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She Has Been Pretending All This While. by DANADAMS1: 5:14pm On May 14, 2013 |
"She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours" I really need help to deal with this betrayal I'm facing. I am a 26-year-old man and my girlfriend is 23. We both attend OOU and we stay in an apartment off campus. She seemed to be a lovely girl. She cooked for me, took care of me and was always there for me. We have not been having sex throughout our relationship because she told me she was a virgin. Although I was tempted to go out and sleep with someone else, I resisted because I felt she was a good woman and does not deserve it. I have heard rumors previously about her having something to do with some guys in the area, I refused to believe because I simply trusted her. One day, she told me she was gong to Lagos to see her family. I saw her off to the bus stop and went for lectures. When I got back from classes. I needed to borrow some books for upcoming exams. I went to a friend who then told me to go ask another classmate who lives close. When I got there and knocked, the door opened and it was my girl standing before me. Tying a towel. I can't even describe the shock I felt at that point. I went back to my room in a daze and just sat quietly. Eventually she came in and she started pleading. I remembered all the rumors I've heard and I made her tell me everything. It was then she told me the truth, about a few guys in the area she had slept with. She claims she did not mean to lie to me. That she only wanted to impress me and that is why she lied that she was a virgin. She also says she didn't expect to fall in love with me and when she did, she did not know how to tell the truth. She told me she tried to stop being with the other guys but she could not. Since that day, I have moved out of the apartment we shared. It's been about 2 months and I can't even get over the betrayal. I feel like I have been played for a fool. She has been begging me to forgive and take her back. I don't just want to let her go, I want to come up with a way that she will feel the pain she inflicted on me. I want revenge and I don't think I will be okay if I don't pay her back. Please advise. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by ohaleoghene(f): 5:27pm On May 14, 2013 |
Lover boy , first is wrong to have a girl stay with you as students that both of you are . She has told you all with her mouth , what do you want again if not to learn lessons , dust yourself like nothing ever happened , I know is hard , but try . Most importantly , please face your studies leave some person who doesn't have respect for her body as a woman . Sorry o when you are ready , you will get a good woman , but don't habor a girl at home o ..I so hated this when I was a student. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by firetrap(m): 6:24pm On May 14, 2013 |
my man, in the process of getting your pound of flesh you'll be doing your self more harm than good. its hard to comprehend the betrayal but you must learn one thing from this and that is to trust wisely and not because someone told u something. humans are deceitful 1 Like |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by sweettease(f): 6:37pm On May 14, 2013 |
Oops! Busted Such a conniving scheming biatch can hav several other evil plans up her sleeves. I say you dump her cheap bottom faster than you will drop a red-hot coal and let karma catch up with her #what goes around always come around 2 Likes |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by prosper86: 9:10pm On May 14, 2013 |
Human beings with lies and trust issues! Never give an open cheque to trust anybody, its something that should be earned, I will advice u break up the relationship and don't retaliate,learn lessons from it |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Nobody: 9:24pm On May 14, 2013 |
but poster, U naaaaaaaa jew man!! abegi, u for knack ur own akpako well well before u dump am.. I no pity ur type sha! u dey spend money on top am, another man dey chop am like suya.. o ma se o 3 Likes |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Kslib(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2013 |
Hmmmn,okay just pretend you've accepted her back and insist on having sex with her.. When she opens her hole for you,just pour grinded pepper inside and scream "oh my god,i thought i was cooking beans" "baby pls sorry"... 1 Like |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Kslib(m): 11:25pm On May 14, 2013 |
Double post |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Ab025(m): 11:38pm On May 14, 2013 |
Guy, Bone d chick, she is not worth u hustlin to bleep her again, bt if she bring d tin free of charge, then bleep her bt right now, u shudnt be tinkin abt how to hurt her back in one way or d other.....tell her to continue goin round ur area messin around |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Toks2008(m): 11:45pm On May 14, 2013 |
DAN ADAMS: "She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours" MTSHEW! Another boring story of a slut doing what she knows how to do best. Man grab yourlife back, 99.9% of ladies are sluts. Next topic please |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Sheenor: 11:52pm On May 14, 2013 |
