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 Literature › Re: Story: Night Time At Noon by Damollar(m): 6:54pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
manakins:@manakins - Thanx for letting him know he writes better than Charles Novia, lol |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 6:38pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
Elidegreat:@Elidegreat - I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there that would like your input on this question. There is something that I haven't seen addressed in your mailbag or your e-book and that is - what will u do when the woman you e-mailed or called didn't reply to the e-mail or phone call and you see them again. If u figure it out, i promise u Mr. Fragile never 2 pick on u anymore. Eddie2006:@Eddiemillion2006 - MY COMMENTS: First, thanks for your toothless Bull dog. Secondly, I have hadthis situation happen to me personally many, many times, and I'm glad to let u in on it. One of the things I've talked about before is how once a person believes something to be "true" or believes that they understand how something works, that they tend to make other information or new things that they learn, fit that older model, rather than being open to change. For instance, people who become part of a cult will tend to take the advice from others, evidence that they're not doing the right thing etc. to help convince them that they ARE doing the right thing. The reason that I bring this up is because it sounds to me like you're looking for an answer to how to solve a problem that you should actually try to PREVENT in the first place. I'm going to talk about how to prevent this problem first, then tell you a few things you can do when you run into it again in the future as well. Here are two things to keep in mind: 1.To figure out how to make women WANT to give u their phone numbers or e-mail address when u pathetically look like a WUSSIE, you might have to work on improving your humor, your personality, your appearance, or whatever. In short, you need to learn how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you when you first meet her. If you don't, she's not likely to give her number. 2.There are probably a few things you're doing that make women feel a little strange at first (this is just a guess, as most guys have things they could improve). Maybe you're acting a little too nervous. Maybe you're acting too "nice" or like you're "awed" by women. Maybe you're not making eye contact directly, and you're giving off a "not-very-confident" vibe. Think about it. candylips:@Candylips - Women expect men to keep trying, so they just lean back making us look like a jackass. |
| Forum Games › Re: Smart Rhymes by Damollar(m): 5:56pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
Babyboo, u are the one thing I followed through in my life, , the one thing that ruined my time. |
| Romance › Re: Should I Tell His Wife That He Is Having An Affair With Me? by Damollar(m): 2:24pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
Wumine:@Wumine - preach it to them gf |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Will You Marry Me? by Damollar(m): 12:37pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
Egede:@Egede - Believe me this is not about u keeping me posted or not. It's about what u can do man. Okay let me break it simple 4 u. I do v a question ***QUESTION*** How do you approach women with headphones on, without being annoying? Raymand:@Raymand - You could have asked me anything you wanted. You could have asked how to get phone numbers from exotic dancers, or where to hang out in order to meet supermodels. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 12:17pm On Sep 07, 2006 |
mubowa:@eddiemillion2006 - u've got a whole lot to learn from wat i'm teaching on this forum. U don't v 2 paste your pictures on d net 2 get laid or to get a pretty intelligently hot ladies fone number. Try watching a couple of movies i'll recommend to u now and carry out all instruction 2 d latter. 1. SOMETHING NEW - learn w brian(a white guy) got kenya(a career black lady) in love. 2. SOMETING'S GOTTA GIVE - 63 years old harry fallen in love for d very first time in his life. I'm sure u'll appreciate it, lol. @mubowa - Well, thanks for the compliment about my stupidity. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Will You Marry Me? by Damollar(m): 7:00pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
