"She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours"
I really need help to deal with this betrayal
I'm facing.
I am a 26-year-old man and my girlfriend is
23. We both attend OOU and we stay in an
apartment off campus. She seemed to be a
lovely girl. She cooked for me, took care of
me and was always there for me. We have
not been having sex throughout our
relationship because she told me she was a
virgin. Although I was tempted to go out
and sleep with someone else, I resisted
because I felt she was a good woman and
does not deserve it.
I have heard rumors previously about her
having something to do with some guys in
the area, I refused to believe because I
simply trusted her.
One day, she told me she was gong to
Lagos to see her family. I saw her off to the
bus stop and went for lectures. When I got
back from classes. I needed to borrow some
books for upcoming exams. I went to a
friend who then told me to go ask another
classmate who lives close. When I got there
and knocked, the door opened and it was
my girl standing before me. Tying a towel.
I can't even describe the shock I felt at that
point. I went back to my room in a daze and
just sat quietly. Eventually she came in and
she started pleading. I remembered all the
rumors I've heard and I made her tell me
everything. It was then she told me the
truth, about a few guys in the area she had
slept with. She claims she did not mean to lie
to me. That she only wanted to impress me
and that is why she lied that she was a
virgin. She also says she didn't expect to fall
in love with me and when she did, she did
not know how to tell the truth. She told me
she tried to stop being with the other guys
but she could not.
Since that day, I have moved out of the
apartment we shared. It's been about 2
months and I can't even get over the
betrayal. I feel like I have been played for a
fool. She has been begging me to forgive
and take her back. I don't just want to let
her go, I want to come up with a way that
she will feel the pain she inflicted on me. I
want revenge and I don't think I will be
okay if I don't pay her back.
Please advise.

Lover boy , first is wrong to have a girl stay with you as students that both of you are . She has told you all with her mouth , what do you want again if not to learn lessons , dust yourself like nothing ever happened , I know is hard , but try . Most importantly , please face your studies leave some person who doesn't have respect for her body as a woman . Sorry o when you are ready , you will get a good woman , but don't habor a girl at home o ..I so hated this when I was a student.

my man, in the process of getting your pound of flesh you'll be doing your self more harm than good. its hard to comprehend the betrayal but you must learn one thing from this and that is to trust wisely and not because someone told u something. humans are deceitful

Oops! Busted
Such a conniving scheming biatch can hav several other evil plans up her sleeves. I say you dump her cheap bottom faster than you will drop a red-hot coal and let karma catch up with her #what goes around always come around

Human beings with lies and trust issues! Never give an open cheque to trust anybody, its something that should be earned, I will advice u break up the relationship and don't retaliate,learn lessons from it

but poster, U naaaaaaaa jew man!! abegi, u for knack ur own akpako well well before u dump am.. I no pity ur type sha! u dey spend money on top am, another man dey chop am like suya.. o ma se o

Hmmmn,okay just pretend you've accepted her back and insist on having sex with her.. When she opens her hole for you,just pour grinded pepper inside and scream "oh my god,i thought i was cooking beans" "baby pls sorry"...

Double post

Guy, Bone d chick, she is not worth u hustlin to bleep her again, bt if she bring d tin free of charge, then bleep her bt right now, u shudnt be tinkin abt how to hurt her back in one way or d other.....tell her to continue goin round ur area messin around

DAN ADAMS: "She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours"
I really need help to deal with this betrayal
I'm facing.
I am a 26-year-old man and my girlfriend is
23. We both attend OOU and we stay in an
apartment off campus. She seemed to be a
lovely girl. She cooked for me, took care of
me and was always there for me. We have
not been having sex throughout our
relationship because she told me she was a
virgin. Although I was tempted to go out
and sleep with someone else, I resisted
because I felt she was a good woman and
does not deserve it.
I have heard rumors previously about her
having something to do with some guys in
the area, I refused to believe because I
simply trusted her.
One day, she told me she was gong to
Lagos to see her family. I saw her off to the
bus stop and went for lectures. When I got
back from classes. I needed to borrow some
books for upcoming exams. I went to a
friend who then told me to go ask another
classmate who lives close. When I got there
and knocked, the door opened and it was
my girl standing before me. Tying a towel.
I can't even describe the shock I felt at that
point. I went back to my room in a daze and
just sat quietly. Eventually she came in and
she started pleading. I remembered all the
rumors I've heard and I made her tell me
everything. It was then she told me the
truth, about a few guys in the area she had
slept with. She claims she did not mean to lie
to me. That she only wanted to impress me
and that is why she lied that she was a
virgin. She also says she didn't expect to fall
in love with me and when she did, she did
not know how to tell the truth. She told me
she tried to stop being with the other guys
but she could not.
Since that day, I have moved out of the
apartment we shared. It's been about 2
months and I can't even get over the
betrayal. I feel like I have been played for a
fool. She has been begging me to forgive
and take her back. I don't just want to let
her go, I want to come up with a way that
she will feel the pain she inflicted on me. I
want revenge and I don't think I will be
okay if I don't pay her back.
Please advise.

