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The Side Effects of Masturbation
- how it affects your personality
The side effects of masturbation may be more than you bargain for.
What few people realize is that chronic masturbation will change the physical structure of your brain and can actually change your personality.
Thankfully, your brain is neuro plastic. It is moldable and changeable. You are not stuck with habits, addictions or personality those addictions have shaped. Behaviors you have learned you can unlearn and replace with healthy behaviors.
A man who viewed pornography and masturbated for 20 years was told by his doctor:
"You've destroyed your mind by fantasizing. You've dug a deep channel going in one direction. The rest of your mind is atrophied!"
He literally developed a “one track mind.” Sadly, he had a high level engineering brain and held a professional management position.
His habit was so neurologically destructive that he couldn’t remember anything and had to pack bags of chocolate for minimum wage. 5
Characteristics of chronic masturbation:
Given to extremes
Absent-mindedness
Nervous in social settings, conversations are awkward
Desire for isolation, yet has feelings of loneliness
Easily irritated
Can’t focus on work because their mind is elsewhere, daydreaming
Does poor work because of inattentiveness but makes excuses
Forgetfulness (poor retention leading to difficulty in school)
Reluctance to engage in active labor
Poor follow through (perseverance) on projects or tasks which require mental or physical strength
Lazy
Gloomy sadness upon the countenance
Moodiness and depression
Suicidal thoughts
Easily excited to jealousy
Generally pessimistic
Sensitive to correction
Little self-respect
Excessive masturbation: One man's testimony
“I discovered this fantasy at the age of puberty when I was 16 and I am still doing it at the age of 27.
If I had spent my precious time doing something more important I would have been a great successful person now. However, now I am a pathetic loser. I don't have a life, no girlfriend, no friends, no job, no nothing.
All I have are the symptoms of my stupid little habit, which are:
memory loss and very poor concentration, fatigue all the time, muscle cramp in legs and arms, short body, short and thin penis, lack of sleep, semen leakage, pain in testicles and abdomen, poor eye sight, fuzzy vision and eye floaters, back pain, shoulder pain, thin sperm, falling and thinning hair, weak bones, lack of interest in anything, guilt and shame, regret, depression, low self esteem and poor confidence to name but a few, although the list is too long;
the western scientists and doctors chat bulls shit that its perfectly fine to do it every now and again and it helps you keep healthy and learn the pleasure of sex.
But trust me, I am a living experienced addict and I know what it is like to have the symptoms of over-masturbation and sexual exhaustion.
They support the idea that it is harmless only to promote and encourage the use of pornography, which is a multi-billion business. Every day hundreds and millions of videos are produced for fools like me who spend their money and waste their precious life for a few moments of pleasure.
Trust me all my brothers who are reading this: I am now a living dead. I only eat, sleep and walk and that's it. I'm not capable of doing nothing. But if you want to [have] success, do not masturbate. Good luck to everybody.”
The negative effects of masturbation on your brain:
As if that weren’t enough, add the moral dimension.
Side effects of masturbation on the soul
- moral effects
Increase of disobedience
Manifestations of ingratitude
Impatience under restraint
Disregard of parental authority – especially when it comes to relationships
Overpowering disposition to be in premature relationships
Obsessive talk about crushes on the opposite sex
Lying to parents so they can be in relationships against their parent’s wishes
Controlled by lust and infatuation leading them to make foolish marriage commitments.
Licentiousness – having sex outside of marriage or just fooling around
Dead to spiritual things – little motivation for goodness, beauty of character and holy purposes
Lose their soul – you cannot follow Christ and serve Satan at the same time.
Temptation to commit sex crimes
If you want to glorify God, honor Him with your body and develop your mind and character to be a blessing to society and your future family, make an earnest resolution to begin overcoming masturbation today.
Side effect of masturbation
- how it hurts your future spouse
Thinking about another woman (or man) lustfully in your heart is adultery (Matthew 5:27-28). You are setting yourself up for infidelity .
It sets you up for unrealistic expectations in marriage of how your husband or wife should perform in bed. You will inevitably be disappointed.
It decreases your ability to perform when you do get married because your body develops a need for certain stimulation which is unrealistic in marriage (you need something more exciting, more provocative or more dangerous to be aroused. Also the friction of your hand is more abrasive than the friction of intercourse which leads to sexual frustration in marriage.)
Masturbation is often used as an escape or coping activity for stress, anger, loneliness, tiredness, or fear, keeping you from developing a dependency on Christ to minister to you in difficult times through His word.
It fuels a feeling oriented (not principle oriented), self-indulgent (not self sacrificing) attitude of life. A good marriage (or any relationship for that matter) grows and thrives when both parties look for opportunities to give, not take.
Your husband or wife will feel hurt , rejected, replaced, betrayed, and deceived if you carry this on into marriage. Without trust there can be no true intimacy.

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martineverest:
From the comments above: Nigeria is ' futureless'

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The lecturers in the department are not very active

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Whizzcute:
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kunu is majorly found in northern Nigeria

If the government tax alcohol then people will go back to smoking weed

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Nigerians need enlightenment

LadyExcellency:
This typifies the relationship between Nigerian government and the Eastern region.

It is left for the Easterners to take their destiny by force before they are reduced to the Lion seen above.

wetin concyn something that happens in Jos to the east.. You people are just forcing yourselves to believe that you are marginalized

Westernization is affecting every part of the world

orobs93:
I see boy and boy there

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[color=#000099][/color] it's Nollywood and Hollywood that is causing it

Every society passes through stages. I must say the western world is 300 to 500 ahead of others. Even the western world passed through what we're now going through. One of the examples that really changed things in Europe is the French Revolution of 1789
Africa hasn't reached that stage of scientific enlightenment but we're heading there.

So there have been articles about how to fight corruption in Nigeria ever since and the country has not changed. It seems the country is cursedSo there have been articles about how to fight corruption in Nigeria ever since and the country has not changed. It seems the country is cursedSo there have been articles about how to fight corruption in Nigeria ever since and the country has not changed. It seems the country is cursed

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And who says trousers are only for men

I already knew it was an igbo man reading it