₦airaland Forum

Not after she stabs every member of your to death

It is just a IF

JuanJO:
if i marry u, deny me dat same kpekus and i go kill u alife

Are you jinxed?

If she says she doesn't want to have sex, does it give him any right to abuse her?

It is her hole. It is in her body. She owns it. Marriage or any motherfvcker cannot change that fact. You can allow your mother to be brutalised and raped just to have access to the hole she didn't drill bit when it comes to other women, make you get sense biko.

Uramzi:
It's better for a man to be stingy with his money
because he hustled for it...than for a woman to deny
you a hole that she didn't even drill.
Bro I'm most sorry buh yhur sis is kinda wrong! How does it sound in your ear disallowing yhur hubby intercourse? If en begin cheat nko? Wetin yhu go yarn if yhu catch am? If dey say make dey dey fu**k b4 marriage to know if sex dey bellefull dia man dem go say no, I'm a Virgin! Oya nunu! Get well o. God bless yhur Union! Over to d brothers...Is the man still breathing??

Can you shut it please?

aresa:
The SW is able to do this and concentrate on development like they always do because they are not only smart, also because they are not bugged down with antisocial behaviour like inter communal hatred, lack of brotherly love and care, tribalism, religious hatred and bigotry like we see everyday in other regions..


Omoluabi and collective progress is a state of mind in the SW.

We are not experiencing inter tribal hatred and petty jealousy like Anambra people hating and despicing Imo people snd thinking they are better than them.

In iboland, a new flyover bridge in Imo State is a bad thing and must be condemed and the governor abused by the same ibo people, but a new flyover bridge in Anambra brings praise and adulation.

This is inter communal hatred, bitterness and lack of brotherly love that impede progress and development.

In the SW, progres in any corner of Yorubaland is progress for all in Yorubaland.

This is our strength and major advantage..

I disagree

amtaken:
He should have employed the services of an architect at least.

The house looks tacky.

I don't care about why they voted for him however the man never danced to anyone's tune but the Niget Delta. He did not give a damn about anyone. SNC's interests is not synonymous to Nigeria's interest or his opinion.

He gave power to the north because that was the agreement. And OBJ dealt with them with Yaradua.


Can we please stop talking about this?

Deadlytruth:
I can see that you find it difficult to read between the lines. I said Northerners gave him power because they (Northerners) believed he would dance to their tune and haunt his own Yorubas. He might not have wholly danced to Northerners' tune, but he definitely did not give a damn about the pan-Yoruba interest of SNC as he too conducted a sham which he called a confab and which the most notable Yorubas ignored cos it carried no genuine regard for the SNC and restructuring which Yorubas had always demanded from Abacha days. Was his resistance to restructuring not in the interest of the North? Or you think Northerners love the idea of restructuring? Did OBJ not in the end give power back to the North through Yaradua after making Igbos believe that he would hand over to them? Do I need to give you a full semester lesson?

He is snarter thab thr morons who got a houerbin Lekki etc


In about five years time, the land will highly likely quadruple. That is how you develop an area. If it is a developing area, he would do good to name his Street after him.

He could even buy many plots and resell to people. He could start a real estate company sef.

He is very smart. It was this same smartness that makes him one of the best in the sector.

amtaken:
I am not hating but this house is not quite impressive. The only thing close to good thing about it is the mini swimming pool.

Can you imagine the red soil road beside the house?

Honestly our entertainers are suffering, especially the movie makers.

it is high time the Government came to their aid.

What a hell of a cheap house with the worst design ever.


NB: this is strictly my opinion and I am entitled to my opinion. If you curse because of this the curse will go back to you 1 million folds.

Which kin report be this?

Yea, she didn't die from domestic abuse. What did she die from?

Trade Dispute Act, 2004,

Farano
Rocktation

Gabbadaya:
Isn't she pretty AF?