OP.............yuh fall ma hand.........yawa don gas......wetin remain again?....na 2 accept her con start yur on bangin naah... |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Pdizzle(m): 12:23am On May 15, 2013 |
Start your yanshing straight.. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Daresh(f): 12:37am On May 15, 2013 |
DAN ADAMS: "She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours" Move on with your life sweetie, you are too good for her. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by greatgod2012(f): 2:44am On May 15, 2013 |
You have learnt your lesson, you dont need to avenge, karma will surely catch up with her, just dust yourself, and move on with your life. Thank God you discovered ealier, before you introduce her to your parents or even before you guys get married, its because God knew you dont deserve such a pretender that He allowed you to catch her. So, thank your God and move on. Another thing, you are still in school, God will see you through but dont harbour babes in your place again, its distractive. One more thing, dont try to have s...ex with her in order to avenge, two wrongs can never make a right. Goodluck. 2 Likes |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Mynd44: 6:26am On May 15, 2013 |
Wait, the OP left her without collecting his share? See bad market ooo. Okay that was me being crazy. Dust yourself up and move the crap on jorh. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Exponental(m): 6:46am On May 15, 2013 |
Send her Born2fuk Remand Home. She needs some councelling. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by yuzedo: 8:15am On May 15, 2013 |
Op bro, what u expect? OSU babe tell u she a vachin & u belief? Bro just nyash her & move on, truss me! |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by WorldwarIII: 10:46am On May 15, 2013 |
Hahaha, as expected, ladies are writing; "move on with your life", "leave her, she is not good for you", "there is no need to revenge, God will give you a better woman" .....while guys are saying "it's payback time", "you be mugu, chop you own now and dump her ass!"......nothing strange though , it's just life, girls fear judgement visited on them and guys don't want to be taken for a ride.... |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Mynd44: 10:50am On May 15, 2013 |
^^ |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by dmcdad: 11:19am On May 15, 2013 |
@op Ehya... I understand the frustration that must have befallen you but then, to be sincere with you, revenge won't make you feel better. The best way to handle situations like this is to pick yourself up and move on. I know it's sometimes hard to accept it this way because you feel you have been taken for a ride, but the ugly truth therein is that payback will never erase the stigma. So, my advice for you is to walk away and leave everything where they are. I know it might be difficult to let go completely but then thats the best there is to do as any action taken other than that will be regretted, trust me! Moreover, you sound like a good guy. Please dont let that good seed in you die becauee of one biatch that doesn't deserve you in the first place. What goes around, comes around. In other words, whatsoever one sows, same shall be reaped. Leave her to karma. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Nobody: 11:25am On May 15, 2013 |
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Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Nobody: 11:43am On May 15, 2013 |
The only true and trusted friend you have in life is: YOU!!!! |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by DigitalSignal(m): 12:40pm On May 15, 2013 |
Kai, see suffer! Girls, some of una nor good at all! After the free house, free food, free cream, free soap, free clothes, free allowance and all the attention na dis kind of punishment!!! My brother it's painful but just Learn a thing or two from it and let her go; face your school and don't think too much about what she's done to you! |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by AtheistD(m): 12:51pm On May 15, 2013 |
All I have to say is... be grateful you never slept with her. Just call it a bad bit of business and quickly move ahead. You are still young and have 20-30 yrs of excitement and ladies (unless you get married of course ). |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Nobody: 1:30pm On May 15, 2013 |
PH.UCK HER LIKE YOU HAVE 48 HOURS TO LIVE AND WHEN YOU ARE DONE START SINGING THIS SONG #IF UR GIRL FRND IS CHEATIN' ON U.....DROP HER LIKE ITS HOT (3CE)# #IF SHE PRETENDS THAT SHES FEELY SORRY.....DROP HER LIKE ITS HOT (3CE)# REPEAT CHORUS TILL SHE FADES |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Nobody: 1:49pm On May 15, 2013 |
@ op Next time, please type your story properly. It was so difficult to decipher! Well, just move on with your life, that is really the best option for you now. |
Re: She Has Been Pretending All This While. by Abbey2sam(m): 1:56pm On May 15, 2013 |
It baffles me when a guy narrate a sad story like this about a biatch who 4ck around and some biatch will also come here to condemn her........you r all the same........ @op Guy you jew die, you fall boys hand, how you go put woman for house dey feed her you no dey lubricate her cunt.......haba!!! Haba........are you this naïve? One advice though, don't think of any revenge or you must end up hurting yourself more......just move on |
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