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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by josielewa(m): 7:03pm On Jan 17
Instead of carrying different prostitutes, just find just 1 that you will be gbanshing grin grin, make sure you dont gbansh anyother one for sometime, that way you deal the first problem of sleeping with different women. now step 2, calculate your monthly earnings, deduct what is able to take you through the month, and lock the rest in opay or palmpay. Having access to excess money is what is driving your taste in prostitutes. Now after being with just 1 for sometime, just cut her off, or pray she relocates from that place. then go a month without patronizing them, at that point, you will have what is called clarity of the mind, if you can stay away from her for a month, then you have solved the problem, because the longer you stay with a lady, the more affection or desire you start having for her. When she finally leaves you, you will not be interested in picking others because at that time you will have clarity of mind about sex, and how its not the most important thing in life.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by PROPHETmichael: 7:04pm On Jan 17
It's because you have the money to patronise them. Should I pray that you go broke and busted?

Answer quickly, I'm on the mountain
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by usebog: 7:04pm On Jan 17
Being broke will make you wise up. Just wait and see
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Emychina(m): 7:10pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
The only solution to your problem is been spiritual. The spirit of fornication has taken over you and there's nothing you can do about it only been spiritual. Come to me and i will deliver you
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by ViceGovernor: 7:10pm On Jan 17
And me I want to patronize them but I don't have the means yet.

Somebody is here trying to run from them 🤔

Strange world it is innit?
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Gerundphrase: 7:22pm On Jan 17
Lash one without protection, get infection in the process, but treat yourself only then can you start seeing prostitutes as dirt which are.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by janda1: 7:31pm On Jan 17
verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.
It can't solve this, just 2 times sex...I don weak for the whole month.... seriously weak, takes me more than 4 weeks to recover back even a month and half and some one just cum 20 times let's say 50 times , maybe 3 rounds in a row
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by gassbee: 7:36pm On Jan 17
If u no get liver to toast woman, talk to your freinds to help you out. They can even link you up with a wife to be
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by poweredcom(m): 7:40pm On Jan 17
Iamblessed88:
How do you know that is not his alternate? Since he got bursted for fake alert at cynergy, he has been living double life both online and offline
Nicca you and that wotowotoman una own don de too much ok here ..am not liking the wan you guys are after me
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by mosicola(m): 7:40pm On Jan 17
I prefer prostitutes to present day girlfriends that will be collecting different gbolas and still claim you are the only one
They will give you STDs from different sperm that enter them without protection. Prostitutes will always use protection. Minimize the number but I bet you prostitutes are better than leeches. Have you wondered why majority of men do hookup girls
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DaniDani(m): 7:41pm On Jan 17
Jointheir7:
One of the ways to break the stronghold of Satan, is to expose him in the light. That's what you have done and I salute your courage.

I suggest you go before God, in repentance and surrender and ask the Holy Spirit to help you break free from Satan's chokehold.

You can do all things through Christ that strengthens you!

I'm praying for and await your testimony.🤗

Someone suggested marriage as a remedy. While that is one of the reasons for marriage, it cannot remedy your situation at the moment. You will have to get yourself together so that when you get married, you will not make a shipwreck of it by being unfaithful to your spouse, for lack of self control. Blessings!
Exactly. Very nice helpful comment. In addition to that, let him get The Force of Freedom by David Oyedepo, it will surely help.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Aringon(m): 7:42pm On Jan 17
Yiu need deliverance because sex is spiritual and you have received a spiritual attack on your life.


MONEY247:
Become accountable to someone...
A church leader
A respected adult

Try to consistently save excess money
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Sirchiboy: 7:43pm On Jan 17
PROPHETmichael:
It's because you have the money to patronise them. Should I pray that you go broke and busted?

Answer quickly, I'm on the mountain
Release bullions on my life
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Miramonica: 7:43pm On Jan 17
Go on your knees and pray to God. He alone can save you. Do fasting and cry unto him if you can.

My own is addiction to colos and loud, but I prayed to God, told him I don't want to live that kinda life again...it's been over a month now and counting...

And to show you that God has delivered me form spirit of colos and canadian loud, I don't even have the urge to take it again. I even feel like vomiting when I pass people taking it.

There's nothing, absolutely nothing God almighty cannot do.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Iykenuwa(m): 7:44pm On Jan 17
Get the books:

