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CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests Adedamola Adewale "Adeherself", 4 Others For Internet Fraud by darediamond(m): 12:28am On Jun 17, 2020
Firstorderwizard:
Children of the fallen angel will not disappoint undecided
High
Amaka we are both in it 2geda.
You wan run back to Israel??
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests Adedamola Adewale "Adeherself", 4 Others For Internet Fraud by darediamond(m): 12:23am On Jun 17, 2020
Uyi168:
....
Afonja amaka..
Make I observe well..
Yes ooo. No Igbo and Yoruba, No Noijiriya!!!!


But cum, that your combination of names no be small thing oo grin grin grin

"Afonja Amaka"
Na pesin name e fit be oo grin grin
TravelRe: How A Nigerian Lady Landed In Europe Because Of 80 Naira Sachet Milk by darediamond(m): 12:15am On Jun 17, 2020
DenreleDave:
See better ladies.. Not like Onyi22.......
You know that golddiger 2?

TravelRe: How A Nigerian Lady Landed In Europe Because Of 80 Naira Sachet Milk by darediamond(m): 12:13am On Jun 17, 2020
DaddyMorenike:
If I say what's on my mind now, they will say I have come.
Shebi last last Na straf she straf the white man for hotel.
Abi oo bros. She no go there to play oo. Na balls she go there to repeatedly empty!!
CelebritiesRe: Naira Marley: FG Suspends Flight Company Indefinitely For Flying Singer To Abuja by darediamond(m): 6:33pm On Jun 15, 2020
He was formerly Troubling Lagos, now, He don go National.
Soon he go move to AfriNational before causing Intercontinel TROUBLES.
Na then you all go know say this NAIRA MARLEY Boy be Ojujuu!!
PoliticsRe: El-Rufai’s Email Saying Southern Women Youth Corpers Are Seen As Whores - Reno by darediamond(m): 9:01pm On Jun 14, 2020
PoliticsRe: El-Rufai’s Email Saying Southern Women Youth Corpers Are Seen As Whores - Reno by darediamond(m): 8:55pm On Jun 14, 2020
ican2020:
Southern girls and more responsible than their northern counter part.

Do you know that most of these northern girls don't wear pant, for quick action
.

My brief stay in Lafia opened my eyes to how promiscuous most of these northern girls are.
CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by darediamond(m): 8:45pm On Jun 14, 2020
Apart from the Legality jargons, ladies should know that he paid that dowry which is first and foremost Sexually Oriented.

Abi is it not that you want him to pay before he start spoon away your stew?

Now he paid you now start to say stories. Who does that?
CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by darediamond(m): 8:33pm On Jun 14, 2020
bloomstar:
That tweet where that lady was calling anita a fool is too outrageous, all i see in the tweet is hatred. So much hatred.

We put more concern and so much energy on some less meaningless things...

Wife should be submissive to the husband. It's simple as abc, if you know you cant, why say i do in the first place?

I mean we should be more concern that Nigeria is heading to doom. Imagine tinubu and atiku contesting again for presidency?
Wahala ma wa de bayii ooo!!
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CrimeRe: Anita Joseph: "Your Husband Can't Rape You" - Actress Dismisses Marital Rape by darediamond(m): 8:31pm On Jun 14, 2020
Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?
grin grin grin grin it becomes moody ni.
grin kaimona!!!
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EducationRe: Is Animal Science A Good Course?? by darediamond(m): 6:39pm On Jun 14, 2020
Dididrumz:
No.

There are no Good or bad courses. There's just You and your mindset.
The MOST SENSIBLE REPLY WHICH BUTRESS ***BEING INNOVATIVELY CREATIVE***
EducationRe: Is Animal Science A Good Course?? by darediamond(m): 6:36pm On Jun 14, 2020
DavSagacity:
Am a proud animal scientist. Studied Animal Nutrition @ FUNAAB and had my M.sc in Agricultural Biochemistry at U.I .
This last few month really opened my eyes to alot of things particularly how important farming is.
I work in An integrated Farm as the manager and during this lockdown, I placed an advert on social media for job opportunities. People with B.Tech, B. Engineer, and political science graduate applied for farm attendant Job.
The pandemic lead to alot of company and industries to lay off some of their staffs and there is massive unemployment in town at the moment. but farmers are still working, birds are still laying eggs and our staffs and labourers are still earning and meeting their needs.