Trust me when I say I am not a fan of OBJ but to claim that that he was a stooge is extremely stvpid. In fact OBJ tried to do the exact opposite

Deadlytruth:
What's the nonsense therein about OBJ? Was he not a lackey, Southern collaborator and stooge of the North whom the Northern Oligarchy deliberately chose to perpetrate their born-to-rule philosophy? Did they really choose him back then in the interest of Nigerians or for the belief that he was their old reliable friend who was surer to return power to them just like he returned power to Shagari after it got to him through Murtala's demise? Did OBJ spare any fair attention for the genuine agenda of his own Yoruba brothers? Was it not the North and himself he tried to please all through his tenure? How many roads did he construct in the SW? Did he investigate the political assassinations of his time despite 80% of the victims were his own Yoruba brothers?
OBJ is the biggest problem Nigeria ever had. I keep wondering how he still has fans among even Yorubas. It beats me silly.

Please retract that nonsense about OBJ.

Deadlytruth:
Jonathan was not really the best candidate the SS could offer for presidency. Obasanjo studied all the SS governors then and discovered that GEJ was the weakest, most pliable, most lacking in personal vision and self-conviction, and least self asserting; so he chose him as Yaradua's running mate for the purpose of tokenism so that it would be said he made it possible for power to come to the SS. It was the same way the Northerners studied all the southerners in 1998 and found OBJ to be the most pliable and bendable to Northern interests, most resistant to his own Yoruba agenda, the biggest Southern collaborator and lackey of the Northern Hegemony, etc and then chose him too for the tokenism that after all they were kind enough to give it to a Yoruba man whereas he was actually the worst and least likely candidate the Yorubas would offer for presidency if given the total leverage.
What Northerners did to OBJ he too did to the SS. But the difference was that Yorubas were quick to reject OBJ as a Trogan Horse gift from the North while the SS could not see and till now has still not seen that GEJ was a Trojan Horse offer to the SS by OBJ.

The trouser is quite nice

icebebe:
so bcs he doesnt do ur own shoppin dts y u are looking rat and not fly? Which trouser u wear madam

Are you jinxed? If you feel like beating up someone, Go home! Your mother and sister are waiting to be taught

9ja4show:
You made a good decision to reply me because you need some morals..You think abuse is only when you slap and beat up someone ? You go about telling people that your husband can't provide for you and you expect him to not reply you with a slap

Bla bla bla

What would enter your brain that would make you to even dare touch me?

Fvck off! I don't have time for senseless people.

9ja4show:
You will end up all by yourself which is not a bad thing you know, push your husband to the wall and receive the reward...i love good women and i am very selective.

Shouts out to all beautiful,hard-working women out there who will not go about telling people how she feeds her man...(You will sure get a slap for that kind of abuse)

How is she overriding her husband?

What stvpid ego? Do you also think you have an ego?

Wonders shall never end.

9ja4show:
Op; I don't support violence against women but don't listen to women telling you to divorce , if you check them out you will see they cant even keep a boyfriend not to talk of husband...I know you provide for the family but don't override your husband cos of that, you should let him take the wheel sometimes , there is nothing wrong with you providing for your family... a man ego have no cure ooh

Imagine the nonsense he is spitting

Would the woman have mentioned the feeding part without a genuine reason? As if most people do not everyone mention it when they feel betrayed and diassapointed with the recipient. The only issue that thing could concentrate on was turning the feeding part to a gender thing


This forum don tire me. Bunch of idiots running around.

HaneefahRN:
I'm thinking that is how he treats his wife. So all the fingers point at him.

Is that how you beat your gf/wife? You must think I am like one of the mor.ons you surround yourself with?

I shouldn't have replied you the first time. My mistake

9ja4show:
When you get married and you go about bragging how u feed a man, we will be here when he beats you black and blue ...ediot.

I am very abusive. I don't have time for stvpid people who have chosen to be biased, unreasonable, selective and sexist.



I pity the unfortunate woman that will end up in your house.

Good riddance to bad rubbish

9ja4show:
I don't have time to spare either, you must be an abusive woman , I just pray for that innocent man who will put you in his house.

Vent your anger all you like but your inability to understand why we are here today is baffling.

gimakon:
I want to believe you not trying to insult me here. I'm coming from a 2 months ban because of ma manners, kindly allow me to be level headed, and don't allow me to vent ny anger of this failing economy on you... sho ra e o...

You go explain to me maybe Buhari day pay u when u mistakenly insult me.

Dadee007,it is baking soda not powder.

