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Romance › She Has Been Pretending All This While. by DANADAMS1(op): 5:14pm On May 14, 2013
"She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours"
I really need help to deal with this betrayal
I'm facing.
I am a 26-year-old man and my girlfriend is
23. We both attend OOU and we stay in an
apartment off campus. She seemed to be a
lovely girl. She cooked for me, took care of
me and was always there for me. We have
not been having sex throughout our
relationship because she told me she was a
virgin. Although I was tempted to go out
and sleep with someone else, I resisted
because I felt she was a good woman and
does not deserve it.
I have heard rumors previously about her
having something to do with some guys in
the area, I refused to believe because I
simply trusted her.
One day, she told me she was gong to
Lagos to see her family. I saw her off to the
bus stop and went for lectures. When I got
back from classes. I needed to borrow some
books for upcoming exams. I went to a
friend who then told me to go ask another
classmate who lives close. When I got there
and knocked, the door opened and it was
my girl standing before me. Tying a towel.
I can't even describe the shock I felt at that
point. I went back to my room in a daze and
just sat quietly. Eventually she came in and
she started pleading. I remembered all the
rumors I've heard and I made her tell me
everything. It was then she told me the
truth, about a few guys in the area she had
slept with. She claims she did not mean to lie
to me. That she only wanted to impress me
and that is why she lied that she was a
virgin. She also says she didn't expect to fall
in love with me and when she did, she did
not know how to tell the truth. She told me
she tried to stop being with the other guys
but she could not.
Since that day, I have moved out of the
apartment we shared. It's been about 2
months and I can't even get over the
betrayal. I feel like I have been played for a
fool. She has been begging me to forgive
and take her back. I don't just want to let
her go, I want to come up with a way that
she will feel the pain she inflicted on me. I
want revenge and I don't think I will be
okay if I don't pay her back.
Please advise.
Family › Re: Who Puts Food On The Table: Does It Matter ? by DANADAMS1: 1:23pm On May 13, 2013
Seen dis story be4.wow is all I can say..is dis story real at all.coz seems like just a figment of imaginations.I dnt think such scenarios exist

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