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Uche2nna:
Why not ask him to marry you!

@Ally - look, baby I dear u so much, I can't do with out u, will u marry me?, I will do everything for u to make u happy. I think it sounds all funny. ,

You can ask questions on any topic, get answers from real people, and share your insights but not on this except u r d guy

iice:
Hmmmm illusions

Here it is,

Don't talk about it.

Don't "explain" it in the first place.

Many problems in life are ILLUSIONS.

And yours is one of them.

Think of it this way,

Your dad, grandfather, great-grandfather, and
so on, all the way back to the first humans
figured out how to have sex for the first time.

It's not that big of a deal, man.

I recommend that you focus on learning how a
woman's body works, how to get her turned on and
keep her turned on, etc. rather than focusing on
YOURSELF, which is what you're doing.

vichel:
a helicopter ride from jfk to manhattan for a nice dinner would be first, then maybe see a movie after that. If the connection is great we cud walk around times sqaure to see the beautiful sites

@vichel - I have to admit your material is dead on the
money.

I heard something on the radio few weeks ago that
grabbed my attention.

The caller said that when he get a woman's email and number, then call
her, then get a date with her, he'll take her to
A PARTY?

Or even WORSE, a CLUB?


On a first date? I think this is totally a dumbass idea

@somegirl - thanx 4 ur swift response but really i think there culd be more to it that meets d eye.

i'll agree that By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST
IMPORTANT thing about him,

but

The purpose of a test is to figure something
out. It's a way of getting "true" information
about something.

If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much
money do you make?" he can LIE.

If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can
LIE.

If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal
with the challenges of life, support a family, and
reach his goals, he can LIE.

Are you with me here?

So whats d point?

Women test men.

That's the reality of the situation.

Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and
they keep on testing FOREVER.

For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing"
them seems a little strange.

Why would a woman WANT to test a man?

What could she possibly gain from it?

nico:
Playboys are vain little pricks

@nico - U can't preach wt u dnt practise

oje:
This is a very intersting topic. Sadly, so many people still don't understand the question, hence, they are not answering appropriately.
Personally, I think there is no direct or correct answer for the question, as we all know, people are different. But sincerely, at this age, most of the suggestions i read (which i really enjoyed, though) might lead you to a "hard knock". things no longer work as they use to.
i particularly enjoyed the contributions of Lexyflexy and Hausa Chic, (enough respect for you IQ. If you don't mind, i would really appreciate if you mail me on ojekere@yahoo.com or Frank.Ezomo@lntinfotech.com so i can get your contacts).

I hope you guys get to see this post again,

@ole - state your mission

u all don't know wat u r talking bout.

@Topic - Question: How do I know if a girl loves me?

Answer: If one night you go out drinking and end up back at her place, pass out together on the bed with your shoes on, and wake up a few hours later only to discover that you’ve peed the bed, which she takes in stride, changes the sheets, and then the next morning has a laugh about it, later leaves some pamphlets from the local health clinic about child bedwetters in your mailbox, and eventually after a few weeks tells your friends but never, ever tells hers: She loves you.

If she knows what song is coming next on the mix CD you made her: She loves you.

If she dances with your friends: She loves you.

If she says, “I love you” on the roller coaster, right after you’ve puked down your shirt: She loves you.

If she loves you, if she really loves you, you’ll know it. If you can wake up to her staring at you and it’s not even mildly creepy, if you catch her smelling the shoulder of the hooded sweatshirt you lent her for an autumn walk at the beach, and not for B.O., if she makes you a pancake in the shape of a shark, if she calls you drunkenly at four in the morning “to talk,” if she laughs at your jokes when they’re funny and makes fun of you when they’re not, if she keeps her fridge stocked with Guinness tallboys for when you come over, if she tells you how she wishes she were closer to her sister and that her dad makes her sad: She loves you, of course she loves you.

And with a love like that, you know you should be glad.

ajiboyet:
I'm not one love expert, I've never fallen in love,

@ajiboyet - I'll never believe your opinion no matter what. y? u nailed your self

Can you tell the difference between love and chemistry or love and infatuation?

[quote link=topic=22643.msg598112#msg598112 date=1157738474] i don't think guys are more jealous
[quote][/quote]Let's assume the best: A man and woman have navigated strategic interference and traps of deception ,

Oracle:
When you're in Love you'll know

@Oracle - Love is No Guarantee! What you Need to Know before You fall in Love, What does it mean when you say to someone “I love you?” should be all 2 craze 4.

Oracle:
Sex is the distinguishing factor, someone in lust would only regard the other person for his/her sexual abilities or would only want to be that person's friend for sexual reason.

while Love combines true affection with the sexual part of the whole business, sex can be employed when and only when the two people in question are married.

you would agree with me that LOVE is better than LUST

@Oracle - Your article about the differences between love and lust hardly seems necessary. , True love gives, expecting nothing in return. But lust wants out. , trite?

Our yearning for love and fulfillment is lived out on the knife edge which separates love and lust, commitment and obsession, faithfulness and desire.Far too many people, both men and women alike, confuse lust for love. Mental attraction alone will not withstand the test of time in relationships.

mubowa:
@PAULING we all don't understand

OK, is it just me, or is there something in the
air this week?

Is Uranus rising, or something freaky going on
in the heavens?

If there is something u don't grab u ask 4 undastanding not generalising to back ur ass up

@Egede - The difficulty comes from trying to keep to safer sex in the face of powerful feelings like love, lust and wanting to be close. ,

Your whimsical little sculpture addresses both the "lust and love" part of this show, with a great sense of humor. It is creative and fun. ,

It all depends on what we personally take to be the best in our lives. Just like some said it's thier family, to some it could be thier life but seriously i don't agree that is all there is to enjoy d very best in DEAR LIFE.

Have u ever tot of some family-centered devotions and conversations that will make you want to pull your family members together for five minutes , ?

candylips:
make una no bring chrianity into this

@candylips - I nominate u as our Chief whip. I sincerely c no reason y he had 2 come up with his religious beliefs.But all d same thanx 4 d prompt caution notice.