Egede:Well, all I can say to you is, YOU ARE THE MAN. I have a lot of respect for you. Why? Because you actually did EXACTLY what u think was right 4 u after breaking up with your fiance And AMAZINGLY, you didn't get any good results. It's frustrating for me when guys write in with dumb-ass questions like: "Will u mary me?" "What should I say if she says that she has a boyfriend?" , and, "What if she expects me to pay for dinner on our date?" , etc. Why is it that so many guys act like WUSSIES around women? Well, there are a lot of reasons. For some guys, it's an AUTOMATIC, PROGRAMMED response. See cute girl, act like Wussbag. A lot of guys have learned that being "nice" to people makes them "like" you. Unfortunately, no one has ever told most of us guys that making a woman LIKE you isn't very important. Making a woman feel ATTRACTION for you IS. Evicting the "Inner Wussy" isn't always easy for guys. Some of us LOVE our Inner Wuss. We're proud of how sweet, thoughtful, loving, and clingy we are. Most guys think of their Inner Wuss in a POSITIVE LIGHT. We humans don't like to admit that what we've been doing for most of our lives was WRONG. That's another reason. It takes a lot for most guys is to SEE WITH THEIR OWN TWO EYES how NOT being a Wuss affects women, and how it makes women RESPOND differently. Once you realize how your Inner Wussy is making women RUN away from you, it gets easier to EVICT it. Ah yes, hindsight is 20/20, as they say. I have to tell you something, Your story reminds me of an interesting point. When I first made it a point to really get this part of my own life handled, I can CLEARLY remember situations that made NO sense to me at all. Of course, I "mentally noted" those situations, and thought about them many times. It's obvious that you've thought of this and this particular situation many times over the last 20-30 years. I'm glad to have closed the loop for you, and helped you to "get" what was going on. I just hope your story will help other guys save about 20 or 30 years of their own lives, |
| Romance › Re: Why Can't A Girl Just Be A Good Friend? by Damollar(m): 6:36pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
seyijason:Generally speaking - a girl can't be seen as a good friend cos girls can't stop for a leak without you spying on her. |
| TV/Movies › Re: What Was Your Favorite Movie As A Kid? by Damollar(m): 5:51pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
babwilms:@babwilms - u must be a pretty bush boy then, lol Sometimes when I am watching TV my parents tell me that the programme has bad manners so I am not allowed to watch. But then i use 2 wonder If it has bad manners why do my parents watch it? I am 12 years and I am old enough to watch any programme on TV. So really i dnt v any favorite movie as a kid and pls dnt see me as d odd one out |
| Romance › Re: Should I Tell His Wife That He Is Having An Affair With Me? by Damollar(m): 5:43pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
TEASEME2:@ TEASEME2 - Original African, Proudly Nigeria If u had problems reading wat she wrote pls consult a dibia |
| Romance › Re: Playboys Are Better Men Than Others? by Damollar(m): 5:36pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
Temin:Why? Because he won't be a WUSSY. He won't be CLINGY. He won't be ANNOYING. He won't act INSECURE all the time. When he does find an exceptional woman and he chooses to "settle down" and have a deep, authentic relationship with a special girl, he'll be the kind of guy that every woman alive wants to be with. He'll know the game well enough to STAY INTERESTING, and he'll also know the game well enough to NOT HAVE TO PLAY IT if he doesn't need to. Trust me, this is all a good thing. |
| Forum Games › Re: Smart Rhymes by Damollar(m): 4:43pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
uzygirl:@uzygirl - Nice one but really i don't think it has 2 b all rhyming. Some thing cocky and funny would do. Feel dis I luv tall girls but you are so tall mpaka you block guys of Uganda from receiving sunlight. |
| Romance › Re: Should I Tell His Wife That He Is Having An Affair With Me? by Damollar(m): 4:23pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
@dynamo2000 - Brother, I see an unpleasant pattern here. My questions are always the constructive kind of questions, at least to me. Why do girls always get attracted to men known to be married and probably with kids? But in the context of this dicussion, really i place no blame on d man. D girl really needs to check herself |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 4:03pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