My guy just study hard and ensure u know the tifun tedo of animal science, the technical know-how and u are good to go.

Respect to all Engineers and Polical scientists in the house. No harm intended.
His
Kini which apology are you tendering enh?
You owe no one any apology especially Eng. and Pol.Sci people. Stop farming and see all of us starve to death (God Forbid)

AGBE LOBA JARE!!!
KOSI SI AGBE, KOSI OUNJE.
OKUN INU NI A FI UN GBE TI ITA (Iye ti ounje bawa).
PoliticsRe: 2023: Sagay Fumes Over Clamour For Presidency To Remain In North by darediamond(m): 6:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
Sleevia:
when Tinubu betrayed GEJ HE WAS NOT A SABOTEUR abi?
Tinubu is a Political Businessman. If not he would not have listened to OBJ to use Ribadu as presidential candidate of ACN in 2011 so as to favour GEJ.
Tinubu aligns with the highest Bidder.
If he and is God-father OBJ, and others from SouthWest want to kill APC, they know what to do.
The North of yesterday is not the Nort of today.
kastina people are even now protesting against there own in the name of Buhari. Does that not tell you something.
Middle Beltans especially Benue, Do not see themselves as part of North.
Those are the seed of discord yielding fruits now which was planted by our own O.B.J.

North can't dare try Rulling Nigeria forever when SouthWest is still part of Nigeria. No ganisaying. They can not dare it!!
PoliticsRe: 2023: Sagay Fumes Over Clamour For Presidency To Remain In North by darediamond(m): 6:12pm On Jun 14, 2020
seunmsg:
Justice and equity demands that APC should give its ticket to somebody from a region where the party is popular and accepted and not to a region that has demonized and done everything humanly possible to crush the party. Do you agree?
Wao!
Meeen!!!!!
Love �
PoliticsRe: 2023: Sagay Fumes Over Clamour For Presidency To Remain In North by darediamond(m): 6:07pm On Jun 14, 2020
RTSC:
Tinubu will never be president.
...because?
PoliticsRe: Atiku Woos Godwin Obaseki To Join PDP by darediamond(m): 6:00am On Jun 14, 2020
Drabeey:
Lol

Atiku wooed, like that wasn't his better chance grin

Anyway, there was a thread earlier about what to do different if i become Naija president. This was my response.


First of, i will announce on inaugural that every person with Nigeria's wealth is free to have it but they can do well by investing it massively in Nigeria. Any other corrupt practice hence attracts death penalty

Second is to cut every proceeds of oil.... every proceeds of oil after the 13% has been given back to the state must go into Health and Educational sector, for three years.

Third, i will organize people to make genuine Reform of the Constitution. How?

They would be drawn from all walks of life, from the last man on the street to the professor in our schools.
A. Every Ethinic group must come up with a document that shows their aspirations, collective goals.
B. Every group must conduct a free and fair election that would produce people to fill the constitution reform forum.

After all this... then we can change our own curriculum to that that suits the documents tendered by the Ethinic groups.

Then after 3 years of all. Every part of Nigeria that feels like leaving are free to. After which True federalism will be in place. Every state should keep its resources.

Then how will Fg fare.... Every state must pay 20% derivatives back to the federation account.

We only need the senate that must consists of 5 people each from every state. (Constitution reform will enhance this).

What do i even know?


Dra was here
You are REAL.
LiteratureRe: Ijeoma Oluo's "So You Want To Talk About Race" Is New York Number 1 Bestseller by darediamond(m): 5:48am On Jun 14, 2020
Depressed101:
your master degree is useless if you don't know any northern female writer, throw it away.
Stop Ranting. Act like a Master by mentioning there NAMES and the Book they wrote respectively.
CelebritiesRe: Zlatan Ibile Blasts Kizz Daniel, Joeboy And Burna Boy by darediamond(m): 4:29pm On Jun 13, 2020
Ismcandy:
The seasonal film is about to be shooting
No, it would soon be shooted by ZlaaZla...Zzzz...lantan himself.
What am I say self? grin grin grin
HealthRe: Genotype: The First Thing To Ask If A Guy Seeks To Have A Relationship With You by darediamond(m): 4:15pm On Jun 13, 2020
Eulalia:
Please this an advice to all AS genotype peeps. Especially the girls.

Whenever a guy shows interest in you and wants to strike a relationship, please the first thing you should enquire is his genotype. YES! It won't make you come across as desperate but will save you a lot of brouhaha in the future in case you decide to take things to the next level. Ask ask ask. Phew!

