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laikas:
same o, no money to buy new one.

ehn but the phone can receive pm na. And upload your face sef. You don't have money to buy new one? Should i introduce a sugar daddy to you ?

laikas:
sorry to disappoint yhu, i dnt do any of that, even the ones yhu are yet to ask. my phone "got ill".

I'm joking joor. What happened to your phone? Which one are u using now?

laikas:

i dnt do mouth

but you do preeq? Where have u been joor? I want to send a PM o.

Laikas u know u should be kissing me laidis

It will never be better for Poverty

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

1 don't ever force urself to love anyone 2. Keep your ears off people's opinion. 3. Go extra mile for God e.g like go for evangelism once in a while or jus sow a wonderful seed. With all these i believe God will meet you at the point of your need. Also keep an open mind too. Your expectation shall never be caught off.

axortedbabe:
Instagram at this age..
Kwontinu

nawa for u o. You dy 4get person o.

LoL.Nairaland girls avoiding this kind thread like shit...in AdekunleGOLD VOICE #hustle no fit kill anybody o!

Failure is a thing of mind. Every success starts from the mind with determination. Nice one Mr ifeanyi.

Thunder fvcking fire poverty. Recession got nothing on you bro.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Youll be surprised the things people know about you that you don't think they know.

See how you are comfortably supporting lies and insincerity in a relationship. People like that are those who will definitely have something to hide in a relationship. Instead of them to watch their ways now, they'll comfortably be doing what they want with the assurance that they'll just hide it as their pasts when the time comes for a serious relationship.

So the truth will definitely come out from somewhere. [/color]

GBAM!

misspicy:
I intentionally refused to make a comment on this thread,I don't want to judge anybody,but I'm strongly against abortion,maybe because I have a family member TTC,any news about abortion enrages me.

Op should dust up and move on,life goes on,she should seek God's face,God is a merciful and forgiving father

Nobody in his/her right senses would would love abortion or luv to hear such from his soon to become wife. I'm just suprise when somebody said we always like to put church stuff into realities like church is not reality? Ibo ni aye yi gan lo na?

Misspicy howfa? What's your take on this topic. I had love to hear from you.

Laveda:
Please face reality and leave church out of this.
What has foresight and mother inlaw got to do with this? This is another problem we have in Nigeria any little thing is linked to church and all that.

Smh

we link every little thing to church? Lol. Ok.

Laveda:
You don't know what you saying, if she didn't tell he wouldn't know.

lol. Na the guy mama sef go come house come tell the guy say 'so your wife did abortion' if you are a christian ther read 1cor 12.4:12 then you will understand the gift of 'word of wisdom' that people actually do see things in the past. This write up will be meaningless to you if only you are an atheist or you just go church for fun fare. I have witness this type of situation few months ago.

Laveda:
Who'll tell him? You?!

so the abortion isit a dog or a goat who coducted the abortion? Or is it a dog who priscribed the drugs for you. I repeat NOTHING remain secret forever unless the truth is not ready. This particular case happened before my own eyes to a couple stays in woji there. This same abortion story. Lol

Laveda:
Its not like she won't be able to give birth, so what's the ish here?

For me, anything I know would push my man away I wouldn't tell him..

There are things my fiancee would tell me and I can't handle it, I'll rather walk away.
You're just one person. We aren't all the same while some can live with the truth, some can't. That's the case here..

and when your fiance finds out later?

sinceraconcept:
but change is never permanent. We all get rich,and broke at times. Look old and young at times,fleshy,muscular,slimmer and back to our normal self at times. She'll still feel interested in dating girls after her initial gra gra,give am 5 years and she go dey bring girls come your house pretending its only a female friend or smooch girls for work

Now u ard nt getting my point sir.

Laveda:
You should know everyone is not the same, not everyone can handle it.. That's what some people have failed to understand, not because a man says he loves you and would marry you, then you choose to open up everything to him.

Really, there are some truth we can't handle, that's fact!

my questions are why do u think hiding it from him is best?, and what makes you feel or think he can't find out after the marriage? Don't you think telling him earlier will be better?. I want you to know that 'NOTHING' is a secret unless the truth is not set to come out yet. Anybody who cannot accept your past, let him/her gerra-out.

sinceraconcept:
can you marry a girl that had been a lesbian for 20 years?

she praticed lesbianism for 20years but now she's a changed person.yes i can marry her

Laveda:
Lol what man of God?

See some men are very bad at handling truth, I still feel she shouldn't have..
Its in the past, better left there.

you say man of God? Yea i'm a christian and i believe there are still great men of God with deep word of wisdom. anyman who can't handle your past is not for you. Any woman who also can't tell the truth about her past to her man is nt for the man. Vice Versa. I will marry a prostitute as long as she is no more there..life is not that hard abeg.

Laveda:
Mehn.. Best on this thread.

Kudos!

Its not everything you tell a man cause you love him, especially when you don't know how he reacts to some issues.

This is where you get it all wrong.That dude is not meant for her at all.if the dude truely luvs her he will allow the past to stay in the past. She should be happy sef that all these things happened before marriage. And why do you think the guy won't find out later? Is it not in this nigeria where we have heavy men of God who has a gift of word of wisdom to see things? The truth is THAT GUY IS NOT MEANT FOR HER. Her husband will come and so pregnancy will come too.

Happybirthday sir wish you more GROWTH.I tap into the grace and speed that follows you, from today may i never struggle to achieve any good thing in my life anymore.AMEN!

'I'm to big' is the reason why some are not educated today or get what they want. Welldone mama!

faitheverest:

faitheverest:
E dey pain me say e leak naaa bro

lol. Sorry

spamgod:
You forgot He has a daughter too

looool