WALKING IN THE NEWNESS OF LIFE

and

CONQUERING CONTROLLING POWERS


by Bishop David Oyedepo

You will be set free by Christ.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Wotowotoman: 7:44pm On Jan 17
poweredcom:
Nicca you and that wotowotoman una own don de too much ok here ..am not liking the wan you guys are after me
Brother Poweredcom, why you dey talk like this na? That brolosho dey learn from olosho veteran like you na. Abi you wan deny say you no be baba agba for olosho thread again? undecided
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Wotowotoman: 7:46pm On Jan 17
josielewa:
Instead of carrying different prostitutes, just find just 1 that you will be gbanshing grin grin, make sure you dont gbansh anyother one for sometime, that way you deal the first problem of sleeping with different women. now step 2, calculate your monthly earnings, deduct what is able to take you through the month, and lock the rest in opay or palmpay. Having access to excess money is what is driving your taste in prostitutes. Now after being with just 1 for sometime, just cut her off, or pray she relocates from that place. then go a month without patronizing them, at that point, you will have what is called clarity of the mind, if you can stay away from her for a month, then you have solved the problem, because the longer you stay with a lady, the more affection or desire you start having for her. When she finally leaves you, you will not be interested in picking others because at that time you will have clarity of mind about sex, and how its not the most important thing in life.
Poweredcom, come see this ogbologbo o 🙌
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Fujiyama: 7:50pm On Jan 17
PROPHETmichael:
Answer quickly, I'm on the mountain
^^^
grin
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Wotowotoman: 7:50pm On Jan 17
Lekby25:
Go and meet a true man of God. Let him lead you to Christ and give your life to Jesus. Receive the Holy Spirit thereafter and the Spirit of God will drive away that spirit of prostitution from you.
Like Indabosky Odumeje abi? 🤔
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by DaniDani(m): 7:59pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
I understand your predicament. If only you will follow strictly my tips, you will be free. Your deliverance/freedom may not be a snappy fast/furious approach, but gradually;
1. Go to God in sincere repentance and cry to Him for your deliverance.
2. Daily pray to God for deliverance. It's not a one time/day prayer. If you can, from time to time do prayer/fasting
3. If you can, sow a seed, the amount you can afford and ask God to accept your sacrifice and show you mercy unto deliverance.
4. Stop completely watching pornography or any content including nolllywood/social media that has pornography/explicit content.
5. Devote yourself to reading books. Start with the force of freedom by David Oyedepo, They Shall Expel Demons by Derek Prince, Deliverance from Spirit Wife/Husband by Dr D.K Olukoya, Marine Demon by John Eckardt.
6. Look for a Bible believing church that preaches Holiness and purity, do not go to social gathering church of dress as you like: Lords Chosen, Mountain of fire, Deeper Life Bible Church.

At all times, you must be angry with yourself over this situation and must be restless/uncomfortable, that is your gateway to total freedom. You can reach out me, I once faced similar situation, thanks to God for His Divine Mercy that found me
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Babaflenjor: 8:04pm On Jan 17
It is well my brother, but i will share my personal experience with you and how i got out of it
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by spiceadole(f): 8:08pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
How come patronising prostitutes is no longer a flex?

How come steady knacking is no longer a boast of sexual prowess?

Oga, please continue oh.

Don't stop.

It makes you more manly.
Man was meant to sleep with as many woman as he can possibly lay.

As long as you can afford the women, continue.
Brotherhood is proud of you
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by kot1917(m): 8:09pm On Jan 17
The substance of life is determined by a man's actions, no advice for you, 😭 time will tell
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Ishilove: 8:09pm On Jan 17
It has been just 17 days into the new year and you have already had coitus with over 20 prostitutes.

Mr Man, rush to MFM Prayer City, or Mountain Deborah in Osun state for deliverance. Your case is an emergency.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Isholad11(m): 8:09pm On Jan 17
I truly relate with you. I have been there but God rescued me. Though yours is so chronic, but the power of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ is more powerful to break any addiction. Chat me up 07032223241
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by yvesboss(m): 8:14pm On Jan 17
What you need is JESUS my brother

JESUS
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Mcslize: 8:19pm On Jan 17
You need spiritual deliverance. Your problem is not physical.

But if you think you can solve it by taking physical medications, think twice.

Womanising is a spiritual problem not physical. I meant the chronic womanising where you don't have control over yourself. If you can still control yourself, it means yours hasn't graduated into the chronic one.

Such a person hasn't been entangled with demonic spirits. The person is still normal cuz he can control himself to an extent.

Don't let any mother fucker deceive you that it's normal. No, it's not normal, when you just can't help it or control yourself.

You think all the girls you sleep with are humans or normal human beings? Dey play.

70% of people you see on a daily basis walking in the street, not all are normal human beings. Many belong to one spiritual cult or union or the other with different kinds of powers and assignments.

Try and read the Bible any time you feel the urge. Let's start from there.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Oluwomonext212(m): 8:25pm On Jan 17
It’s so unfortunate that nobody can help you out of any addiction better than yourself. People can only talk to you, the responsibilities to take action or repent all lean on your shoulders. When you are ready to put a stop to anything you don’t like, nobody can stop you 👌
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by KayCee92(m): 8:37pm On Jan 17
CodeTemplarr:
Day 17.

20 customers.

Legendary.
grin, the guy is on fire. Firing on all cylinders. Lol.
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Ponmoalata: 8:38pm On Jan 17
Start fasting and praying

Its spiritual
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Adeyeyeaki(m): 8:46pm On Jan 17
There is no big deal my dear. It is possible if you want to.. Let's talk better but you can do these few things, change the circle of friends that you keep, delete any phonographic pictures you have on your phone that's they starting point. Others are simple as ABC
Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by ReacherSaidNoth: 8:53pm On Jan 17
Icekid94:
1. Delete all their contacts.
2. Find a genuine love: You're going back to them because you're probably lonely and in need of love. Sex cannot make up for the absence of love.
3. Stop watching porn by all means and avoid anything that makes you desire sex. You may also need to unfollow some accounts on Social media.
3. Tackle the root problem. If you are doing it as a way to deal with a bigger issue e.g getting out of frustration or depression, try to tackle the underlying issue.
Good analysis and practical advice
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