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Dekon:
Da diffrenz is that lust may last 4 d night but love comes in the morning[color=#990000][/color]

The hottest love, sex, and relationship is derived by[b] lust[/b]

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candylips:
yes o .wetin man go do.

@candylips - Not easy; make it possible to have several shots in the air at the same time. ,

mekoyo:
Relationships are built on trust nd remember u can only find true love when u follow your heart.[i][/i][color=#000099][/color]

@mekoyo - Love and jealousy are mutually exclusive.

At first, women feel quite flattered by all this attention as they mistake it for love. After all, a little jealousy is part of most relationships. ,

Think of the problem in a different way - remember that jealousy is a sign of love.

candylips:
its very difficult to answer. most of the time people are just infatuated or in lust. true love is very very rare

@candylips - ok let me ask u this

Which would u prefer, love or lust?

candylips:
damollar you're a wise man. i want to give u a Chieftency title in my village

@candylips - lol

candylips:
bros aloib is my sweetie so softy on her ok.

@candylips - So u feel safe hanging on air

ThoniaSlim:
wow i really agree with you damollar.

@Thoniaslim - thanx

candylips:
there is a thin line between love and lust

Do you wonder - is it love, or lust, or infatuation - are you really in love?

aloib:
can someone quote that mongose for me because he is on my ignore list

@aloib - When I first read your post on this forum, i knew i was going to do a column on rudeness. And d reason is not far fetched cos i need u 2 hate me stuart little.

@candylips - Y r u been such a wussie?

candylips:
maybe aliob wants a piece of d guy and just doesnt want to admit

@aloib - Hey, you! Yeah, you. I see you standing over there with the hungry look in your eye. Something bothering you? Something gnawing at your gut? Huh?


@candylips - that would make up d mile

aloib:
talk bout people aving issues, hiss

@aloib - And the thing that is key to not having issues, is being able to deal with beliefs

Greatpeter:
Love is a combination of passion, feelings and lust.
But when you have lust without love it becomes dangerous.

@greatpeter - Yeah u know what it is.


Love and lust are inextricably intertwined.if love is driving your relationship without lust for eachother, it will never work.

Love finds it way in your heart while lust clicks in your hormones.Most of people belive when they are in love the lust becomes naturaly and that's it .

Loving someone is that rational though joyous state you arrive at when you've been with (lusting) someone for a while.

HH:
i feel a lady would allow her guy for a one night stand with her close friend and still keep the relationship but its completely impossible for a guy to allow his girl for a night stand with his close friend and still keep d relationship.
does that mean women are emotionaly stronger than men?

There are individuals who use their feelings of jealousy to rate how much they love their partner or how much they are loved by their partner.

They believe, for instance, that if I’m feeling jealous that others are paying too much attention to my partner then that’s a sign of how much I love him/her.

Alternately they may believe that if I make my partner jealous through my friendships with others that it’s a sign of how much my partner loves me.

In the former case the feelings of jealousy simply reflect deep feelings of insecurity that have nothing to do with love. If your partner is being dishonest and this is obvious to you a more appropriate reaction might be to acknowledge this as a form of abuse and that this relationship is not worth entertaining further. In which case you should not feel jealous, rather relieved that you recognized it before you became further wounded.

In the latter case if “you” are intentionally “trying” to make you partner jealous to see how much he/she loves you then this too is coming from a place of deep insecurity, yours! In this case it is you who is being abusive and if this is your way of showing your love who do you expect would love you back for it, no one!

On the other hand if your partner is the jealous type and your friendships are not intended to make him/her jealous then he/she has the problem around insecurity and you the problem of deciding how much further to proceed in this relationship. If you too are insecure you may decide to put up with such a partner, If not, then you may decide otherwise, but then you already understood this.

So you see love and jealousy are not extensions of each other.

To get to a true place of love all your feelings of jealousy and therefore insecurity must be addressed for what they are; a sign that you are not yet ready for a mature relationship!

candylips:
so are u giving the guy tips. he sure need tips on how to approache women not just posting some shitty picc on d web and think he can get laid

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Eddie2006:


well done

@Eddiemillion2006 - >>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice,

I like the sound of that,

A woman told me that I'm "Creating a super-
race of more interesting men to date".

Love it.

OK, here's the deal in a nutshell:

If a guy learns everything needed to know,
he will not only be more interesting to DATE,
he'll be more interesting to have a RELATIONSHIP
with, and more interesting to MARRY.

Why?

Because he won't be a WUSSY. He won't be
CLINGY. He won't be ANNOYING. He won't act
INSECURE all the time.

@Eddiemillion2006 - Now please, go do something worthwhile with
yourself.

But if you don't know how women think, and you
don't understand how to take things smoothly from
one step to the next, and you don't know how to
use your voice tone and body language to
communicate, then no amount of Cocky and ANYTHING
is going to help you.

Pay attention, and learn something.


Man, you're a trip.

Yeah, I'll give you a start,

When you see that girl again probably u've asked her out before, walk up to her
and say, "You know, I feel bad about this, but I
just can't be with a girl who doesn't even know
her own email address".

Then leave, and find 10 more girls, and get
their email addresses.

Problem solved.