MTSHEW! Another boring story of a slut doing what she knows how to do best. Man grab yourlife back, 99.9% of ladies are sluts. Next topic please

OP.............yuh fall ma hand.........yawa don gas......wetin remain again?....na 2 accept her con start yur on bangin naah...

DAN ADAMS: "She Told Me She's A Virgin But She Has Been Sleeping With Our Neighbours"
I really need help to deal with this betrayal
I'm facing.
I am a 26-year-old man and my girlfriend is
23. We both attend OOU and we stay in an
apartment off campus. She seemed to be a
lovely girl. She cooked for me, took care of
me and was always there for me. We have
not been having sex throughout our
relationship because she told me she was a
virgin. Although I was tempted to go out
and sleep with someone else, I resisted
because I felt she was a good woman and
does not deserve it.
I have heard rumors previously about her
having something to do with some guys in
the area, I refused to believe because I
simply trusted her.
One day, she told me she was gong to
Lagos to see her family. I saw her off to the
bus stop and went for lectures. When I got
back from classes. I needed to borrow some
books for upcoming exams. I went to a
friend who then told me to go ask another
classmate who lives close. When I got there
and knocked, the door opened and it was
my girl standing before me. Tying a towel.
I can't even describe the shock I felt at that
point. I went back to my room in a daze and
just sat quietly. Eventually she came in and
she started pleading. I remembered all the
rumors I've heard and I made her tell me
everything. It was then she told me the
truth, about a few guys in the area she had
slept with. She claims she did not mean to lie
to me. That she only wanted to impress me
and that is why she lied that she was a
virgin. She also says she didn't expect to fall
in love with me and when she did, she did
not know how to tell the truth. She told me
she tried to stop being with the other guys
but she could not.
Since that day, I have moved out of the
apartment we shared. It's been about 2
months and I can't even get over the
betrayal. I feel like I have been played for a
fool. She has been begging me to forgive
and take her back. I don't just want to let
her go, I want to come up with a way that
she will feel the pain she inflicted on me. I
want revenge and I don't think I will be
okay if I don't pay her back.
Please advise.

Move on with your life sweetie, you are too good for her.

You have learnt your lesson, you dont need to avenge, karma will surely catch up with her, just dust yourself, and move on with your life. Thank God you discovered ealier, before you introduce her to your parents or even before you guys get married, its because God knew you dont deserve such a pretender that He allowed you to catch her. So, thank your God and move on.

Another thing, you are still in school, God will see you through but dont harbour babes in your place again, its distractive.


One more thing, dont try to have s...ex with her in order to avenge, two wrongs can never make a right.
Goodluck.

Wait, the OP left her without collecting his share? See bad market ooo.

Okay that was me being crazy. Dust yourself up and move the crap on jorh.

Send her Born2fuk Remand Home. She needs some councelling.

Op bro, what u expect? OSU babe tell u she a vachin & u belief? Bro just nyash her & move on, truss me!

Hahaha, as expected, ladies are writing; "move on with your life", "leave her, she is not good for you", "there is no need to revenge, God will give you a better woman" .....while guys are saying "it's payback time", "you be mugu, chop you own now and dump her ass!"......nothing strange though , it's just life, girls fear judgement visited on them and guys don't want to be taken for a ride....

^^

@op Ehya... I understand the frustration that must have befallen you but then, to be sincere with you, revenge won't make you feel better. The best way to handle situations like this is to pick yourself up and move on. I know it's sometimes hard to accept it this way because you feel you have been taken for a ride, but the ugly truth therein is that payback will never erase the stigma.

So, my advice for you is to walk away and leave everything where they are. I know it might be difficult to let go completely but then thats the best there is to do as any action taken other than that will be regretted, trust me!

Moreover, you sound like a good guy. Please dont let that good seed in you die becauee of one biatch that doesn't deserve you in the first place.

What goes around, comes around. In other words, whatsoever one sows, same shall be reaped. Leave her to karma.

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The only true and trusted friend you have in life is: YOU!!!!

Kai, see suffer! Girls, some of una nor good at all! After the free house, free food, free cream, free soap, free clothes, free allowance and all the attention na dis kind of punishment!!! My brother it's painful but just Learn a thing or two from it and let her go; face your school and don't think too much about what she's done to you!

All I have to say is... be grateful you never slept with her.

Just call it a bad bit of business and quickly move ahead. You are still young and have 20-30 yrs of excitement and ladies (unless you get married of course ).

@ op
Next time, please type your story properly. It was so difficult to decipher!
Well, just move on with your life, that is really the best option for you now.

It baffles me when a guy narrate a sad story like this about a biatch who 4ck around and some biatch will also come here to condemn her........you r all the same........

@op
Guy you jew die, you fall boys hand, how you go put woman for house dey feed her you no dey lubricate her cunt.......haba!!! Haba........are you this naïve?

One advice though, don't think of any revenge or you must end up hurting yourself more......just move on