Eddie2006:@ Eddiemillion2006 - DUDE, can we talk? Just you and me? Look, if I had to place a bet, I'd say that between the two of us, I have about 99.999997323% of the knowledge about how to meet and date beautiful, intelligent women, and you have the rest. My assessment is based on: 1) Years of experience 2) The fact that you communicate like an overly- analytic, intellectual jackass who probably hasn't the slightest idea of what he's talking about The only women running around on this planet that "consider u with their emotions and respond intelligently" instead of "surrendering to their attraction against their better judgment" are your MOM and your SISTER (they're the only two women I can think of that are likely to be as stuck in their own HEADS as you). Am I "over generalizing" here? Duh. Oh, I'm just warming up, It SEEMS that the techniques I present would SEEM pathetic to these women? It SEEMS? , that they would SEEM? Man, oh man. Look, it SEEMS that a hollow metal tube filled with hundreds of people would NEVER be able to fly 500 miles per hour at 39,000 feet above sea level. But it does. It SEEMS that putting black, dirty coal under tremendous pressure for millions of years would NEVER result in a perfect, beautiful diamond. But it does. And it SEEMS that doing all kinds of things that make logical sense would work. But they don't. Get over it. Oh, and I love u. The fact is that you're probably going to have to meet and date about 50 women before you're going to find a woman that has her act SO together that she can fit your criteria. And guess what? When you finally DO meet a woman who's together enough to be able to consider u for more than just the attraction she feels, you'd damn well better know how to handle the situation. Guess how you'll learn that skill? Right, by dating the other 50, and practicing what you're learning. DUDE! Go |
| Forum Games › Re: Smart Rhymes by Damollar(m): 3:47pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
I have to tell you something, "Anytime i think bout u my heart skips cos I can CLEARLY remember situations that made NO sense to me at all." |
| Forum Games › Re: Smart Rhymes by Damollar(m): 1:18pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
"Excuse me, I noticed you when I walked in", "so i can get u drunk and take advantage of u". or I have a lot of respect for you. Because you always do EXACTLY what I tell you to do. |
| Literature › Re: Story: Night Time At Noon by Damollar(m): 12:59pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
adetunrayo:Thanx dearie |
| Literature › Re: Story: Night Time At Noon by Damollar(m): 11:19am On Sep 06, 2006 |
Show d broda love ya'll. No dulling |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 9:41am On Sep 06, 2006 |
@ mubowa - U knw wat i don't sing cos i rap a lot. If u want some beef honestly i'm in rap spree. I could diss u from now till 4eva in frenzy. & by the way, wats d meaning of your name? Chicken head |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 8:15pm On Sep 05, 2006 |
@ ya'll - Children from all over the world now have a place where they can officially meet to share, discuss and evaluate their emotions and even express their concern of the planet earth. This is courtesy Eddie2006 who unknown to has been cowed the swollen headed idiot looking for love where it will never exist. |
| Literature › Re: Story: Night Time At Noon by Damollar(m): 1:22pm On Sep 05, 2006 |
@ beyunce - hmmmmmmmn, what excactly were u thinking? or u wish , |
| Romance › Re: Should I Tell His Wife That He Is Having An Affair With Me? by Damollar(m): 6:34pm On Sep 04, 2006 |
@ Tesha - Thanx 4 ur lecture. We hope it applies to all asslikewhoa girls. Da Brodas Advocate |
| Literature › Re: Story: Night Time At Noon by Damollar(m): 4:58pm On Sep 04, 2006 |
Double thumbs up, Ebert & Roeper An elecrifying read, New York times |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 7:06pm On Sep 01, 2006 |
@ iice - r u dis bumb? |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 6:31pm On Sep 01, 2006 |
@aloib - sure u do v a white teeth of bad breath. @iice - I'm like any young man who wants to get the most out of life & who loves to have a good time. i'm energetic, mischievous, caring, smart with a positive attitude towards people and life. Since u r dis dumb, i'l just share my story with ya'll, ok? so listen up, On the way home from school one day, i was caught in a rain storm and struck by lightning. From that day on, whenever i gets hit on the head by a book, i gain supernatural powers and become a superhero based on character from the book. Normally this happens when a superhero like me is needed to save your day. I've got the "Power of Knowledge" from reading and this helps me fight off any wrongdoing and aid those less fortunate. So w can i help u ladies with dumb wits? Da Brodas Advocate |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 1:41pm On Sep 01, 2006 |
