcity year in year out) |
Politics › Re: FG Releases N350b For Capital Projects: See The Breakdown by D2diff: 8:54am On May 15, 2016 |
Shouldn't it be about needs? Ariani: Imagine only a meagre sum of 18.5 billion will be spent on roads passing through SE SW has 53billion to be spent on roads passing through the zone.
This is serious.
When Nnamdi Kanu speak the truth on the things going on in this geographical contraption, some naive Igbos will be too blind to see.
Anioma only got 2billion. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 11:04pm On May 14, 2016 |
1) It seems like I touched a nerve there. You can't rape anyone yet you believe that her indecent dressing makes her rape allegation untrue, even a baby can tell you how stvpid you sounded, not to mention a charge and bail lawyer  . If you need the law or a lawyer to show how retarded your argument was, I weep for your seeds. If she said no and there was penetration, it does not matter whether or not she was naked. It is rape. You need to pay me for that free lesson. 2) This issue is not about defending her. You insulted those who would defend her and I told you that I WOULD IF I WERE QUALIFIED. You don't need a PhD in English language to understand this Na  I can't make you smart. You are already condemned boy! I am not a lawyer. I am not qualified neither am I practicing.  greatman247: Maybe your sister is an Olosho cos I don't even have a sister to start with. Olosho is human na, not condemning anyone, I value all human beings and I'll never rape nor rob. But endeavour to be a practising lawyer before you come and talk on a public forum like dis. We already know ur type. Maybe a charge and bail lawyer. |
Politics › Re: FG: N6 Billion Oyo Ogbomosho Road Approved. by D2diff: 7:07pm On May 14, 2016 |
Oweniwe, this is an example of good representation.  I am in love with this woman  . She is the type of leader we should be voting for. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 5:59pm On May 14, 2016*. Modified: 6:38pm On May 14, 2016 |
She says no to you. You can see the fear in her eyes yet you held onto her forcefully and went on to penetrate with her....you still think it is not rape because she is a prostitute. Is that how you have sex with a willingly partner?  greatman247: What stops u from being qualified? Go ahead and fight for her. How does that sound? Its ur choice, take it. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 5:53pm On May 14, 2016 |
I am not yet a practicing lawyer To think you can yan sef, what makes you think your sister is not an olosho  . greatman247: What stops u from being qualified? Go ahead and fight for her. How does that sound? Its ur choice, take it. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 5:46pm On May 14, 2016 |
A prostitute can be raped  . It is like asking how can a worker scream unpaid salaries? You are part of the reason the guy raped her. He believed that people will not believe a video vixen and that is exactly what is happening. Rape is lack of consent. If anyone says I don't want to have sex with you or I do not want this type of sexual conduct but you decide to continue with it...you are a rapist! It is disrespect because you think so. She doesn't think so. So savethe disrespect nonsense for your self  . It is not the crux of the matter  . This is rape not indecent dressing. Most of you screaming like demons have sisters that are confam runs girls. You will come on Nairaland and be making mouth like hypocrites.  Left to me, I WILL KILL HIM when it becomes cold  . greatman247: And you won't get any help as she didn't in this case too. How can anyone be on the side of someone who disrespected her body in public in that manner? Its like a prostitute screaming someone rapes her. How will anyone take her serious? But when you get a decent job and get a decent life style all together if u scream rape, a lot of people will come to your defense. Abeg let he deal with her issue her way. She should try to call police instead of social networking website like this. Don't wash your dirty linen in public. That's another disrespect on herself, by coming to public like this. A lot of people see her face already and stuff. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 5:11pm On May 14, 2016 |
She called on the police but they couldnt be bothered to pursue it. If the same thing happened to me in Nigeria and I happen to be helpless, I would do exactly the same thing. holywota: Am talking about she using her brain,so if same happens to you u ll come 4help on fb,nl or twitter abi,sister ur on your own. |
Crime › Re: Enigma Laduchess: "AliBaba's Cousin Raped Me" by D2diff: 4:41pm On May 14, 2016 |
Why are you so hung up nudity? She is a human being who doesn't care much about nudity. Just because you can't get it out of your head doesn't mean the sh.it. This is about rape not nudity. You need to separate the two. Not everyone is sanctimonious as you are. Personally, I believe in a decent dressing however it does not mean that I do not understand that other people don't care much. Please learn to separate sentiments from facts. holywota: she claim she was assulted and the only resonable thing she could do was to post her nude pics on twitter in the name of prove ,no reports to the police or any humanright group who would have asked for proves,i don't want to sound harsh but man she just raped her self the second time unknownly at least we now know how her bums and boobs look. |
Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Wife Beater To Change? by D2diff: 4:35pm On May 14, 2016 |
Domestic abuse is not a case of conflict  |
Celebrities › Re: Uju Stella: "I Am Pregnant For Burna Boy" - Lady Claims by D2diff: 1:08pm On May 14, 2016 |
I used to believe that it should be mandatory for men to take up their responsibility but now I am not so sure.
If you find yourself with a child in 2016 without a good reason, you have yourself to blame. Not even the man who impregnated you or your family is to be blamed for your retarded actions. If you cannot care for yourself, refrain from having sex! |