Some might say its not necessary or its too early to do so but I tell you its not. because you do not know the day the love will crawl up on you and then you want to have this fellow for keeps only to discover very late and then to let go becomes an issue and then you have to contend with a force driving you into obvious danger. Our emotions cannot be controlled as you don't know how and when it will metamorphose into the next level hence the need to pop the question before our emotions betray us.

My advise to every AS carriers. Do not lose hope.
Don't throw caution to the wind cos it might back fire and you would wish you never did.
Don't see your genotype as a barrier or limitation. In fact, we are healthier than AA carriers according to studies as we hardly suffer malaria. I might not be able to explain the science behind that now but its true. Do your research. So no cause for alarm as with the compatible genotype, we can have healthy babies and be free from stories that touch. grin

This is just my two cents. smiley

Shalom.
"Your Man Only Owe You Courtesy And Not Maintenance" Reno Omokri Throws Bombshell To Girlfriend

https://www..com/talk/topic,464850.0.html
RomanceRe: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by darediamond(m): 8:33pm On Jun 12, 2020
luminouz:
U dey vex for the guy? grin
Nooo.
RomanceRe: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by darediamond(m): 7:58pm On Jun 12, 2020
onwuakpachris:
back then in scl..there was this my female neighbour that was ever pestering me to start dating her.. babe was pretty sha...very light skinned wit lovely U shaped legs..but I js wasn't into her cus she was js too manipulative nd slutty 4 my liking...she tried every tactic to get me but I remained as solid as d rock of Gibraltar..then one night she slipped into my room as usual to watch telemundo...while watching d very romantic movie..she became so hot that she left her seat..came nd laid down on my bed..where I was lying down..nd started caressing me while urging me on..I looked her straight in d eyes..called her name nd said "look I'm gay...so js leave me d fvck alone".. she looked at me harshly 4 a while..sighed..went back to her seat nd continued watching t.v without saying a single word....I wz js wickedly smiling at her..lol...I'm not gay o..I'm as straight as six O'Clock sharp.. but I js didn't need no girl to use sex as a tool to start manipulating me...I hate it when naija girls think their pussies make em so special..so irresistible... what nonsense...
Serious Nonsense!!!
We sere meen!��
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri To Buhari: You Are Always In Shock, We Don't Need A Shock Absorber by darediamond(m): 6:45pm On Jun 12, 2020
NextPresido:
The way bubu dey shock he can supply 24hrs electricity to the whole Nigeria
What!?
grin grin walai, you no well!
grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: President Buhari Has Failed Nigerians – Arewa Youth Group by darediamond(m): 8:42am On Jun 12, 2020
Wolgrace:
Northerners are the architects of their woes. Do you know why GEJ was radically evicted and fanatically enthroned Buhari? Study their motives and ideologies brother.
Reading the Arewa "talkish talk", I am firefighting of GEJ.
Hmmm... Northern Ni/ge/row is really "home of LAWLESSNESS"
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: President Buhari Has Failed Nigerians – Arewa Youth Group by darediamond(m): 8:38am On Jun 12, 2020
Wolgrace:
Northerners failed the North.. The insurgents lives within and around you, you all flock and frolick together as brothers because extremism, fanatism, and violence are the epitomes of your belief system.

You all cause the stormy wind, now you are shifting blame when its rainy heavily. Family issues and blame games though.

Sort yourself!
Gbam!!!
RomanceRe: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by darediamond(m): 8:27am On Jun 12, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
excuse me.
I was talking about not being able to settle for less,for a guy that cannot feed himself,and suddenly,I have an entitlement mentality.
Yes,leave it like that,lemme feel entitled.
It is better to be tagged entitled than to settle with a guy that cannot feed himself,and that is clearly not financially ready to settle down.
Eeem.... Sister/Aunty, you see Matrimony is not only about the Man. It as well about the WOMAN too.

Therefore what you want in your man must be IN YOU FIRST.

A RESPOSIBLE MAN who keep dating and later marries a girl/lady/woman that can not "Feed herself and and himself comfortably especially during courtship is TOTALY AND HORRIBLY IRRESPONSIBLE.

A RESPONSIBLE MAN who date and marries a girl/lady/woman "that is clearly not financially ready to settle down" is an IRRESPONSIBLE MAN AS WELL.