Have you been living on Mars for the past two years? A high school student must not ask such a question not to mention someone as old as you are.

gimakon:
Shay this is not Lai Mohammed type of news o? Ehen ok, $110 ba? And nigeria day like this, shay u no day see am ni? Ehen ok o

You can tell this to your daughters or sisters in abusive homes

Misogynist!

9ja4show:
Just like that? You think marriage will always feel like the first spark always? If you want a perfect relationship, get a dog. You think its childplay to live with another human being when its hard sometimes to live with oneself

Did you miss the slaps and the strangling part?


And it is wrong to say you feed a man, why? Don't men count it against greedy and ungrateful women or what exactly are you trying to say? Tell me, who on earth doesn't use that line to score cheap points evena father can use the same line on a child not to mention husband to wife or wife to husband. How has it reduce what makes the husband a man?


I know you are looking for trouble but I don't have your time today!

9ja4show:
Who is talking about beating here, she never for once said he is violent ; every issue in marriage is now violet Abi? How are we sure this woman is not abusive at home since she's bold enough to say she feeds him here

Great economy thanks to oil at $110 per barrel

gimakon:
I laugh.

You know what? I'd say it's the beginning, we had a president who didn't know Nigerian politics, but the nation rose to biggest economy in Africa, beating South Africa and Egypt.
Today a slander after another, funny we don't even know what position we in now, possibly we could be contesting who's poorer, Nigeria or Nepal or Bangladesh...

This would serve as a big lesson to all of you who voted on the basis of "I'm a Northerner, ma broda na frezidant" should serve us right, who's willing to learn anyways?

How so? Do you have any proof to back it up?

NwaNimo1:
Women Politicians - even more savage than there male counterparts.

That is not issue.



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waxxydude:
Burna if yo sure say na wetin ur teacher teach u for sch say if u knack gyal once e no go fit carry belle, then you've every legal right to demand a refund of all the fees yo paid in that school!

If everyone knows the militants then everyone is guilty of conspiracy. Therefore anyone can be arrested.

That was a sarcastic reply to Acidosi.s

raumdeuter:
But you were the one who told us



Is there anything biologically that stops a woman from establishing her man?

Things?

Why don't we try what is natural for a woman and a man? Physical difference and childbirth are obvious examples. Any one cannot do it.

However any one can cook, wash, sweep, mow the lawn, fix a socket, paint the house, feed the children, pet a baby to sleep...........you can add more. If you can't do any of them, it is not because you are a man or a woman. It is because you naturally can't do it or you never learned how to do it

raumdeuter:
What are the things that are included in natural order and what are the things not included

I know it is a stereotype. This si not about whether or not it is true.


Wow at your aunt. When I say women cheat. People have no idea how common it is. They believe that it is only the negligible few that cheat..

HaneefahRN:
Doveda, don't bring nurses and Drs into this
Most of what you heard are exaggerations and lies plus imaginations born out of Nollywood films.


But I'm not disputing what you are trying say though. A married female friend ( a well off woman) of my aunt was telling her how she and some friends enjoy their lives (cheat), I just open mouth. My aunt just put her at arm's length .These are women you would never think are involved in such, and their husbands will also be feeling smart while cheating on them. Marriage is loosing it's meaning.

1? That was a sarcastic reply to the moniker I quoted
2? Men can do all the heavy lifting. You are physically stronger and if you do not want to we can as well do it ourselves. What about childbirth too? Will you handle it yourself?
3) Natural order does not include stuffs like that. It is very obvious bro.
4) We are talking

raumdeuter:
Does natural order allow men to do domestic chores?

If we are cancelling natural orders it should be in all aspect like heavy lifting, spending in relationship, "women first" manta, proposing and everything that has to do with natural order

It seems like I am convincing you already . Like I said there is nothing wrong with it but be prepared to weigh your contribution via hers. you also need to know that providing the finances does not mean that she doesn't do more work than you do.

You think it is easy to get money just like that .


By some of you, it is either you lived with those who were exactly your type or you were the type that fails to do his own of communal chores?

Acidosis:


If a woman refuse to lend her husband some money to establish himself, there are other alternatives (microfinance, etc). Overall, I believe roles and regulations are ideal in a home; it only becomes questionable when these roles are enforced and made mandatory.

Some of us live peacefully with roommates in school for years without enforcing any role. We naturally know and do what is necessary by virtue of love, the need for a peaceful coexistence, etc.