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AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 8:05am On Sep 24, 2018
Going 300 k
AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 8:03am On Sep 24, 2018
SA
AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 12:05am On Sep 24, 2018
Very much available
AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 6:20am On Sep 23, 2018
Very clean and intact
AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 4:43pm On Sep 22, 2018
Now 320 for quick sale
AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:57pm On Sep 22, 2018
Passenger side

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:50pm On Sep 22, 2018
Back view

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:46pm On Sep 22, 2018
Anoda

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:43pm On Sep 22, 2018
Anoda

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:41pm On Sep 22, 2018
Interior

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:34pm On Sep 22, 2018
Pic

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:30pm On Sep 22, 2018
Anoda

AutosRe: 2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op): 2:28pm On Sep 22, 2018
Pic

Autos2011 KIA Mohave Going For Just 3.7m by Danabu(op):
Its an auto drive
Bought brand new
Rarely used as there are other cars
3rows leather seats
Engine as it is from factory
Ice cold ac
Reverse camera
Everything intact
The pictures says it all
Call 08033313838 or 0811601702 if interested
Location : Lokoja
AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:37pm On Sep 22, 2018
Engine

AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:25pm On Sep 22, 2018
Olohunjedalo:
How is the engine and gear box of this car?
Ok. It is my every day knock about car.
AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 8:39pm On Sep 21, 2018
Negotiable
AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:36pm On Sep 21, 2018
More

AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:33pm On Sep 21, 2018
Driver's side

AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:31pm On Sep 21, 2018
Front

AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 12:30pm On Sep 21, 2018
Anoda pic

AutosRe: Volkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 11:57am On Sep 21, 2018
Pic

AutosVolkswagen Polo Just 350k by Danabu(op): 11:55am On Sep 21, 2018
Manual 1.4 engine.
Location : Lokoja
08033313838 or 0811601702 for more info
RomanceRe: Man Checks Out His Fiancee's Behind In Ankara Inspired Pre-Wedding Photos by Danabu(m): 7:44am On Sep 19, 2018
izuch:
Awwwww, so sweet embarassed
May your union be sweeter than those pictures.
Amen.
AutosRe: HOME FOR ALL KIND OF VOLKSWAGEN MOTOR SPARE PARTS by Danabu(m): 8:02am On Sep 01, 2018
I need 1999/2000 vw polo 1.4 engine and dashboard control panel. How much please
AutosRe: 2004 Prado Going Cheap by Danabu(op): 12:24pm On Aug 21, 2018
3.5m asking.
AutosRe: 2004 Prado Going Cheap by Danabu(op): 8:26pm On Aug 18, 2018
xhero:
Engine pic and price please
That will be tomorrow please.
AutosRe: 2004 Prado Going Cheap by Danabu(op): 2:30pm On Aug 18, 2018
More pics

Autos2004 Prado Going Cheap by Danabu(op): 2:27pm On Aug 18, 2018
The pics speak for me.
Auto and very sound engine
Contact owner on 08073525022
08060988257

RomanceRe: 'Does Anybody Need A Wife? I'm Single' - Pretty Lady Tweets With Her Photos by Danabu(m): 5:39am On Aug 14, 2018
nikkypearl:
She is pretty
You are prettier.
FamilyRe: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Danabu(m): 5:54am On Jul 21, 2018
divinelove:
you are his wife so building the house with your name alone is a big red flag, moreso without his knowledge what type of wife does that? It shows you are preparing for divorce.

There are two sides to a story and I know you are not telling us the whole truth. In the building of the house there is no way the man could not have made a lot of contribution n sacrifice (may be not financial) to see it completed believing it's our house, complete betrayal.

If you are a Christian then always Know that your husband is your head.

He asked you to leave the house but believe me he doesn't mean it, it's just a way for men to show they are in charge.

There is alot of trust issues already but the only way out is to have joint ownership that allows him 60% if you still wants him as your husband. There is no way he will stay in a house u own alone as the wife.
God bless you.
FamilyRe: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Danabu(m): 5:40am On Jul 21, 2018
LewsTherin:
Ok, got that.

Now like I said, normally, I am all for playing the fool in a relationship but your husband has set a bad precedent. First, he changed a joint agreement meant for your joint family in favour of his own family. Then he kicked you out of his house (as he thought it was). Then he insists you use your share of a joint decision, a decision that he reneged on, for his own benefit. Insisted on that twice ie before he knew it was in yiur name and after he knew it was in your name.

That is not good. Basically he has shown he is willing to abandon you and your kids if he “feels” like it. Sweetheart, no offense intended, but you don't have a good husband.

My advice to you and those in similar straits is
First, pray for your husband. Pray for God to change his person, to change his ways. If he claims to be a Christian, he sure as heck isn't showing Christ-like characters

Plan for your kids. Not to the exemption of your husband, but until he shows he can be different, plan to be able to live without him for your kids. I didn't say leave him. I said to be able to live without him. Different things.

Like you have been adviced, get an independent third party to mediate and see how that goes. I understand why you don't want to let your family know but it is dicey if they don't especially as he has involved his family from the beginning. I don't agree, but I understand. Maybe a compromise will be to tell your dad. Not your mum, not your sisters. Women by nature are very emotional and they can let their emotions overwhelm them. Tell your dad in confidence and ask him to keep it that way.

Finally, under no circumstances whatsoever should you add his name to that document. In mediations, the best you should do is to place the property in a trust for your children. Children! Not you, not him, not Mr and Mrs. Put it in the names of ALL your kids with a caveat that it cannot be sold by any one until all kids are above 18 years old.

Most of all, seek mediation and pray a lot for him.

My own advice.
You failed to see that they built the house together. She acquired the land in her name and kept quiet allowing her husband to contribute towards building the house. That is betrayal at its peak! Why didn't she build the house alone since she wanted only her name on the papers? The land and the house which one required more money? She is just greedy.
Her husband has given her the option go choose between him and the property. The choice is hers to make.
From the look of things they may not grow old together since the husband will not accept combined ownership and she won't let go.
As for all of you advising her to divorce the man i believe you are not married or you you don't know the value of marriage and family. For property of how much? I don't think the richest woman in Nigeria is divorced.
FAMILY COMES FIRST.

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