A RESPONSIBLE MAN -who date and marries a girl/lady/woman that is clearly financially ready to settle down but LACKS OTHER WIFEY CHARMING QUALITIES ESPECIALLY IN CHARACTER - is an IRRESPONSIBLE MAN TOTALLY BECAUSE meaningful families makes a meaningful COMMUNITY. And meaningful COMMUNITIES makes a Meaningful TOWN etc.
CrimeRe: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by darediamond(m): 6:30pm On Jun 11, 2020
uruba23:
Actually every paramilitary and military organization is a cult of its own kind just different modus operandi
Practically !!
RomanceRe: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by darediamond(m): 5:18pm On Jun 11, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
so we should be declaring our undying love to a guy that cannot feed himself abi undecided
Abeg shift one side jare.
Mtchewww
There you go Stupid again trying to be sensible!!
Reverend Funke Adetuberu who anchored "She Matters" on a popular F.M station once said anyone with entitlement mentality is "an acute FOOL." !!
And does relationship ought not be a Mutual thing that is devoid of using it to end any level of POVERTY IN YOUR LIFE as a reasonable lady?

Wait, your gender name is feMALE/woMAN while while his male/man. The manliness in your gender name calls for Resposibilities just as his.
Infact, it is 50%/50%.

Looking for a Readymade? Are you MADE yourself?
Be sincere with yourself.
RomanceRe: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by darediamond(m): 4:22pm On Jun 11, 2020
Mentality of 98% of Ladies who unknowingly fall for MARRIED MEN are the ones after READYMADE GUYS!!!

That is just the Pure Fact.
CelebritiesRe: Defunct Mo'Hits Artistes Reunite At D’banj’s 40th Birthday Party by darediamond(m): 8:59am On Jun 11, 2020
Tonymegabush1:
Nland home of comic relief.... grin grin grin
grin grin You enh? grin
CelebritiesRe: Defunct Mo'Hits Artistes Reunite At D’banj’s 40th Birthday Party by darediamond(m): 3:17am On Jun 11, 2020
Tonymegabush1:
Back in those days, the crew making sense.


D'banj will be like, "am D'banj" as if person dey drag the name with am...
grin grin
Nairalanders Hmmm!!!!!
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RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by darediamond(m): 2:58am On Jun 11, 2020
Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.
In the gender name woMan, there is the word MAN.
That denones responsibilities for the WOMAN too.
Those responsibilities when it comes to matrimony includes Financial commitment amongst other things.
Matrimony is 50/50 thing. 50 for the male and 50 for the feMALE. But he being stronger could do her a FAVOUR of shouldering 60% while leaving for her 40%.

The critical analytical statement above is not what most Nigerian Ladies and even there MUMS inclusive understand about Dating, Marriage, Matrimony and Marital Life. And that is WOEFUL!! SO SO HORRIBLE!!
Why? There will never be a Balance in a home that do not keep to the rule of 50/50 or 55/45 or 60/40. And when there is no balance there will always be issues.

The forgoing factor is the major concern Smart Men/Guys do use as yardstick to determine there life partner.
He will surely come forward to propose if he sees that you truly have a balanced view of MATRIMONY and it accompanying spousal responsibilities.
Not that because He is the head of the Home, he should now be the Sole Provider of the Family. No it should not be because ***HE PROVIDES THE SPEARM, YOU DONATE YOUR EGG TO BRING ABOUT A CHILD****
In addition to all I said, the quoted post below is Powerfully made for you!!
Beatswim:
from my own perspective here, it seems u are the problem here, this guy has seen something about u that he can never live with hence he threw the option
of babymama for u to decide and from your own upbringing, he knows u can never accept it.. My advice is check yourself well before entering another relationship becos this your boyfriend is 35... Shows hes more matured and experienced than u.. Here are somethings u need to check
-men love women that can cooperate with them in responsibility of a home.. If u are have the mentality that its the responsibility of a man to do everything at home.. Check it
Are u clean? Men observe this things.. U may not know.. Some ladies have terrible smell after intercouse hence the guy swears never to marry them
Character... Some ladies are mannerless and haughty and spontaneous mood swings.. Check this
Imcompatible sex life... Some ladies are so insatiable and have higher drive than their partners.. Never unleash all your sex capabilities now that u are courting hence he thinks he might not be able to cope later.
Lastly communication.. are you secretive?if yes pls check it.. I wish u well as u check this things

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