₦airaland Forum

donbenedict:
Pls let us all stop this nonsense abt ladies not being able to get married and focus on the brothers not being responsible enough to become a family man..


Some would be fathers-in-law aren't even helping matters. Their daughter likes a man who isn't well to do, instead the lady's father to assist him in gettn a well paid job, just because d dad comes from a very wealthy family, he only wishes for some ready made billionaire to marry his daughter..

Some mothers also aren't helping matters.


U want a society wedding for u daughter, u are driving away her suitors just because you want ur friends to know dat ur daughter is going to wedd onye Nku (big man).. .. what is a just a wedding ceremony compared to a life time marriage? A lot of institutions are sacrificing monies to organise mass wedding for couples, why not take advantage of that opportunity? Dan wasting a whole lot of money to please people who will still grumble after the wedding ceremony because they didn't get souvenir (but they ate sha sha ooo)


Human beings are insatiable, no matter how "swagged up" or "economical" the wedding ceremony is, people will always complain..


So why kill oneself?

Please always read and understand a post first before you respond. Thanks

SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE

Why not?

When we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained.

We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive.

The maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our children subject them to. All these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men.

Our precious daughters are pampered through nursery and primary schools. They speak the English we want and know all the cartoon slangs by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they ever ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. They see kitchen things as maids' things.

The girls move from boarding schools to the university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish that to happen soon.

From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet functions.

The boys de-commit when they notice that the possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford this for a start.

The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would make good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.

My friends love eating the food my wife makes. My wife's proficiency in culinary matters and the joy she exudes in cooking different dishes for me has made me to stop eating outside. I tell people that as a titled man, that I'm forbidden to eat outside but I know the truth- no food can taste any better than my wife's. I'm also convinced that my addiction is not juju-inspired. It would have expired by now. We are married for 16 years+.

Not all your maids would remain your servants for ever. Some of them would finally do part-time studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.

Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness is at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium.

Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids to make them compete for the few available good men if marriage is important to them. There are few guys who believe that marriage is for better for worse.

Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love. Therefore, some men are immune to pre-marital love blindness.

In practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early formation of our daughters.

Right now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer because they possess the requisite or set skills the highly perceptible and ready husband materials need.

Mothers please take note.

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labamo07:
Call it witch-hunting, the election of the duo into office does not follow the guidelines of the ruling party. Saraki stood on toes believing he had back ups from the core northern blocs...................

What has the guidelines of the party got to do with the Senate proceedings.? is the NA an arm of APC? please stop showing off your ignorance in public

lastpage:
Since the CRIMES were committed between 2011 and 2015...... under the watch of clueless Badluck Jonathan, why not direct your question to him and ask him: Jonathan, what were you doing when all these YAM EATERS were looting the Nation-dry ....with your connivance?

Truly, "common sense" no longer makes sense!



Lastpage!

I KNOW THAT JONATHAN IS THE ONLY AIR THAT YOU BREATHE. WITHOUT THE MENTION OF HIS NAME YOU CAN'T SURVIVE. WELLDONE

Please fellow Nigerians Is EFCC set up to arrest only EX-Office holders? what happens to the thieves in power? Can we now say that nobody is stealing in the government except the Ex-officials.

Why wait to take back crumbs from Ex officials when you can equally catch them red-handed in the act and get back the raw and full cash even before they eat it.?

I strongly believe that the battle will be better won against corruption when the fight is all inclusive. Both old and new criminals in and out of office should be arrested and prosecuted alike.

Too much of one sidedness justice is a fraud.

All these Ex this Ex that EFCC arrests no longer make sense

Vickyydera:
From the writeup, I denoted that the supposed boyfriend doesn't love her the way she loves him. Love is meant to be reciprocated in a relationship.
He might be spending his dough on another woman.

Exactly my thinking too. I suspect the guy doesn't love this girl. hope she's not trying to force herself on him.... no offense intended please.

their relationship is obviously stiff and dry

Vickyydera:
A man that truly loves you will do anything to please you, he will even spend a fortune on you.
I will advise you to stop spending on him, stop showing him you have money or pay his bills cos if you do he will be reluctant to buy you gifts and take care of your financial needs.

I disagree with you completely. she needs a genuine advise not this...

buying gifts and meeting a woman's financial needs in a relationship is not all there is to prove true. love itself is priceless. though her boyfriend behavior is somehow worrisome but you need to find out why.

I have witnessed a practical case where a guy was showering the girlfriend with gifts and fancy outings in fancy places but he stopped immediately after wedding.

Next... are you sure this guy truly loves you or he's just tolerating you. if yes is answer, then I suggest you give him sometimes. he might be struggling with a past experiences which might have forced him to become too careful.

Besides buying you gifts how can you evaluate his love for you?

Seenyo:
Good! Though i voted the ill-prepared/heartless nomad, i want him thrown out of office!...BUT pdp is NEVER an option either!!!

If he is thrown out of office who do you think can take over from him?

please consult your naija constitution

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Seenyo:
Good! Though i voted the ill-prepared/heartless nomad, i want him thrown out of office!...BUT pdp is NEVER an option either!!!

If he is thrown out of office who do you think can take over from him?

please consult your constitution

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Buhari WHY? Femi Falana WHY

Thank you guys for your kind advise but a rough estimate wouldn't be a bad idea too. drawing in progress already

kilo nshele

Please I don't want after LBS.

Please where are the builders in the house? I need your suggestions, ideas and advise. tnx

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please I need your cost estimate and analysis. thanks

Good morning request is still valid

I don't mind Ogombo or behind Ajiwe. tnx

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castrokins:
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It took so long time because the post had nothing to do with #IstandwithBuhari #AishaRice #liarMuhamed #apcchange

Dafkelvin222:
They're two diff words...''am'' is for questioning and i'm is for intro...e.g i'm muhammadu buhari,the chief jukeeter,,am i a dullard?

Really

Mrjo:
They will nt force u to buy it, did they?

People like you remain the problem of Nigeria. too gullible and unreasonable. gush!

pring:
Just trying to figure out the purpose of this thread.
Why are people so gullible in Nigeria?
why are pastors over celebrated or celebrities in Nigeria?
Ok OP, Have these people already made heaven?
Is high time people started using their head.

Stop wondering if they have already made heaven but be more bothered about yourself making heaven. it's a personal race

florencepoko2:
Their mother is blessed by God to have 5 girls married to pastors; more renowned men of God. Alleluia. In some families have as many girls is a curse, but for this mother it was a blessing. Glory to God.

Please read the post again for better understanding. They are not born by the same mother. They only come from the same tribe. kindly correct yourself. Goodnyt

RIP

HBD to the man after God's heart. a thousand kposaaaas!!!!!!!!!

goldbim:
I see a "FOCUSED and DETERMINED"woman !!! ..i need this grace ..I bind every spirit of sharwama and hollandia yoghurt in me..

I JUST CAN'T STOP LAUGHING

goldbim:
I see a "FOCUSED and DETERMINED"woman !!! ..i need this grace ..I bind every spirit of sharwama and hollandia yoghurt in me..

I JUST CAN'T STOP LAUGHING