Romance › Re: 6 Types of Guys That'll Forgive a Cheating Girlfriend by Damfostopper(m): 7:19am On Nov 20, 2015 |
Ginaz: Some people doesn't even know the true meaning of love, I know its very hard to forgive a cheating partner but that's when love comes in. We're all humans, none is beyond temptation or below it. It can happen in any situations and a lot of things might trigger it.
Now let me give you an example of a lovely couple I had the chance of knowing, while trying to sort out my relationship problem I went to him for advise. What he asked me was, why are you truly in this relationship? What do you understand by forgiveness?
He told me a story about how when he was dating his wife, she cheated twice but he forgave her and helped her put an end to it. He said, he would have left her but for the sake of LOVE and what he saw in her far out weight any flaws. People called him stupid and foolish, but he never weaver. And today, he's the happiest man on earth because he's very happy with his 10 year marriage. He said to me, you dont make love, you create it.
He said if he had left his wife, she would have lost herself and wouldn't have been the kind of woman she is today. When I see both of them, I see the meaning of the word love. Indeed, you can create love.
I left him feeling filled with wisdom, and I wanna take his advise seriously and apply it in my life. What I'm trying to say to whomever that is reading this, if your spouse cheated on you and is truly repentant, you should take them back. Love can do the impossible, I so much believe in that.
Marriage is not made up of two perfect creatures, NO! It is two imperfect creatures that makes it perfect. If your spouse is lacking behind, you can help them be a better person. Cheating is bad, I'm not supporting it but for those that are TRULY REPENTANT forgive. Afterall, God still cares for us upon all sins.
if your friends calls you fool and foolish cos you're thinking of taking that poor girl that has been begging for forgiveness, you are the one that is a fool. Cos you are not man enough to be a man of your own self. what is this he/she talking about...who u don help |
Romance › Re: The Pains Of An Independent Lady In Nigeria by Damfostopper(m): 6:59am On Nov 20, 2015 |
wat is dis one talking about...who op don help |
Crime › Re: 2 Women Caught With Stolen Meat. You Won't Believe How They Hid The Meat by Damfostopper(m): 10:45pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
Africans are lazy and only good at lovemaking and violence....and stealing.....donald trump(2015) |
Education › Re: Six Kinds Of freshers You Will Find In The University by Damfostopper(m): 8:32pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
end time freshers |
Nairaland General › Re: Cows Ran Into A Bus At Ilesa-Ibadan (pictures) by Damfostopper(m): 8:28pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
end tym cow |
NYSC › Re: Steer Clear Of Relationship(s) In NYSC Camp And During Service Year by Damfostopper(m): 9:37am On Nov 19, 2015 |
ENDTIME relationships in camp...if ur gal is going to nysc camp....just knw dat chances r high...she is gonna cheat on u |
Education › Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Damfostopper(m): 9:02am On Nov 19, 2015 |
reminiscing: Abi o,a male lecturer might just want a friend.I wonder why some girl's mind always think bad out of every situation i wonder |
Education › Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Damfostopper(m): 9:00am On Nov 19, 2015 |
CaroLyner: young man receive brain. why else would he be making passes at a student if he aint a perv? so are lecturers not human being...dnt dey av feelings ?....havent u seen a lecturer marrying a student ?....wats wrong dere....wat makes him a pervert ?....abeg no daft quotes if u dnt av beta tins to say |
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Education › Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Damfostopper(m): 7:47am On Nov 19, 2015 |
so because he approaches u means he is a pervert.....smh.....young gal recieve sense ijn.....cos ur jus overhyping....wat r u feeling lik sef |
Education › Re: How Exams Are Written In Covenant University by Damfostopper(m): 7:42am On Nov 19, 2015 |
end tym university....wats so special about them sef....end time funds used in building end time university.... |
Politics › Re: Bomb Blasts In Kano GSM Market: Graphic Photos by Damfostopper(m): 10:19pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
end time bomb blast |
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Fashion › Re: Nwadike Gloria Kelechi Wins Miss Planet Nigeria 2015 (photos) by Damfostopper(m): 8:02pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
end time MISS .....miss penniss....miss totto...miss vaginna....miss dis....miss dat.....wake me up wen miss wateva wins....nonsense |
Phones › Re: ''Keeping Cell Phones Near The Head Is Dangerous'' by Damfostopper(m): 7:29pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
end time mobile device |
Sports › Re: World Cup Qualifiers: Nigeria May Draw Ghana, Cameroon by Damfostopper(m): 7:14pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
Damfostopper: end time draw....if u believe dey will qualify from ghana....cameroun...south africa group.....then ur a stewpid moroon.... |
Sports › Re: World Cup Qualifiers: Nigeria May Draw Ghana, Cameroon by Damfostopper(m): 7:12pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
i pray they r drawn like dis Algeria South Africa Nigeria cape verde....n dose super fools will b releqated |
Politics › Re: Biafra: Cross River Issues Stern Warning Against Protest - the Nation by Damfostopper(m): 10:31pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
end time biafrauds/ipads abi na ipob....just a poo |
Sports › Re: U-17 Eaglets To Receive 20k Each (pictured) by Damfostopper(m): 5:33pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
fake news...how can d give dem 20k....op mind ur fake news...no let me curse u |
Romance › Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Damfostopper(m): 7:52pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Yakub is on a revenge mission...RIP to ur pucci....bitches aint loyal...na to kpansh u...dump u for trash can...all dis trial n error relationshit sef |
Career › Re: 4 Big Career Lessons Managers Can Learn From Mourinho And Chelsea Slump by Damfostopper(m): 7:19pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
zoom007: nonsense write up, when barca went trophy less two seasons ago, beaten all round by bayern, you did not write your brainless article. for your information i'm a barca fan but this is the same coach that broke barcas dominance in laliga and laid a template for countering tiKi taka. Just say u hate mourinho for his achievements. He is the best coach in the past 15years of football so when he talks on management professors in business schools listens stop ranting like a dog....he will coach barca one day..shey na d best coach for d past 15yrs |
Career › Re: 4 Big Career Lessons Managers Can Learn From Mourinho And Chelsea Slump by Damfostopper(m): 7:17pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
i dnt care bout chelsea...notin bout dem interested me....dey can cum suck ma dick for all i care...d can even go to relegation |
Family › Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Damfostopper(m): 9:09pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
annoying....me sef no even want gal child |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by Damfostopper(m): 12:50pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Which Nairaland Members Would You Prefer To Date? by Damfostopper(m): 10:55am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Sugarhugs |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Is Your Date Of Birth? See If U Have A Match by Damfostopper(m): 10:47am On Nov 15, 2015 |
19 august .....anybody ? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Have You Been Dreaming Of Marrying Your Birthday Mate? Pls Come In by Damfostopper(m): 10:43am On Nov 15, 2015 |
august 19....any body ? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Graphic Photos From The Scene Of Paris Terrorists Attack by Damfostopper(m): 1:05am On Nov 15, 2015 |
okeyglm: shame to france, it can't happen in germany. imagine no intelligent security. at ur age...recieve sense cos u lack it |
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Celebrities › Re: Davido Flaunts Money After Being Robbed In South Africa by Damfostopper(m): 8:16pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
he is behaving like a kid...maybe he shud change his name from davido to dave_kid |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Swaziland: World Cup Qualifier (0 - 0) On 13th November 2015 by Damfostopper(m): 8:35pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
am waiting to laff last wen d egyptians flogs n disgrace dem...hw can u draw swaziland....who den will d will.....?questions for d gods....like mourinho like oliseh...hw can u introduce a player in d second half...n after 20 mins..u remove am again?huh....bastarrrds |