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Wizardslayer:
America will remain a world power as long as she backs Israel.

Israel will surely come out stronger and more dominant.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

I understand your predicament. If only you will follow strictly my tips, you will be free. Your deliverance/freedom may not be a snappy fast/furious approach, but gradually;
1. Go to God in sincere repentance and cry to Him for your deliverance.
2. Daily pray to God for deliverance. It's not a one time/day prayer. If you can, from time to time do prayer/fasting
3. If you can, sow a seed, the amount you can afford and ask God to accept your sacrifice and show you mercy unto deliverance.
4. Stop completely watching pornography or any content including nolllywood/social media that has pornography/explicit content.
5. Devote yourself to reading books. Start with the force of freedom by David Oyedepo, They Shall Expel Demons by Derek Prince, Deliverance from Spirit Wife/Husband by Dr D.K Olukoya, Marine Demon by John Eckardt.
6. Look for a Bible believing church that preaches Holiness and purity, do not go to social gathering church of dress as you like: Lords Chosen, Mountain of fire, Deeper Life Bible Church.

At all times, you must be angry with yourself over this situation and must be restless/uncomfortable, that is your gateway to total freedom. You can reach out me, I once faced similar situation, thanks to God for His Divine Mercy that found me

Jointheir7:
One of the ways to break the stronghold of Satan, is to expose him in the light. That's what you have done and I salute your courage.

I suggest you go before God, in repentance and surrender and ask the Holy Spirit to help you break free from Satan's chokehold.

You can do all things through Christ that strengthens you!

I'm praying for and await your testimony.🤗

Someone suggested marriage as a remedy. While that is one of the reasons for marriage, it cannot remedy your situation at the moment. You will have to get yourself together so that when you get married, you will not make a shipwreck of it by being unfaithful to your spouse, for lack of self control. Blessings!

Exactly. Very nice helpful comment. In addition to that, let him get The Force of Freedom by David Oyedepo, it will surely help.

Very very commendable. Highly recommended for reasonable countries. A right step in the right direction.

Arabk25:
Asaba is one of the cleanest city in Nigeria

Asaba should be in the bottom 10, maybe 34th. Very dirty, dilapidated, and disorganized city. Make Una tell Una governors to do better. Tufiakwa oil rich delta with bad government

See marginalisation, no key project in Ngwa, road a to c, Abia north, Otti remove your masks and stop pretending to come from isialangwa, it no more hidden

perverted365:
I come here every few years to see how you are doing. Still the same issues. I try to reach out to help, but you won't take help. I guess you are happy with your life. It's sad cos you were once a very bright young man.

You are not alone. I see a great man under a heavy spell and captivity, I have offered to assist, but whatever is behind his predicament have blindfolded him not to see those who genuinely want to help him.

congo4ka:
I am one of your fans. I love to read your epistles and lamentations

Me too, anytime I feel bored and want to go to the extreme of recklessness, I will come here to read and warn myself

dominique:
Goodluck Jonathan. His anger and destruction rampage started when Jonathan lost the election

You know nothing about Nnamdi Kanu. Nnamdi Kanu started his broadcast sometimes 2012, it wasn't stable then. He started gaining audience and momentum around 2014 in the build up of 2015 election. The number one critique of Jonathan was Nnamdi Kanu, not Tinubu or buhari. Nnamdi Kanu called Jonathan unpredictable names and asked people not to vote him because he lacked the guts to use his veto power to effect positive change, if he is incapacitated, he should call for referendum and divide the country, that was the message of Nnamdi Kanu. Nnamdi Kanu have serious anger issues when it comes to what's happening in Nigeria and he use it against Jonathan. Nnamdi Kanu discouraged a lot of people from voting in 2015. If there's anyone that suffered unprovoked insults and invectives, it's Jonathan and Roachas Okorocha. These two men were heavily criticised and humiliated by Nnamdi Kanu.

I used to rate you high and believe that you are informed and enlightened but you proved me wrong. I never knew that you reason like those balabulu bmc zombies in this web.

dominique:
His Zoo must fall tirade started in 2015 after his preferred candidate didn't win the election. That he advocated for good governance doesn't mean he should not be held responsible for the destruction spree he ordered his followers to go on. If he had stayed in London calling out the bad government, he wouldn't be in this situation he currently is

So who was his preferred candidate in 2015 election? Give me direct specific and factual answer, I will honour you with something, else....

You have a point. At least she was emotional and expressed empathy unlike what we have today. No emotion, no empathy, madam just de waka up and down sharing palliatives to party members intending to buy their conscience and supports without concern on what's going on in the country. Their son is busy seeking supporters and alliances to emerge Lagos governor, while their emolikan, whom on his sleeping manhood they stood is busy doozing while being carried all over the world with our national courier. What a family!