@aloib - Skunk - Lol - contest 4 Miss World in your dreams cos u can't be a Miss Wold when there has never been a Miss U.i'm sure you are so fat and black that when you wore a yellow T/shirt people called out Taxi! Taxi! that a mosquito has to use a torch to bite you. @iice - ma'm, u ain't gat d nerve 2 diss me cos im pretty sure u v no undstanding of wat diss is. But i could help u stuart lil' - a diss is when you want to have something from someone but you are turned away or when you are interested in someone and he turns you away.it is like a rejection. @Raymand - Every kid's guide to keep informed on what's kicking, where and when. Stay tuned. Da Brodas Advocate |
| Romance › Re: Should I Tell His Wife That He Is Having An Affair With Me? by Damollar(m): 5:21pm On Aug 31, 2006 |
This is d queen of d damed @ work. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Ok,i Admit It;i Need A Girl! by Damollar(m): 1:27pm On Aug 31, 2006 |
@ SOJ - Now let's talk about how to meet women, You know, it's been a LOOOONG time since I've read the words "skeptical", "scientist", "environments", "ya dig", and "Holla back" all in one email. I feel ya, dog. Poignant, yet profound. I sure hope you don't use that unique balance of proper English and Jive with the lizzadies. And by the way, I'm not trying to teach men how to "get laid". I'm teaching guys how to keep their power for themselves, and how to give women what they REALLY want, and how to trigger that emotion called ATTRACTION, so that when the day comes that they meet a TRULY AMAZING woman, they know what to do to get and KEEP her. One way to "build" that reality is to IMAGINE it vividly. Einstein said that "Imagination is more important than knowledge", and a great marketing genius named Roy Williams says that our minds are far better suited to imagination than reality ANYWAY. So let me ask YOU, If you could have your life be any way you want, how would that be? What would happen in your reality? I was talking with a good friend of mine about two weeks ago, and we decided that as humans living in modern times, we can live almost any life we want, if only we decide what that life is going to be, and put our full attention on making that our reality. I know I'm starting to sound a little bit "self-helpish" here, but this is the way it is. And since I'm already ranting and raving like a crazed guy who wants to give your inner child a hug, I might as well go off on a random tangent that I'm thinking about, The night before last, I went out with three friends. All guys. We went to watch a mutual friend's band play at a joint, then went to another joint, and then another. At the third place, one of my friends saw a girl that he wanted to meet. She was what you might call an "Lagos Hottie". She had on a bright red jacket that looked like something an Indy car driver might wear, and she had that look on her face that said "I'm pissed, but I know I'm sexy when I'm pissed, so I'm going to stay that way". I looked at my friend and said, "Let's go". As my friend and I were walking toward her, he was asking me what he should say to her. I realized something in that moment: 1) He was in a place mentally that was beyond something that a cute "pick up line" would fix. 2) He was about to talk to a "professional" when it comes to being approached by men. 3) He needed to learn something, not get the girl. In the end, he said something to her (I won't go into detail because it's not important), she acted stuck up, and we walked away. BUT HERE'S THE IMPORTANT PART, It was obvious that he was feeling a little bit uncomfortable about the whole interaction, about approaching a hot, "unapproachable" girl, then having her "shoot him down". So I said, "Now what's the big deal? Does it matter at all? NO!" Then I said, "Let's go talk to someone else". I think that it's important to realize that your reality is what you MAKE OF IT. I have done a lot of "inner work" on my own reality, and I've come to a deep understanding and realization that no woman can take away my joy and positive outlook on the world UNLESS I GIVE HER THE POWER TO DO SO. So guess what? Women don't upset me anymore. Use your IMAGINATION to create a reality that you WANT to live in, and then start living there. No one is going to call you up and say "Hey, I am granting you permission to live the life you want, so get to it." You're going to have to CREATE the reality that you want to live in, and then start living there. Holla @ me if dis is working 4 u Da Brodas Advocate |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Still Searching For My Better Half by Damollar(m): 12:55pm On Aug 31, 2006 |
aloib: |
. be wise. leave his wife out of it.
Why is it that when a girl is a close friend she is always regarded is a girl friend.
just curious. . .