TallNigerian:
I am beginning to realize I am a part of this problem. For supporting this callous government who has continued to live in denial rather than take action. God please forgive me

You started too early to cry, it will surely get to you or your family members, then you will realise it is not about tribalism

What are the best treatment of pneumonia for adults?

Everybody just tire for geometric in ABA. People are paying for estimated arias billing of which they never enjoyed. That was how my church was asked to pay twice from what was being charged, as the current bill. The church was paying between #500,000 -#550,000, all of a sudden, they began to bill them #1,100,000-#120,000,000. Everybody in ABA is crying over the crazy billing from geometric power.

The Governor need to intervene. The governor also need to do something over his government excruciating tax regime. This present government is taxing abians to pains. I don't know if geometric is copying the government in billing or Abia government is copying geometric.

Nnamdi Kalu have decided to accept whatever be the outcome of the situation. He fears no one, whatever will be will be!

Metrics4tea:
What of Nemel Pharmaceutical Company, Enugu. what's their pay structure

Did you later work at Nemel, how is the company, how is their payment structures, please enlighten me.

franchasng:
God bless Alex Otti.....this man has single handedly transformed Abia state in less than 2 years of governance. This is what good and sincere leadership can achieve. Abia state is no longer the dirty state without direction....its now the leader in good governance and quality leadership.


This is a bit of what Nigeria would have enjoyed if Peter Obi's mandate was not stolen in 2023. God will show mercy sha, its well

Nothing concerns Alex Otti in this.

This Esau don sell his position for money, intimidation and fear.

Marine spirit and foundational spirits are against you, they may have possessed someone to betray you. Be careful out there

tundegan:
Nigeria is a sovereign nation, and we have our unique strengths. Military budgets and personnel numbers only tell part of the story. It's about strategy, technology, and national interest. We are solving our problems with Nigerian solutions, and that's what matters.

Haaa! Na so you rate Nigeria reach? US police will finish the entire Nigeria Air, Land and Sea Military architecture within 2days. For a fair war play between Nigeria and USA, it should be US Hollywood and the entire Nigeria military force of air, land and sea.

The two face demons called Rhino Omockery and Femi Fani Kayode. I have never seen a hypocrite so daring and glaring like these duo. I wonder if human blood run in their vein abi na blood of beast and vampire? Even the devil will surprise that such humans exists

Quelme:
With the kind useless pastors we have? No way mehn.

Chris, Oyedepo, Kumuyi, Suleiman, Fufeyin, Eze, Fatoyinbo are all criminals.

Please do well to remove Kumuyi, there are few pastors out there who are genuine and not stained. Kumuyi is one of them.

MrSly:
I would prefer PO and pray Jonathan will support him. But if not and Jonathan is on yhe ballot. Tinubu is a gonner.

The same with me, but it will be easier for Jonathan to win than Peter obi. Jonathan won't do much conviction to curry the support of North, moreover, it's certain that Jonathan has only one tenure.

Jonathan joining the race in 2027 will be a game changer. Peter obi will suspend his presidential ambition and support Jonathan. Atiku will put on hold his presidential ambition and also support Jonathan. South East, South South, and many parts of North will be a landslide victory for Jonathan. For these urchins, including the lawyer in the above article can cringe and suffer epilepsy for all I care. Not again to the demonic hurricane that has befallen Nigerians.

Woooow! Edo is surprisingly doing well. Abia need to do better

God bless the USA, the United States should come to the rescue of Nigerian Christian. Especially those in northern Nigeria, Muslim terrorists in the disguise of Fulani herdsmen and bandit are slaughtering Christian communities in Benue, Plateau, Taraba, Bauchi, Kaduna, Kogi, Nasarawa states daily. May God in His infinite mercy through the USA deliver Christians in Northern Nigeria. My heart bleeds each time I remember their plights.

pocohantas:
Bringing the mum should never be an issue. I want to believe there is a reason their house is the most convenient. I remember when my late aunty was sick, her sons in-law refused to have her come over. So my mum had to bring her to our house. I wonder how her daughters are looking at their husbands now that she is dead.

Issues like this are handled with sense and a lot of empathy. Let her come __non-negotiable. Get a domestic staff to help out because tending to a home and a sick elder isn't easy. Imagine if they both have jobs. Na die be that.

For the past 10years I have known you in this forum, your comments is always humanely and full of wisdom. People who want to live to old age do not want anything to do with aged people. It's about money, their comfort and theireselvess and their children. What elderly people need most is attention of their children, especially when they are sick.